Please dont call me dear...

[ironman111]

why do the ladies call us punters DEAR, it reminds me of my youth when the so called more intelligent ,wealthy, people used to address us peasants.., always hated that word, now i luv ,DARLING,OR MY LOVE, food for thought

[MidlifeCrisis]

Goes with the territory - "Dear", "Hun", "Babe", "Darling" etc. It is not meant in any negative way, so don't let it annoy you.

[ana massage]

why do the ladies call us punters DEAR, it reminds me of my youth when the so called more intelligent ,wealthy, people used to address us peasants.., always hated that word, now i luv ,DARLING,OR MY LOVE, food for thought

I hate when they call me "pet".
I normally address my clients with "hun" or "babe"

[Curvaceous Kate]

I have never called anyone dear. More likely to call you 'oi'

[EIFII]

I hate being called "Hun" or honey. I will always introduce myself and then expect the lady to use my name. Anything else is impersonal and discourteous

[MidlifeCrisis]

I hate being called "Hun" or honey. I will always introduce myself and then expect the lady to use my name. Anything else is impersonal and discourteous

Hardly discourteous! They mean well, and for many of us it feels weird to be called by the name we give them.

[Curvaceous Kate]

Hardly discourteous! They mean well, and for many of us it feels weird to be called by the name we give them.

Would that be John or Paddy?

[EIFII]

Hardly discourteous! They mean well, and for many of us it feels weird to be called by the name we give them.

I guess we're all different. Weird not to use the name given I reckon

[westerner04]

I quite like being called pet names by girls. A few that I am in PM conversation with use pet names and it's nice. I may use my own back too. Each of the girls I've met so far I just used their name when I was with them, and I will continue with that.

[sixfourblond]

I confess I love it when they call me bitch!