Escorts have an negative effect on your relationship with your partner

[themanofwar]

Would you agree or not, I think it can have some negative effects on a relationship

[Jakek]

Totally disconnected for me emotionally

Helps the sex though - you pick up new ideas and techniques then go home and ride the missus - brilliant!

[Genie in a Bottle]

doesn't help a relationship at all but so difficult to quit

[rincewind]

The fact alone that us married men feel the need to visit escorts already means that the marital relationship is damaged in some way already.
I'm can only go one of two ways after that. Deepen the rift and lead to a break up, or ease the fustration on the mans part and reduce the tension in the home.
Just a thought.

[TonyB]

The fact alone that us married men feel the need to visit escorts already means that the marital relationship is damaged in some way already.
I'm can only go one of two ways after that. Deepen the rift and lead to a break up, or ease the fustration on the mans part and reduce the tension in the home.
Just a thought.

Exactly. If a man visits escorts he's doing his wife a favour and saving their relationship.

[Stevenn]

The fact alone that us married men feel the need to visit escorts already means that the marital relationship is damaged in some way already.
I'm can only go one of two ways after that. Deepen the rift and lead to a break up, or ease the fustration on the mans part and reduce the tension in the home.
Just a thought.

You limit yourself to those two options because you want to ease your own conscience and convince yourself that what you are doing is in some way the right thing to do. How about a third option? Ever consider talking to your wife perhaps and perhaps fixing the damage you've mentioned??

Exactly. If a man visits escorts he's doing his wife a favour and saving their relationship.

I don't think a wife would see it that way. Total cop out and another another lie that married men tell themselves to ease their conscience. Laughable really when you think about it.

[Cassandra]

Would you agree or not, I think it can have some negative effects on a relationship

huh. I think you need to look at your relationship first then look at the symptoms of your dissatisfaction.
The most beautiful thing for me, has to be couples who punt together. The depth of their love being so strong as they can reveal all and still be in love. If seeing escorts leaves you wanting more in the bedroom department and this trumps all other benefits of being with your current partner then you need to sit down and get real. T-t-talk.

[tom sand]

for me
they made it better
my life
i have no partner

[Hagane00]

huh. I think you need to look at your relationship first then look at the symptoms of your dissatisfaction.
The most beautiful thing for me, has to be couples who punt together. The depth of their love being so strong as they can reveal all and still be in love. If seeing escorts leaves you wanting more in the bedroom department and this trumps all other benefits of being with your current partner then you need to sit down and get real. T-t-talk.

You're such a romantic Cass

Hope you're enjoying the long weekend

[Cassandra]

You're such a romantic Cass

Hope you're enjoying the long weekend

I am indeed sweetie