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    Sometimes I would like to revisit an escort but something holds me back?

    Is it my lack of social skills?
    Is it a fear that l was a pain in the ass on the first visit?
    Is it that I do want to get friendly with an escort?
    Is it that I'd be afraid the second appointment would not be as good as the first?


    I don't know - can't think straight!
    Seek and you shall find!

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    Quote Originally Posted by UB40 View Post
    Sometimes I would like to revisit an escort but something holds me back?

    Is it my lack of social skills?
    Is it a fear that l was a pain in the ass on the first visit?
    Is it that I do want to get friendly with an escort?
    Is it that I'd be afraid the second appointment would not be as good as the first?


    I don't know - can't think straight!
    I can understand this. Must be difficult to see a girl very regularly without wanting to enhance the click connection.

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    Quote Originally Posted by UB40 View Post
    Sometimes I would like to revisit an escort but something holds me back?

    Is it my lack of social skills?
    Is it a fear that l was a pain in the ass on the first visit?
    Is it that I do want to get friendly with an escort?
    Is it that I'd be afraid the second appointment would not be as good as the first?


    I don't know - can't think straight!
    My social skills are terrible i need to change ha

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    If you find a girl you really enjoy visiting why would you let this sort of stuff get in the way of your enjoyment. I have visited the same girl over a dozen times and for me it just keeps getting better ( I certainly don't plan on stopping the visits any time soon). I think it's because I am more comfortable in her company than I would be visiting a new girl for the first time.

    Don't overthink it, if you enjoyed yourself visit her again.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Klittyliker View Post
    If you find a girl you really enjoy visiting why would you let this sort of stuff get in the way of your enjoyment. I have visited the same girl over a dozen times and for me it just keeps getting better ( I certainly don't plan on stopping the visits any time soon). I think it's because I am more comfortable in her company than I would be visiting a new girl for the first time.

    Don't overthink it, if you enjoyed yourself visit her again.
    Ok, good on you. I think I would have to feel that there was a real click before I could see someone 12 times.

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    There are escorts I have visited over a dozen times.
    Most escorts are very professional and know where the boundaries are.
    It has advantages. We both know each other well, for example, and know what to expect when we meet.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The dirt bird View Post
    Serious question: have you ever talked about it to the escort ? 12 is a lot of visits when does it stop being business and start being a relationship of some description ? You guys have to be good friends at this stage. I think it's great to be honest once the lines don't get blurred.
    We have actually talked about it. It will be the first anniversary of our first meeting soon which she reminded me of recently.

    It will of course always be business but we have managed to become friends after all this time. A friendship I really do value.

    You're right about being honest though, I think that we both have a lot of respect for each other and understand the nature of our relationship which helps keep things real.
    Last edited by Klittyliker; 28-05-15 at 23:51.

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    Quote Originally Posted by UB40 View Post
    Sometimes I would like to revisit an escort but something holds me back?

    Is it my lack of social skills? Nerves can cause that
    Is it a fear that l was a pain in the ass on the first visit? you get the vibe whether she thinks that or not
    Is it that I do want to get friendly with an escort? no harm as long as you keep thinking nothing going to come out of this...
    Is it that I'd be afraid the second appointment would not be as good as the first? second appointments usually are better as you and her feel more relaxed and at ease with each other


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    Most of my work is repeat bookings. I like it as I have a better knowledge of them and what turns them on and we are more relaxed with each other. It often surprises me how sometimes the best booking is 5 or 6 bookings along the line, just when you might imagine it might possibly be getting a bit stale.

    You can also feel more comfortable about trying things that you may have not felt confident to mention before once that connection has be cemented. That doesn't mean you have to be falling in love, but more going through a sexual journey together.

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    I have 3 regular.

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