What are you views on someone being submissive, weak or strong?

[slavetoyou]

[Genie in a Bottle]

is this about you?

I see it as only role play, has weak or strong really anything to do with it

[slavetoyou]

is this about you?

I see it as only role play, has weak or strong really anything to do with it

Some people confuse being submissive with being weak, I am just curious what people think.

[nonpareil]

If I were to be submissive- which is not my nature- I would choose to be so , it would not be imposed unilaterally.

[Genie in a Bottle]

Some people confuse being submissive with being weak, I am just curious what people think.

but probably a lot of hard strong men's fantasies would be to be dominated by a woman but for the rest of you it will happen sooner or later when we get married

[slavetoyou]

I would choose to be so.

It chooses you

[slavetoyou]

but probably a lot of hard strong men's fantasies would be to be dominated by a woman but for the rest of you it will happen sooner or later when we get married

Domination without the happy ending...

[Sensual Lauren]

I hear this from so many people especially 'strong and controlling men. however I have found that this theory is usually misunderstood. As I have many many submissives who are not quite 'so powerful and controlling in their lives yet they also want a woman to take control, very common myth, yet some truth to it, but I have had many a submissive with jobs are are not so powerful i and yet they still want to have an experience with a woman taking control. my expeience, that's all. L

I have a very masculine job. And all the people in my life are dependant on me and want me to be in control (although they would never admit it). It's good to be able to let go and give the power to someone else every now and again. It's a kind of safety valve I think for sanity when everybody is looking to you for leadership all the time.

[Sensual Lauren]

p.s . submission has nothing at all to do with weakness. It takes a strong person to have the courage to turn themselves over to a dominate person, be they a male or female.

[Pleasure seeker]

i think Sensual Lauren said it clear enough, submission has nothing to do with being a strong or week person,

there are different kinds of submission, there is play submission which most people understand and do, games in the bedroom.

there is submission that is constant between two people in a long term situation where the sub give control over to another, one must remember giving control as a submissive is not the same as being a slave, it does not mean everything the dominant says is done, the limits are set according to the people involved, each person is different, each couple is different, no one will ever desire or need the same things the same way.

be it play or genuine full on submission they are both built on the foundation of trust and respect.

and the funny thing is the person with the most control is the submissive, not the dominant