Is there a scammer in Belfast?

[tom sand]

Hi Kate, I paid a deposit, and just before I left to meet last night, I confirmed the deposit was received and that i was bringing the remainder in cash. Was told that I had to pay remainder in a second gift card, led me to believe that she had received counterfeit cash. I tried to assure her that I am not like that, but that was the way it had to be. So like a very good mark I paid as requested. then that was when everything went pear shaped, with the double booking and then the request that i switch to an overnight and more amoney. So after alot of chat back and forth a fee was agreed and again paid even though I kept insisting on meeting in person first, and then would make the transfer.
All the time alarm bells were going off, but a certain part of my anatomy was making the decisions.
I've tried everything to resolve this, offering to meet for a shorter appointment for the money already paid, meet and pay difference, the whole 9 yards, but its her way or nothing.
I thought that this was a mutual decision making process, where a fee is agreed upon, especially when a price is requested and various options are offered and you both agree on a length of appointment and the price.
This lady (used with me biting my lip) is going to ruin the Belfast scene by her acting like this. And I have spoken to her. I also reported her to the two advertising sites that I have seen her on. Someone said go to the police, well she is banking on me not doing so through the embarassment factor, well I'm not married or in any sort of relationship, thats why I use working girls from time to time, they are fun and can be very good company. My reviews show that I'm not that hard to please, I just ask for honesty (well as much as you good ladies can give us punters), and 99% of the time I have got this, just a few minor blips, but I've only walked away with a few regrets about the service received and in each case I've received a service of some kind.
So what do I do, I've lost a considerable amount of money ( approx 2 hrs of theaverage going rate in Belfast). I've got no come back, as in the money will not be returned,just the "promise" of a meeting if I send more money.
Sorry for the language, but I'm completly pissed off, cause that money could have been used to visit someone else or even spend on me or something else........... This are difficukt times with people starving and this b*tch has taken me for a ride

man
put the cost down to a lession
you paid and learnt it well
now you are better off
you wont do it again
lesson learnt
school over

[ana massage]

Hi Kate, I paid a deposit, and just before I left to meet last night, I confirmed the deposit was received and that i was bringing the remainder in cash. Was told that I had to pay remainder in a second gift card, led me to believe that she had received counterfeit cash. I tried to assure her that I am not like that, but that was the way it had to be. So like a very good mark I paid as requested. then that was when everything went pear shaped, with the double booking and then the request that i switch to an overnight and more amoney. So after alot of chat back and forth a fee was agreed and again paid even though I kept insisting on meeting in person first, and then would make the transfer.
All the time alarm bells were going off, but a certain part of my anatomy was making the decisions.
I've tried everything to resolve this, offering to meet for a shorter appointment for the money already paid, meet and pay difference, the whole 9 yards, but its her way or nothing.
I thought that this was a mutual decision making process, where a fee is agreed upon, especially when a price is requested and various options are offered and you both agree on a length of appointment and the price.
This lady (used with me biting my lip) is going to ruin the Belfast scene by her acting like this. And I have spoken to her. I also reported her to the two advertising sites that I have seen her on. Someone said go to the police, well she is banking on me not doing so through the embarassment factor, well I'm not married or in any sort of relationship, thats why I use working girls from time to time, they are fun and can be very good company. My reviews show that I'm not that hard to please, I just ask for honesty (well as much as you good ladies can give us punters), and 99% of the time I have got this, just a few minor blips, but I've only walked away with a few regrets about the service received and in each case I've received a service of some kind.
So what do I do, I've lost a considerable amount of money ( approx 2 hrs of theaverage going rate in Belfast). I've got no come back, as in the money will not be returned,just the "promise" of a meeting if I send more money.
Sorry for the language, but I'm completly pissed off, cause that money could have been used to visit someone else or even spend on me or something else........... This are difficukt times with people starving and this b*tch has taken me for a ride

I understand your frustration but it is entirely your fault.
She can try but it all depends on you guys if you take the crap or not.
When she told you she wants the full pay before it should've ring a bell in your head that something is wrong
Many girls ask for a deposit before meeting but not a 100% pay before meeting
Move on and try not to do the same mistake again.

[Curvaceous Kate]

Hi Kate, I paid a deposit, and just before I left to meet last night, I confirmed the deposit was received and that i was bringing the remainder in cash. Was told that I had to pay remainder in a second gift card, led me to believe that she had received counterfeit cash. I tried to assure her that I am not like that, but that was the way it had to be. So like a very good mark I paid as requested. then that was when everything went pear shaped, with the double booking and then the request that i switch to an overnight and more amoney. So after alot of chat back and forth a fee was agreed and again paid even though I kept insisting on meeting in person first, and then would make the transfer.
All the time alarm bells were going off, but a certain part of my anatomy was making the decisions.
I've tried everything to resolve this, offering to meet for a shorter appointment for the money already paid, meet and pay difference, the whole 9 yards, but its her way or nothing.
I thought that this was a mutual decision making process, where a fee is agreed upon, especially when a price is requested and various options are offered and you both agree on a length of appointment and the price.
This lady (used with me biting my lip) is going to ruin the Belfast scene by her acting like this. And I have spoken to her. I also reported her to the two advertising sites that I have seen her on. Someone said go to the police, well she is banking on me not doing so through the embarassment factor, well I'm not married or in any sort of relationship, thats why I use working girls from time to time, they are fun and can be very good company. My reviews show that I'm not that hard to please, I just ask for honesty (well as much as you good ladies can give us punters), and 99% of the time I have got this, just a few minor blips, but I've only walked away with a few regrets about the service received and in each case I've received a service of some kind.
So what do I do, I've lost a considerable amount of money ( approx 2 hrs of theaverage going rate in Belfast). I've got no come back, as in the money will not be returned,just the "promise" of a meeting if I send more money.
Sorry for the language, but I'm completly pissed off, cause that money could have been used to visit someone else or even spend on me or something else........... This are difficukt times with people starving and this b*tch has taken me for a ride

I think you are probably angry with yourself, because you know you let your little man make a very silly decision on your behalf.

As far as I can see you paid for the booking, so you should be able to write a review and you should, or does she not accept reviews either?

[Mayfairsmoker]

no Kate she is not on this site, appears on backpage

[Curvaceous Kate]

no Kate she is not on this site, appears on backpage

Did you not ask her if she had any reviews to check her credibility? Numpty!

[Mayfairsmoker]

Hi Ana, i agree with you partially, I am angry with me, but also with her.
She has been so inflexible after cancelling, due to the double booking and the whole changing the nature of the appointment. Then agreeing a second time, only to change the rules again.
But your right time to move on.....

[Mayfairsmoker]

No Kate, I did not..... Thanks for the pep talk..... can we get to the peppy part soon. lol

[Curvaceous Kate]

No Kate, I did not..... Thanks for the pep talk..... can we get to the peppy part soon. lol

lol you really are a glutton for punishment.


Seriously it sounds like all the re-arranging and double booking is all excuses. You sound too trusting.

[Mayfairsmoker]

Well do you ladies not expect us to respect and trust you? so yes I'm a naive little boy, who really needs to get his act together. LOL

[nonpareil]

Have only once met an escort scammer bout a year ago who came across from England (but was not English)and spent a short time here with her husband/pimp hidden in the background. You would meet her but she would try and extract mobile phones, laptops (pricey ones of course) and as much money as she thought she might get from you using sob stories.Every other escort I have met has appeared totally honest and above board but then I live and die by reviews.
I have never been asked for a deposit and would find it so unusual that I would probably pass.