Women versus Men needing sex!

[Curvaceous Kate]

Seems the generally attitude is that women don't need or want sex as much as men, but... for every man getting sex, there is usually a woman having sex with them (unless they're into guys that is).

So... why is it that men see Escorts and the majority of women don't?

I think it's about boxes that need ticking.

A guy needs to tick box A and box B to get to = Sex

Where as a lady needs to tick box A, B, C & D to get to = Sex.

It doesn't mean the urge or the desire is not there, but as women are generally governed by their emotions and men are more linear and logical thinking they have a more direct route to their desire. Whereas us ladies are still going round in circles getting what we need emotionally before we can get there.

Of course there are always exceptions to the rule on both sides.

That's my theory... what's yours and why?

[nonpareil]

Seems the generally attitude is that women don't need or want sex as much as men, but... for every man getting sex, there is usually a woman having sex with them (unless they're into guys that is).

So... why is it that men see Escorts and the majority of women don't?

I think it's about boxes that need ticking.

A guy needs to tick box A and box B to get to = Sex

Where as a lady needs to tick box A, B, C & D to get to = Sex.

It doesn't mean the urge or the desire is not there, but as women are generally governed by their emotions and men are more linear and logical thinking they have a more direct route to their desire. Whereas us ladies are still going round in circles getting what we need emotionally before we can get there.

Of course there are always exceptions to the rule on both sides.

That's my theory... what's yours and why?

Using linear and logical thinking

I agree

[bendmychasis]

Seems the generally attitude is that women don't need or want sex as much as men, but... for every man getting sex, there is usually a woman having sex with them (unless they're into guys that is).

So... why is it that men see Escorts and the majority of women don't?

I think it's about boxes that need ticking.

A guy needs to tick box A and box B to get to = Sex

Where as a lady needs to tick box A, B, C & D to get to = Sex.

It doesn't mean the urge or the desire is not there, but as women are generally governed by their emotions and men are more linear and logical thinking they have a more direct route to their desire. Whereas us ladies are still going round in circles getting what we need emotionally before we can get there.

Of course there are always exceptions to the rule on both sides.

That's my theory... what's yours and why?

no offense but you think tooooooo much

[Curvaceous Kate]

no offense but you think tooooooo much

Says the man who starts a thousand pointless threads!!!!

[funlover12]

Seems the generally attitude is that women don't need or want sex as much as men, but... for every man getting sex, there is usually a woman having sex with them (unless they're into guys that is).

So... why is it that men see Escorts and the majority of women don't?

I think it's about boxes that need ticking.

A guy needs to tick box A and box B to get to = Sex

Where as a lady needs to tick box A, B, C & D to get to = Sex.

It doesn't mean the urge or the desire is not there, but as women are generally governed by their emotions and men are more linear and logical thinking they have a more direct route to their desire. Whereas us ladies are still going round in circles getting what we need emotionally before we can get there.

Of course there are always exceptions to the rule on both sides.

That's my theory... what's yours and why?

goes back to the days before condoms, the pill, and societal help each other out outlooks. pregnancy is a huge life changing and burden for the female....for 9 months, raising the risks for her dying, versus we just shoot a load and let her fallopian tubes take care of the rest and aren't slowed down with body changes placing huge strain on our ability to survive.
so its in her interest to find a resourceful male provider to take the plunge with, for making a home and feeding her and the young'uns, thats the evolutionary answer and its similar nowadays just not as cut and dry, back then it was the difference between life and death, whereas now its the difference between a possible comfortable life and benefits with a much harder struggle....allegedly. Its ingrained in the DNA.

yous provide the quality control, and we provide the product.

[nonpareil]

The genetic imperative -to produce offspring.

A man can have sex with one hundred women and have a chance of producing 100 children (no twins).
A woman can have sex with 100 men and just get a sore bottom.
She can only produce one child in 9 months.
determined by resources
size - especially tall than her.
Dominance
Then maybe looks.
Hence the greater importance to her of getting the best possible mate that she can

[Curvaceous Kate]

The genetic imperative -to produce offspring.

A man can have sex with one hundred women and have a chance of producing 100 children (no twins).
A woman can have sex with 100 men and just get a sore bottom.
She can only produce one child in 9 months.
determined by resources
size - especially tall than her.
Dominance
Then maybe looks.
Hence the greater importance to her of getting the best possible mate that she can

I can see what you're getting at, but it doesn't work like that. We don't get urges only when we want to procreate, it happens even when pregnant, in fact some ladies have a higher sex drive while pregnant.

[nonpareil]

I can see what you're getting at, but it doesn't work like that. We don't get urges only when we want to procreate, it happens even when pregnant, in fact some ladies have a higher sex drive while pregnant.

We eat to fuel our bodies
We have sex to procreate
These are fundamental basic instincts
But most people that can also eat for pleasure.
Thus also for sex, we have sex because it's pleasurable.
We are more than our animal urges.
We have big brains that both allow us to rise above our animal instincts and to also derive great pleasure from those instincts.
Sex for pleasure and not just procreation, is also the glue that holds couples together even if it may not last.
The biological imperative behind this is to successfully rear children to adulthood.
Once you have done this you have completed evolutions job.
But we come together as a sum of parts and we tend to be more complex than just a n animal bundle of nerves and hormones.

[Curvaceous Kate]

We eat to fuel our bodies
We have sex to procreate
These are fundamental basic instincts
But most people that can also eat for pleasure.
Thus also for sex, we have sex because it's pleasurable.
We are more than our animal urges.
We have big brains that both allow us to rise above our animal instincts and to also derive great pleasure from those instincts.
Sex for pleasure and not just procreation, is also the glue that holds couples together even if it may not last.
The biological imperative behind this is to successfully rear children to adulthood.
Once you have done this you have completed evolutions job.
But we come together as a sum of parts and we tend to be more complex than just a n animal bundle of nerves and hormones.

That sounds almost poetic, but it does not account for me. My Son is 21. I would never have a child outside of marriage, as I believe that a child needs 2 parents and yet... My best and most exciting sexual years have been while single and not actively wanting to have a child. My child has grown up, I have no partner to use sex as glue with and yet I continue to enjoy and have sex (and not just for money). I was swinging for 4 years before I did this.

Your theory discounts my experience. I also do not intend to stop having sex after I have the menopause.

[Curvaceous Kate]

goes back to the days before condoms, the pill, and societal help each other out outlooks. pregnancy is a huge life changing and burden for the female....for 9 months, raising the risks for her dying, versus we just shoot a load and let her fallopian tubes take care of the rest and aren't slowed down with body changes placing huge strain on our ability to survive.
so its in her interest to find a resourceful male provider to take the plunge with, for making a home and feeding her and the young'uns, thats the evolutionary answer and its similar nowadays just not as cut and dry, back then it was the difference between life and death, whereas now its the difference between a possible comfortable life and benefits with a much harder struggle....allegedly. Its ingrained in the DNA.

yous provide the quality control, and we provide the product.

I can see why that would make women wary of having sex too freely, as the outcome could be very expensive and time consuming (bringing up a child), but that has nothing to do with sexual desire.