Dating escorts

[mexicanpete]

The word ‘dating’ in the thread title seems to upset some posters because they interpret this as meaning that I get sex for free.

This is absolutely not the case as I visit escorts because I want to pay for sex in cash and not in any other way. To be quite honest, paying the money gives me the option of ending the relationship without feeling bad about it.

You meet single girls everywhere and a small percentage will always come on to you. I think that they view a marriage ring as a challenge. They say ‘I don’t mind that you are married, I am happy to see you occasionally and have a good time’. It never works like that.

When a girl meets a man who enjoys making love to her (as distinct from fucking her), enjoys listening to her and enjoys shopping with her this equates in her mind to true love and an implied proposal of marriage. I would have left my wife at the drop of a hat but there is no woman that ever come close to tempting me to leave my kids.

I should say that there is nothing special about me when it comes to meeting girls except for the fact that I prefer the company of women whereas most men prefer hanging out with other men

Relationships with single girls always end in floods of tears and recriminations and my feeling very bad about myself for having hurt the girl. Paying a girl money keeps the relationship focussed. The times that I have stopped paying escorts directly for sex, I have ended up paying considerably more and with the exact same grief and recriminations at the end that I get from non-escorts.

The moral of the story is; always pay for the sex, it is far cheaper.

[Sexy Fernanda]

Its funny, when you girls think you know everything about the clients.... Loll

No further comments .

Westside.

I know nothing about mine clients ,only the things they choose to tell you . To which will stay fresh on my mind for a week or two ,then I've to clean up my memory from useless information to storage new ones.

Do you visit escorts at all? Or you post on EI as your pass time?

[Sexy Fernanda]

The world would less dramatic if people on the civil world would less conic and admit man pay for sex one way or another.

Some ladies I know back home (I don't come from a poor background) only date guys with high positions,one house in the city and another on the beach and go on.If the guy doesn't cover those ''basic '' requests they wouldn't even consider going on a first date. I'm sure if I told then what I do,they would judge me big time but is totally acceptable what they do and they don't like to be called gold diggers ; the other day one of those girls got piss off at me when I called her that.

You might think oh she is jealous of those ladies. I'm not . I rather charge a hour fee for a guy to see me than pretend ''love'' to have expensive trips and gifts plus fancy dinning . I can do all that on my own without the need to put up with a guy only for their money . Never be able to do it and don't think someday I'll. I see then the same than escorts but without the label .

[Petros]

The word ‘dating’ in the thread title seems to upset some posters because they interpret this as meaning that I get sex for free.

The thing about the word "date" is that while many clients perceive it to mean being in a relationship with someone and seeing them regularly and probably getting sex for free many escorts use the word in both their profiles and comments on reviews as an alternative for "booking" or "appointment".

"Dating" in turn would be an alternative for "bookings" or "appointments". There is one lady who I see regularly and she uses the word "date" to describe our meetings sometimes — I had not thought about this before as I know it means "appointment"

[Westsidex]

Do you visit escorts at all? Or you post on EI as your pass time?

no I dont visit escorts and yep I post here to pass some of my time If you look at it that way. I post on other sites too but not escort related ones.

Westside.

[Sexy Fernanda]

no I dont visit escorts and yep I post here to pass some of my time If you look at it that way. I post on other sites too but not escort related ones.

Westside.

Where does your knowledge about escorts come from again ?

[Sensual Lauren]

you may want to date your dentist and when he asks and takes you to dinner do you still expect dental services for free?

The question of dating escorts came up in the course of another thread and I thought that posters opinions and experiences in this regard deserved its own thread
In my experience there is a fundamental difference between dating escorts and dating non-escorts. It is not the difference that you are thinking because you always pay for sex in one way or another. The difference is that escorts tend to be open to friendship whereas girls that one might meet at work or in a club tend to be looking for love.
Escorts in the main are intelligent businesswomen following a life goal and the last thing that they want is some man trying to ‘make an honest woman out of them’ or ‘take them away from it all’. Many of them are in the business to get away from or be independent from men that wanted to control them. ‘Love’ is a dangerous word for an escort because today’s lover can easily be tomorrow’s stalker/psycho. If you want to ‘woo’ an escort you must first convince her that you do not love her, you just want her body!!
Ironically, escorting can be a lonely profession and many escorts are open to simple fun and friendship with someone who respects them and respects what they do. Looks tend to be less important to an escort than to other girls. I think that escorts learn to appreciate people more for what they are than what they look like.
I often see the idea touted here that escorts are all hard hearted bitches who are only interested in money. Of course escorts are interested in money as it is their business and why should they treat their business any differently to how a client treats his. That does not mean to say that escorts cannot enjoy their work or make friends in the course of their work like any other profession. Affection and friendliness on the part of an escort is not always faked. If you find that you get on well with an escort and she seems to get on with you then discretely drop hints about interesting places to eat or drink and see if the bait is taken
However, if you are interested in dating an escort because you think that you will get free sex then go back to playing the lotto, you have a far better chance of success

[nonpareil]

I really don't want to date my dentist.

Have my eye on the hygienist though.

[funlover12]

The word ‘dating’ in the thread title seems to upset some posters because they interpret this as meaning that I get sex for free.

This is absolutely not the case as I visit escorts because I want to pay for sex in cash and not in any other way. To be quite honest, paying the money gives me the option of ending the relationship without feeling bad about it.

You meet single girls everywhere and a small percentage will always come on to you. I think that they view a marriage ring as a challenge. They say ‘I don’t mind that you are married, I am happy to see you occasionally and have a good time’. It never works like that.

When a girl meets a man who enjoys making love to her (as distinct from fucking her), enjoys listening to her and enjoys shopping with her this equates in her mind to true love and an implied proposal of marriage. I would have left my wife at the drop of a hat but there is no woman that ever come close to tempting me to leave my kids.

I should say that there is nothing special about me when it comes to meeting girls except for the fact that I prefer the company of women whereas most men prefer hanging out with other men

Relationships with single girls always end in floods of tears and recriminations and my feeling very bad about myself for having hurt the girl. Paying a girl money keeps the relationship focussed. The times that I have stopped paying escorts directly for sex, I have ended up paying considerably more and with the exact same grief and recriminations at the end that I get from non-escorts.

The moral of the story is; always pay for the sex, it is far cheaper.

oh dear jesus, pickardtripplefacepalm.gif

so all along in the thread when you were saying having a relationship/dating you actually meant 'dating' ...thought so, thanks for clearing that up and putting it in writing to confirm my suspicians

[JAMESCORK]

oh dear jesus, pickardtripplefacepalm.gif

so all along in the thread when you were saying having a relationship/dating you actually meant 'dating' ...thought so, thanks for clearing that up and putting it in writing to confirm my suspicians

Ease off Loverboy...I think this guy makes a lot of sense....