Thoughts on Anal Sex with escorts

[Petros]

Hi all,
This is a thought I've had for awhile now and was wondering what people think. If an escort advertises anal sex but charges extra for it on the day would you still ask for anal and pay the extra fee?
I believe that if and when an escort wishes to charge the extra fee that's it's a black and white message that the person actually doesn't like anal sex and is charging extra as a form of deterrent.
I guess the simple question to ask at the start would be if the escort likes anal sex at all!
If the person doesn't actually enjoy or wasn't up to anal that particular day then I would clean forget about it and enjoy what the escort is actually comfortable with doing. I obviously could be way off with all this but still interested what people and escorts think!

Anal was something that never really interested me so I never looked on profiles for it. Then one afternoon I was with a lady and while things didn't get off to a great start as I had to wait over half an hour for various reasons she was definitely trying to make it up to me. (I don't think it was her fault the appointment was delayed as I could hear her frustration on the phone)

She said a few times "I want you to fcuk my ass" but I stiil wasn't mad on the idea. She then turned and asked did I want to do it? I told her I had never done it before to which she replied - "well, now I definitly want you to fcuk my ass"! "I am taking your virginity" LOL

So who was I to argue and I had my first try at anal She does advertise anal and there was no extra charge!

I can see though why many do charge extra as not many ladies offer it so if is a sort of premium service.

There is also the issue where a ladies ass is not designed to be fcuked all day long so an additional charge might mean that every client won't want it!

[honest6eager]

Are you spending too much time thinking outside the box?

Very nice play on words congrats 👏

[honest6eager]

Anal was something that never really interested me so I never looked on profiles for it. Then one afternoon I was with a lady and while things didn't get off to a great start as I had to wait over half an hour for various reasons she was definitely trying to make it up to me. (I don't think it was her fault the appointment was delayed as I could hear her frustration on the phone)

She said a few times "I want you to fcuk my ass" but I stiil wasn't mad on the idea. She then turned and asked did I want to do it? I told her I had never done it before to which she replied - "well, now I definitly want you to fcuk my ass"! "I am taking your virginity" LOL

So who was I to argue and I had my first try at anal She does advertise anal and there was no extra charge!

I can see though why many do charge extra as not many ladies offer it so if is a sort of premium service.

There is also the issue where a ladies ass is not designed to be fcuked all day long so an additional charge might mean that every client won't want it!

Hi Petros,
I totally agree with your comment specially your last sentence! I would personally only ask for anal sex if it was first advertised and if the girl actually likes it, otherwise what is the point! I would feel unaccountably guilty if she didn't actually enjoy anal sex yet still asked for it. Communication is paramount! It's a yes or no question that any escort should be asked.

[funlover12]

You must have a small willy then

nah just one the girls want, some things are worth it

[honest6eager]

This 'likes it' is very arguable.... pfff men! u dont know nothing about women body do u? u might like some things with someone and u might hate it same thing with somebody else. if u like a thing not means u like with everybody. FFs. if u like giving oral to a woman means u will like to give oral to all women u see on the street? hmm.... i love anal and i offered before for extra of course but i realized soon that anal is not something to can do with anybody anyhow. to be enjoyable have to be turned on, wet, the guy to be gentle and not a huge size... and cant do to much as is getting sore after a while. some guys have no idea what to do and they want to try with you (omg this is a nightmare someone to practice on you in so delicate place which is not for beginners , unless u are a girl who like pain then go for it with a beginner)other guys think because they paid extra 50 they can do anal on you as much they want(no thank you , every thing is nice in a reasonable limits and if i feel its starting to be sore then means it is sore and u should stop ) so my sweet horny guys who like anal when u book a girl who offer this service pls be gentle and listen to her, she might like or at list to be comfortable to do it if its in offer but this not means u can do anyhow. make her to like doing with you and then u bouth will have a fun time together

Hi Fetish Cherry,
Thank you very much for your input! I agree that anal sex needs to be performed by competent lovers and communication is paramount but also the willingness to actually listen to your lover in whatever your doing is enjoyable or not. Trust is another obvious prerequisite. To simply change speed or to just simply stop and not cause any pain. That's what I would be most aware of, whether it's enjoyable or not because if it isn't then I want no part of it. Personally speaking of course.

[Petros]

This 'likes it' is very arguable.... pfff men! u dont know nothing about women body do u?

Well, that's the beauty of these forums — ladies like yourself can expand our limited knowledge about how to treat your wonderful bodies

u might like some things with someone and u might hate it same thing with somebody else. if u like a thing not means u like with everybody. FFs. if u like giving oral to a woman means u will like to give oral to all women u see on the street? hmm.... i love anal and i offered before for extra of course but i realized soon that anal is not something to can do with anybody anyhow. to be enjoyable have to be turned on, wet, the guy to be gentle and not a huge size... and cant do to much as is getting sore after a while. some guys have no idea what to do and they want to try with you (omg this is a nightmare someone to practice on you in so delicate place which is not for beginners , unless u are a girl who like pain then go for it with a beginner)other guys think because they paid extra 50 they can do anal on you as much they want(no thank you , every thing is nice in a reasonable limits and if i feel its starting to be sore then means it is sore and u should stop ) so my sweet horny guys who like anal when u book a girl who offer this service pls be gentle and listen to her, she might like or at list to be comfortable to do it if its in offer but this not means u can do anyhow. make her to like doing with you and then u bouth will have a fun time together

I totally appreciate where you are coming from here — to be fair it is really common sense! I think in honest6eager's defence he was referring to the fact that for some women anal is a no go — no matter how it is preformed they just do not like it. But some women, under the right conditions and with the right person do "actually" enjoy anal. I believe it was a woman like this that he was referring to when he said "if the girl actually likes it".

It all depends on the right circumstances and I think most guys realise this — even if we don't always know what these "right circumstances" actually are

[Parker]

[QUOTE=JAMESCORK;1524197]Really?

We are deprived of your reviews then.

Anal sex is not a common fav as far as I am aware. It can be a delicate & cautious fav for most. To charge extra is not unreasonable I would have thought. But it is up to the escort...[/QUOTE
Yes really James ., and you'll be deprived of my reviews as long as I choose and in fact what's any of it
Got to do with you anyway ? your last post about Rebecca did her and you no favours and was pretty machovelian in its intent

[Heathcliff]

i was always refused it on grounds of size