I must be the only one?

[MartinR]

I am in a 5 year relationship with the same girl i lost my virginity to....so iv been with one girl my whole life and i do love her......it is highly likely i will end up marrying this girl.

BUT ....i am an incredibly horny guy, (whats new) and ...im pretty desperate to just have sex and be pleased sexually by other women.....does that make me a bad person? i feel awful yet here i am on an escort web page. god ive even considered heading to amsterdams red light district by myself for a couple of nights! its gotten that bad!

so....part of me REALLY just wants to have sex etc with other women and another part of me feels guilty and just awful for cheating on the only girl ive been with and am supposed to love.

this reason and one other for not visiting escorts leads me to think i must be the only one like this. the other reason being i live in belfast on botanic/lisburn road and put off visiting an escort incase of police etc.....

im 23 so im young and i always tell myself one day il visit an escort to fulfill my strong strong needs.....and still i havent
so....i take it im the only one to give a shit like this yea lol?

any advice.....anyone in a similar situation?

do any of the escorts look down on clients who are cheating on their wives and girlfriends? or do you like that?

[pigsmickey]

Get out now....before its too late.
Tis many a man who fell in love with a dimple and made the mistake of marrying the whole woman..

[roxyodeo]

i would have thought the escorts would be disappointed if punters weren't hooked up

[MartinR]

Get out now....before its too late.
Tis many a man who fell in love with a dimple and made the mistake of marrying the whole woman..

ive fell in love with the whole woman though. its just....one fuck my whole life?? no....i just need to fuck other women.

[Meursault]

this is normal. men are programmed to want to have sex with many partners. marriage must contend with 200 million years of evolution.

what you could do is take a break for a few years, visit the brothels and then reignite the romance with the woman you want to marry

[MartinR]

this is normal. men are programmed to want to have sex with many partners. marriage must contend with 200 million years of evolution.

what you could do is take a break for a few years, visit the brothels and then reignite the romance with the woman you want to marry

i dont think there are any brothels in belfast which is why i think independent escorts are my best bet and safest option. a brothel id prob spend a ridiculous amount.
an escort i can fulfill my desires with a 30min to an hour £80-£200 meeting.

[JAMESCORK]

I'd be slow to advise a 23 year old to start seeing escorts.... especially one about to propose to his girlfriend.

But I can see your point too tho... tough one to call

[slavetoyou]

I am in a 5 year relationship with the same girl i lost my virginity to....so iv been with one girl my whole life and i do love her......it is highly likely i will end up marrying this girl.

BUT ....i am an incredibly horny guy, (whats new) and ...im pretty desperate to just have sex and be pleased sexually by other women.....does that make me a bad person? i feel awful yet here i am on an escort web page. god ive even considered heading to amsterdams red light district by myself for a couple of nights! its gotten that bad!

so....part of me REALLY just wants to have sex etc with other women and another part of me feels guilty and just awful for cheating on the only girl ive been with and am supposed to love.

this reason and one other for not visiting escorts leads me to think i must be the only one like this. the other reason being i live in belfast on botanic/lisburn road and put off visiting an escort incase of police etc.....

im 23 so im young and i always tell myself one day il visit an escort to fulfill my strong strong needs.....and still i havent
so....i take it im the only one to give a shit like this yea lol?

any advice.....anyone in a similar situation?

do any of the escorts look down on clients who are cheating on their wives and girlfriends? or do you like that?

You say it is "highly likely you will marry this girl", is that something that the two of you have discussed or is that something you feel will happen because you do not know any different as this girl is the only girl you have been with. (I presume that this girl was your first and only girlfriend not just who you lost your virginity too).

You are at a point in your life where you see the world around you and you want to explore it, to have different sexual experiences and just to live a little. This would be normal enough.

You say you are horny but does that mean your girlfriend is not horny and or sex between the two of you is either scarce, non existent or just dull. Maybe you should try explore avenues with your girlfriend. The outcome of that could be one of two things:

1. She is just as horny as you and blows your mind letting you live a happily married life.

2. She is not as horny as you and this leaves you frustrated and causes you to visit escorts.

My advise to you is try option 1 first and if that doesn't workout then you would seriously have to consider the relationship as if you were to continue then you are only setting yourself up for trouble in the future as your needs will not go away, they are what they are, needs and needs need met no matter who does it.

Don't assume you are the only one who gives a shit about cheating on their wives or girlfriends as many people do not punt and do not visit escort websites proclaiming how good they are because they give a shit. Escorts don't care what you are doing, as has been said its a business transaction. They don't judge you but they probably just wouldn't go out with you

Anyway if you have gone to the trouble of setting up an account here you are on a slippery slope so you better put your thoughts of marriage in hold (especially at 23) and think about what you want.

[SmallHorn]

Its a tough call for sure.

I know what Id do

And you are def not the only one.

[slavetoyou]

Its a tough call for sure.

I know what Id do

And you are def not the only one.

Get married?