searching for submissive lady

[kron]

I found about the site only recently, so far only gone with one escort and the experience wasn't great. I just registered mostly because I want to ask something that doesn't seem addressed in reviews/descriptions etc. and I'm not sure how to find out about it.

I can't find a single post like mine, seems all guys have a fetish for being dominated while I'm on the other side of the coin. I'd like to do the dominating. Nothing too crazy by the way, deep throat (with gagging), CIM (with swallow), hair pulling, spanking, slapping, watersports and anal.

I've seen many ladies here put "submissive" among their favorites but I don't think they know what that's supposed to really mean, it's just an extra checkbox. So, any of you ladies actually up for the above list? Or are all ladies here dominatrixes, is that where the real money is? :P

[The Kerryman]

I found about the site only recently, so far only gone with one escort and the experience wasn't great. I just registered mostly because I want to ask something that doesn't seem addressed in reviews/descriptions etc. and I'm not sure how to find out about it.

I can't find a single post like mine, seems all guys have a fetish for being dominated while I'm on the other side of the coin. I'd like to do the dominating. Nothing too crazy by the way, deep throat (with gagging), CIM (with swallow), hair pulling, spanking, slapping, watersports and anal.

I've seen many ladies here put "submissive" among their favorites but I don't think they know what that's supposed to really mean, it's just an extra checkbox. So, any of you ladies actually up for the above list? Or are all ladies here dominatrixes, is that where the real money is? :P

Hi Kron. I'm inclined to agree with you about "submissive " being just an extra checkbox. While I would be on the very much lighter side of your "nothing too crazy", I reckon spanking is as good as you'll get - if you're lucky......

[Belfast123]

Spanking is my kink and 9 times out of ten you don't even get that.
Any girls who will take a proper bare bum otk spanking please feel free to im me

[Belfast123]

The same could be said for ordinary sex.
You talk about meeting and trusting.
I don't really want a relationship, I just want act out a fantasy.

[Stephanie]

The same could be said for ordinary sex.
You talk about meeting and trusting.
I don't really want a relationship, I just want act out a fantasy.

But your fantasy involves your partner being at your mercy.

Though I thoroughly enjoy -- and dare I say , crave -- surrendering wholly to my Master , to surrender fully and be a sub ,

I would never take that on lightly with a stranger in a 1hr appointment.

Hope you find a suitable partner for your desires xx

[Ladyvonteese]

I found about the site only recently, so far only gone with one escort and the experience wasn't great. I just registered mostly because I want to ask something that doesn't seem addressed in reviews/descriptions etc. and I'm not sure how to find out about it.

I've seen many ladies here put "submissive" among their favorites but I don't think they know what that's supposed to really mean, it's just an extra checkbox. So, any of you ladies actually up for the above list? Or are all ladies here dominatrixes, is that where the real money is? :P

I totally agree with you after hearing so many stories from my clients there seems to be far too many people advertising fav's who really are only doing it just to get people in the door and worse still when they are in the door they charge extra for their fav's. The internet is good but its best to get to meet the people into the fetish scene who also go to the fetish clubs because this way you'll know the person your going to meet regardless if she is getting paid for it, she really is into sharing the adventure. If I get a chance to go fetish clubbing could tell a few sub girls about your request tell them to come to EI as it seems there is not enough truly submissive women who are looking for work, but then again you could have been inundated with request as there is many on-lookers also here on EI. Happy hunting honey.

Ps
I am looking for a submissive lady who enjoys a safe, consensual erotic fun FemDome relationship too, just encase. Loll
Lady Von Teese

The same could be said for ordinary sex.
You talk about meeting and trusting.
I don't really want a relationship, I just want act out a fantasy.

,
Every Domme sub and sub Domme relationship should have trust, even if you meet a person out on a night out and share any sort of interlude with them, there has to be trust otherwise its just abuse.
Lady Von Teese

Hi Kron. I'm inclined to agree with you about "submissive " being just an extra checkbox. While I would be on the very much lighter side of your "nothing too crazy", I reckon spanking is as good as you'll get - if you're lucky......

I have had 3 lovely naught boys over my knee yesterday in Dublin and I really did surprised them in more ways then one with my personality, the fact I look like the sexist teacher you 'now really' wish you had in class and the fun I have just being Me and doing what I do so well. Loll Now when am I having you over My knee honey or at the end of my cane. Loll

[Stephanie]

No offence Stephanie, but I have many regular clients who would totally disagree with you about staying away from Pro Domms like myself who truly do love what we do And I am sure there is lots of paid submissive who also enjoy their work. And like any good Mistress/sub or Master sub relationships, it’s about finding that special person/persons (depending one's own boundaries) to share the adventure with and a person/persons you not only really can click with but trust to push boundaries in a safe consensual erotic sensual way.
Lady Von Teese

Different strokes for different folks .

I know i wouldn't be a submissive to a stranger walking through the door waving my hourly rate.

Kudos to those who do.









Visiting a Domme -- as a submissive client -- whole different story.

That is NOT what this poster was inquiring about. xx

[kron]

As someone mentioned, you need trust even for normal sex with an escort. It's not like if I'm having sex with someone and she asks me to stop because she's feeling dizzy I will ignore her and continue. The same is true for kinkier activities such as spanking or deep throating, if the girl is uncomfortable for wathever reason she just has to speak up and I will stop.

Answering Ladyvonteese, I have not been inundated at all, in fact I only received one message from someone saying "I'll do nothing except a lil spanking" :\

[soreknees]

London has a number of excellent submissive girls and locations. I had visited a number of bdsm functions with a former mistress and met some of them all of whom explained to me they work in a safe environment. I visited one of them a couple of years ago to try some dom fun (as I usually submissive ) and found it enjoyable. Equipment etc all available in a clean and safe environment. Don't think I'm cut out to be a dom as she was laughing at me at end of session asking if I was too heavy in any way. She said no and she was in the business because she enjoyed it and explained to me the session was probably to light for her to really enjoy it!! I felt a woos. Ps a very well educated girl and hot!

[kron]

London has a number of excellent submissive girls and locations. I had visited a number of bdsm functions with a former mistress and met some of them all of whom explained to me they work in a safe environment. I visited one of them a couple of years ago to try some dom fun (as I usually submissive ) and found it enjoyable. Equipment etc all available in a clean and safe environment. Don't think I'm cut out to be a dom as she was laughing at me at end of session asking if I was too heavy in any way. She said no and she was in the business because she enjoyed it and explained to me the session was probably to light for her to really enjoy it!! I felt a woos. Ps a very well educated girl and hot!

Can you give more details about the place and costs involved?