Ladies asking for a referral!!

[jamie25]

if they want a referral / reference and you cant provide one then just move on, plenty of other escorts out there that don't ask for it and I have never been asked myself so its no big deal at all

[Red79]

What way would it work?

[anon361]

Makes sense in this thread if flipped 180 degrees.

Exactly, I don't want to turn this into yet another thread about the new law but new Independent ladies will find it harder to work and will be forced to work for the very people this new law is supposedly trying to protect them from..

[tony1]

Than true everyone to the own.

if they want a referral / reference and you cant provide one then just move on, plenty of other escorts out there that don't ask for it and I have never been asked myself so its no big deal at all

[jamie25]

Exactly, the problem is some guys are chauvinistic pigs that genuinely think once they are paying the lady she should do exactly what she is told and do all the favourites listed without question and when she answers back with questions of his authenticity he is put out and she is the stuck up bitch.

and some guys use their usernames on here by telling them they are long established members with thousands of posts to pressurise the Escorts which is not on either, I never would tell my username and never was asked either but does happen

[xagerate]

What way would it work?

Guessing similar to a bank loan
You make application
Run through some basics
They go off and check your history
You expect a call back...or not depending on how the check went

[anon361]

What way would it work?

I'd only be speculating as I'm no escort but I'd assume if a lady has her suspicions about a client she asks for a reference, if he gives the name of a lady she knows she'll text her with his number, has he been to see you, is he genuine and hope that she gets back to him before the appointed meeting time..

[Versace Targeryan]

This subject seems to be causing a stir with a few. I really don't know what the big deal is. Some guys need to remember that these ladies and not just the ones that ask for a reference / referral work under their own rules, not how a client perceives how they should work for him.

If the lady feels she would like extra security in the knowledge that the person ringing them is a genuine client and has seen other ladies then so be it. Isn't it a sign that she has the lights switched on and doesn't want to get caught out by a timewaster / reporter / idiot. It's not going to be fool proof but at least it's better than not asking and taking a chance of a no show.

Maybe she doesn't want to see guys that has never been with an escort before and if he gives a name then at least she knows he has (I say that loosely), that's HER decision.

Will it work every time, probably not, will it cut down on the assholes, probably will, same goes for will it alienate the odd genuine client, maybe it will but lads, you need to remember, this is all her decision and I'm sure she has weighed the pros and cons herself.

I've seen a mention of the reference system on the boards, this has nothing to do with that. It's a more personal spot check.
Before all these agencies came along this was a far more practiced system. Alas maybe guys have got so use to calling agency girls that don't really have a choice on who they see and as clients know no better.

I for one would be more than happy to give a lady that sort of information, at least then I as a client have a good sense of what type of lady I am going to see and it more than reassures me of her authenticity.

i agree with ur post.
the wind does seem to blow diffrent directions from week 2 week regarding agencies. usually the prevailing wind has it that its all rosy nothing 2 c here folks.
sure as long as they re smiling.

[anon361]

and some guys use their usernames on here by telling them they are long established members with thousands of posts to pressurise the Escorts which is not on either, I never would tell my username and never was asked either but does happen

Nothing to do with user name, that can't be trusted, I never give my name before I meet a lady but I've heard from ladies that were under the impression they had met me because someone else had used my username, sad I know but true.

[Genie in a Bottle]

I'd only be speculating as I'm no escort but I'd assume if a lady has her suspicions about a client she asks for a reference, if he gives the name of a lady she knows she'll text her with his number, has he been to see you, is he genuine and hope that she gets back to him before the appointed meeting time..

cant see it working and all too late as would only confuse both the client and escort more after June this year and guys change their mobile numbers regularly as you know