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    Exclamation Ladies asking for a referral!!

    This subject seems to be causing a stir with a few. I really don't know what the big deal is. Some guys need to remember that these ladies and not just the ones that ask for a reference / referral work under their own rules, not how a client perceives how they should work for him.

    If the lady feels she would like extra security in the knowledge that the person ringing them is a genuine client and has seen other ladies then so be it. Isn't it a sign that she has the lights switched on and doesn't want to get caught out by a timewaster / reporter / idiot. It's not going to be fool proof but at least it's better than not asking and taking a chance of a no show.

    Maybe she doesn't want to see guys that has never been with an escort before and if he gives a name then at least she knows he has (I say that loosely), that's HER decision.

    Will it work every time, probably not, will it cut down on the assholes, probably will, same goes for will it alienate the odd genuine client, maybe it will but lads, you need to remember, this is all her decision and I'm sure she has weighed the pros and cons herself.

    I've seen a mention of the reference system on the boards, this has nothing to do with that. It's a more personal spot check.
    Before all these agencies came along this was a far more practiced system. Alas maybe guys have got so use to calling agency girls that don't really have a choice on who they see and as clients know no better.

    I for one would be more than happy to give a lady that sort of information, at least then I as a client have a good sense of what type of lady I am going to see and it more than reassures me of her authenticity.
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    Nothing wrong with it.
    Similar to a new escort with no reviews...the worst part is getting the first one under your belt
    Then you are plain sailing
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    Referrals will be the way forward in the future, as it's going to be harder and harder to vet clients. No doubt clients will be asking their regs about other girls before visiting them too, to ensure they are discreet and not likely to be a worry to meet.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CurvaceousKate View Post
    Referrals will be the way forward in the future, as it's going to be harder and harder to vet clients. No doubt clients will be asking their regs about other girls before visiting them too, to ensure they are discreet and not likely to be a worry to meet.
    You'll find a lot of the old ways still being practiced by a smart few will see a re-emergence with other ladies.

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    Quote Originally Posted by anon361 View Post
    This subject seems to be causing a stir with a few. I really don't know what the big deal is. Some guys need to remember that these ladies and not just the ones that ask for a reference / referral work under their own rules, not how a client perceives how they should work for him.

    If the lady feels she would like extra security in the knowledge that the person ringing them is a genuine client and has seen other ladies then so be it. Isn't it a sign that she has the lights switched on and doesn't want to get caught out by a timewaster / reporter / idiot. It's not going to be fool proof but at least it's better than not asking and taking a chance of a no show.

    Maybe she doesn't want to see guys that has never been with an escort before and if he gives a name then at least she knows he has (I say that loosely), that's HER decision.

    Will it work every time, probably not, will it cut down on the assholes, probably will, same goes for will it alienate the odd genuine client, maybe it will but lads, you need to remember, this is all her decision and I'm sure she has weighed the pros and cons herself.

    I've seen a mention of the reference system on the boards, this has nothing to do with that. It's a more personal spot check.
    Before all these agencies came along this was a far more practiced system. Alas maybe guys have got so use to calling agency girls that don't really have a choice on who they see and as clients know no better.

    I for one would be more than happy to give a lady that sort of information, at least then I as a client have a good sense of what type of lady I am going to see and it more than reassures me of her authenticity.
    If you Don't be an asshole and there be nothing to worry about. Easy!
    The above post, and many post on e-i, is for humour and myrth and therefore cannot be taken as intelligent or well grammatically/factually engineered.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CurvaceousKate View Post
    Referrals will be the way forward in the future, as it's going to be harder and harder to vet clients. No doubt clients will be asking their regs about other girls before visiting them too, to ensure they are discreet and not likely to be a worry to meet.
    Well it works both ways, lads won,t see a lady who has no reviews and give out about being asked for a reference
    It,s the ladies rights if they want a reference,they are the ones taking the risks !!!!


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    Quote Originally Posted by Red79 View Post
    If you Don't be an asshole and there be nothing to worry about. Easy!
    Exactly, the problem is some guys are chauvinistic pigs that genuinely think once they are paying the lady she should do exactly what she is told and do all the favourites listed without question and when she answers back with questions of his authenticity he is put out and she is the stuck up bitch.

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    Ladies that don't have a profile on the boards will find it a bit awkward if clients are looking towards escorts with references?

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    Quote Originally Posted by johnb59 View Post
    Ladies that don't have a profile on the boards will find it a bit awkward if clients are looking towards escorts with references?
    Makes sense in this thread if flipped 180 degrees.


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    Quote Originally Posted by anon361 View Post
    Exactly, the problem is some guys are chauvinistic pigs that genuinely think once they are paying the lady she should do exactly what she is told and do all the favourites listed without question and when she answers back with questions of his authenticity he is put out and she is the stuck up bitch.
    Ya very true
    They seen to forget they are human beings doing a great job for us and should be treated with the upmost respect
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