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    Cool NEw guy, first-timer. ish.

    Hey everyone!

    I've been pondering the idea of visiting a lovely lady for a long time now.

    I'm 28. The problem is most of my sexual experience has been online (i.e porn) I've had a few experiences where I've nearly had sex. infact more than quite a few, but physically and psychologically I think I've messed myself up. I can pull an attractive lady then due to sheer nerves of my inexperience/unrealistic idea of what sex is/lack of experience I end up making some lame excuse and back out. I've had quite some sexual experience but never straight sex.

    I'm at this really soul destroying part now where i'll meet an amazing girl, but not have the courage to follow up or do anything about it. My sexual confidence is at an all time low. I'm in great shape and play in a sports team so on the outside girls seem to think I'd be great in bed or whatever. especially at my age, this is where it all just piles up and plays on my mind and I completely shoot myself in the balls so to speak. Erections are not a problem, however, one time I did get a girl into bed (I was very drunk too which didn't help matters) but whiskey dick plus the crazy nerves = nothing happened and I missed that opportunity..... of course after that I never got any text backs from her. (not to mention my confidence plummeted to rock bottom.

    I'm wondering what type of escourt I should visit? Would she understand me? Could I just tell her I was a virgin to explain my stupid nerves surrounding this?

    I just want to build up confidence and skill at love making. Would seriously fix me right now. I would love to meet a nice girl after it all and not feel the pressure build up to what I must do while having no experience. Thanks everyone. I live in belfast but travel a lot for work so willing to travel around that area, Derry and antrim/portrush.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Red89 View Post
    Hey everyone!

    I've been pondering the idea of visiting a lovely lady for a long time now.

    I'm 28. The problem is most of my sexual experience has been online (i.e porn) I've had a few experiences where I've nearly had sex. infact more than quite a few, but physically and psychologically I think I've messed myself up. I can pull an attractive lady then due to sheer nerves of my inexperience/unrealistic idea of what sex is/lack of experience I end up making some lame excuse and back out. I've had quite some sexual experience but never straight sex.

    I'm at this really soul destroying part now where i'll meet an amazing girl, but not have the courage to follow up or do anything about it. My sexual confidence is at an all time low. I'm in great shape and play in a sports team so on the outside girls seem to think I'd be great in bed or whatever. especially at my age, this is where it all just piles up and plays on my mind and I completely shoot myself in the balls so to speak. Erections are not a problem, however, one time I did get a girl into bed (I was very drunk too which didn't help matters) but whiskey dick plus the crazy nerves = nothing happened and I missed that opportunity..... of course after that I never got any text backs from her. (not to mention my confidence plummeted to rock bottom.

    I'm wondering what type of escourt I should visit? Would she understand me? Could I just tell her I was a virgin to explain my stupid nerves surrounding this?

    I just want to build up confidence and skill at love making. Would seriously fix me right now. I would love to meet a nice girl after it all and not feel the pressure build up to what I must do while having no experience. Thanks everyone. I live in belfast but travel a lot for work so willing to travel around that area, Derry and antrim/portrush.
    Hi Red
    I know exactly what you are going through and I think you are doing the right thing meeting a lady from here
    pick an experienced lady with good reviews that you fancy, book through pm and tell the lady that you are a nervous first timer and I'm sure she will look after you, you will find after a few visits you will have more confidence with all ladies
    show respect and you will get on fine
    good luck
    Best regards Feargal
    Life is too short not to do things that you like, before its too late.
    never leave till tomorrow what you can do today

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    Quote Originally Posted by Red89 View Post
    Hey everyone!

    I've been pondering the idea of visiting a lovely lady for a long time now.

    I'm 28. The problem is most of my sexual experience has been online (i.e porn) I've had a few experiences where I've nearly had sex. infact more than quite a few, but physically and psychologically I think I've messed myself up. I can pull an attractive lady then due to sheer nerves of my inexperience/unrealistic idea of what sex is/lack of experience I end up making some lame excuse and back out. I've had quite some sexual experience but never straight sex.

    I'm at this really soul destroying part now where i'll meet an amazing girl, but not have the courage to follow up or do anything about it. My sexual confidence is at an all time low. I'm in great shape and play in a sports team so on the outside girls seem to think I'd be great in bed or whatever. especially at my age, this is where it all just piles up and plays on my mind and I completely shoot myself in the balls so to speak. Erections are not a problem, however, one time I did get a girl into bed (I was very drunk too which didn't help matters) but whiskey dick plus the crazy nerves = nothing happened and I missed that opportunity..... of course after that I never got any text backs from her. (not to mention my confidence plummeted to rock bottom.

    I'm wondering what type of escourt I should visit? Would she understand me? Could I just tell her I was a virgin to explain my stupid nerves surrounding this?

    I just want to build up confidence and skill at love making. Would seriously fix me right now. I would love to meet a nice girl after it all and not feel the pressure build up to what I must do while having no experience. Thanks everyone. I live in belfast but travel a lot for work so willing to travel around that area, Derry and antrim/portrush.
    Hi Red
    dont be afraid to fail
    fail again and again
    and then you will get it right

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    What you are looking for is Sexual Experience, Punting will help you if you are prepared to be honest with a mature experienced Escort as first experience. Like all things in life Practice and time teaches. Know what you want but spend time with different women

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    Thanks guys, needed to just let that shiz out I guess. Cheers for your replies. I will get to work after christmas!! aahggh

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    You live in Belfast? My God, are you lucky!! I'm in a very similar situation to you. I PM'ed Irish Sarah and saw her a few months ago. I think she is exactly the type of escort you should see - fun, talkative, professional and understanding. I can't recommend her highly enough to you.

    I'm from Dublin but I traveled to Belfast to see her, and will be going back. Yup, she's that good.

    I hope this helps.
    Last edited by HansLanda; 24-12-14 at 22:09.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Red89 View Post
    Thanks guys, needed to just let that shiz out I guess. Cheers for your replies. I will get to work after christmas!! aahggh
    hi I think that maybe start with a message with a nice girl who will put you at ease
    at least you wont be thinking of having to perform and most girls doing massage
    will give you a happy ending so you just lie back and relax and most of all Enjoy

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    You've got to have having a laugh with that name
    The above post, and many post on e-i, is for humour and myrth and therefore cannot be taken as intelligent or well grammatically/factually engineered.

    This man is not clever

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    Quote Originally Posted by HansLanda View Post
    You live in Belfast? My God, are you lucky!! I'm in a very similar situation to you. I PM'ed Irish Sarah and saw her a few months ago. I think she is exactly the type of escort you should see - fun, talkative, professional and understanding. I can't recommend her highly enough to you.

    I'm from Dublin but I traveled to Belfast to see her, and will be going back. Yup, she's that good.

    I hope this helps.
    Irish Sarah is a must. Cancel Christmas dinner and book her. you'll thank us! Lol
    The above post, and many post on e-i, is for humour and myrth and therefore cannot be taken as intelligent or well grammatically/factually engineered.

    This man is not clever

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    Quote Originally Posted by feargal View Post
    Hi Red
    I know exactly what you are going through and I think you are doing the right thing meeting a lady from here
    pick an experienced lady with good reviews that you fancy, book through pm and tell the lady that you are a nervous first timer and I'm sure she will look after you, you will find after a few visits you will have more confidence with all ladies
    show respect and you will get on fine
    good luck
    I don't find it increases your confidence with women at all your paying them to be nice to you its an entirely different reality to meet a girl in the real world

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