Complete newbie

[halflife]

Hi everyone,

I have few questions I'd like to ask, and I hope you dont take the piss out of me for asking because im an absolute newbie, but i do have to ask these questions.

For a long time ( probably more than 4+ years ) I've been looking at this site and wondering exactly how things work with escorts, but I've been too scared to even follow up on contacting any of the girls for some services.

I'm just a normal guy who likes to see some really good looking girls, but i've got a lot of questions i'd like to be answered when it comes to going ahead with these encounters.
I too would love to see some amazing girls in real life, but I'm absolutely scared shitless to even ring a number let alone text one. ( no joke, i'd shit a brick even trying to dial a number ).

I think most of my issues boil down to the fact that maybe some of the girls may be forced into this life, and have no choice in the matter, and who have pimps and stuff. And that, i just cant deal with that. I also cant deal with if girls are being used and traded across the world as sex slaves, it would break my heart to be involved with any of that.

Again, as im completely new to this and dont have much experience, you need you understand that i'm very, very concerned with the safety and well-being of the girls who advertise here. I would never, and i mean never, willingly contact a girl i know who is being forced against her will to do this kind of stuff, so you have to understand where i'm coming from as a normal joe-soap irish lad. And hey, lets face it, most of us are very reserved here, it takes a lot for us to come out of our shell.

Regardless, what i'd like to know is that if i do happen to ring a girl, is it A) legal to do so, and B) how does it work?
What I mean in regard to step B, is that, if I ring, will I receive an answer from the girl, or will I receive an answer from her pimp? As i say, I'm very unsure about this whole thing, some of it is very dodgy where there is weird reviews left on the model's page, and then there is some very bad reviews where people don't even see the girl who is advertised on the site.

But yeah, my main focus is, is that whoever i contact, she is not in some mafia type bs where i turn up and i get robbed, kicked to bits, attacked or even get reported to cops. the only reason i'm asking here is to find out if its done above board. I would never pay money to a girl who is forced against her will, and i would never pay for my head to be kicked in. And lets be honest, we've all seen those movies.

Any feedback welcome, i'd love to hear what you have to say.

D.

[Merryman]

Hi everyone,

I have few questions I'd like to ask, and I hope you dont take the piss out of me for asking because im an absolute newbie, but i do have to ask these questions.

For a long time ( probably more than 4+ years ) I've been looking at this site and wondering exactly how things work with escorts, but I've been too scared to even follow up on contacting any of the girls for some services.

I'm just a normal guy who likes to see some really good looking girls, but i've got a lot of questions i'd like to be answered when it comes to going ahead with these encounters.
I too would love to see some amazing girls in real life, but I'm absolutely scared shitless to even ring a number let alone text one. ( no joke, i'd shit a brick even trying to dial a number ).

I think most of my issues boil down to the fact that maybe some of the girls may be forced into this life, and have no choice in the matter, and who have pimps and stuff. And that, i just cant deal with that. I also cant deal with if girls are being used and traded across the world as sex slaves, it would break my heart to be involved with any of that.

Again, as im completely new to this and dont have much experience, you need you understand that i'm very, very concerned with the safety and well-being of the girls who advertise here. I would never, and i mean never, willingly contact a girl i know who is being forced against her will to do this kind of stuff, so you have to understand where i'm coming from as a normal joe-soap irish lad. And hey, lets face it, most of us are very reserved here, it takes a lot for us to come out of our shell.

Regardless, what i'd like to know is that if i do happen to ring a girl, is it A) legal to do so, and B) how does it work?
What I mean in regard to step B, is that, if I ring, will I receive an answer from the girl, or will I receive an answer from her pimp? As i say, I'm very unsure about this whole thing, some of it is very dodgy where there is weird reviews left on the model's page, and then there is some very bad reviews where people don't even see the girl who is advertised on the site.

But yeah, my main focus is, is that whoever i contact, she is not in some mafia type bs where i turn up and i get robbed, kicked to bits, attacked or even get reported to cops. the only reason i'm asking here is to find out if its done above board. I would never pay money to a girl who is forced against her will, and i would never pay for my head to be kicked in. And lets be honest, we've all seen those movies.

Any feedback welcome, i'd love to hear what you have to say.

D.

You have been checking out this site for in excess of 4 years and yet cant identify any nice ladies who are definitely doing this of their own free will ? I dont believe you,sorry.

[TonyB]

I've never seen even a hint of anything that would suggest any of the ladies I've visited are coerced in any way.
I've seen ladies socially, I'm friends with one or two. I'm friends on Facebook and know some of their friends.
They work for the money, it's that simple .

I've never been robbed or threatened.

Paying for sex is not illegal. Not yet anyway.

If you call a lady she will usually answer the phone.
Sometimes it might be one of her females friends.

You can forget tabloid press pimps, sex slavery and dark seedy underworld.
You'll see a friendly lady who just wants your money in return for a good time.

If you do see something you feel isn't right you can report it to the Gardai.
Personally I think changing the law will make reporting to the Gardai more difficult.
But that's a different topic

[Dutch1968]

me thinks or , either way something not right ????

[greenie]

Hi everyone,

I have few questions I'd like to ask, and I hope you dont take the piss out of me for asking because im an absolute newbie, but i do have to ask these questions.

For a long time ( probably more than 4+ years ) I've been looking at this site and wondering exactly how things work with escorts, but I've been too scared to even follow up on contacting any of the girls for some services.

I'm just a normal guy who likes to see some really good looking girls, but i've got a lot of questions i'd like to be answered when it comes to going ahead with these encounters.
I too would love to see some amazing girls in real life, but I'm absolutely scared shitless to even ring a number let alone text one. ( no joke, i'd shit a brick even trying to dial a number ).

I think most of my issues boil down to the fact that maybe some of the girls may be forced into this life, and have no choice in the matter, and who have pimps and stuff. And that, i just cant deal with that. I also cant deal with if girls are being used and traded across the world as sex slaves, it would break my heart to be involved with any of that.

Again, as im completely new to this and dont have much experience, you need you understand that i'm very, very concerned with the safety and well-being of the girls who advertise here. I would never, and i mean never, willingly contact a girl i know who is being forced against her will to do this kind of stuff, so you have to understand where i'm coming from as a normal joe-soap irish lad. And hey, lets face it, most of us are very reserved here, it takes a lot for us to come out of our shell.

Regardless, what i'd like to know is that if i do happen to ring a girl, is it A) legal to do so, and B) how does it work?
What I mean in regard to step B, is that, if I ring, will I receive an answer from the girl, or will I receive an answer from her pimp? As i say, I'm very unsure about this whole thing, some of it is very dodgy where there is weird reviews left on the model's page, and then there is some very bad reviews where people don't even see the girl who is advertised on the site.

But yeah, my main focus is, is that whoever i contact, she is not in some mafia type bs where i turn up and i get robbed, kicked to bits, attacked or even get reported to cops. the only reason i'm asking here is to find out if its done above board. I would never pay money to a girl who is forced against her will, and i would never pay for my head to be kicked in. And lets be honest, we've all seen those movies.

Any feedback welcome, i'd love to hear what you have to say.

D.

From what i make out it is all legal now to visit a girl in her own accommodation and partake in any amount of consenting tomfoolery.
The answer to all the questions regards yours and hers safety well that will always be uncertain. Therefor any decision you make will have to be based on your own judgement and will also involve a certain amount of risk on your part.
To form that judgement do your homework. Id agree some profiles do not look great. Personally i dont know how any self respecting man can visit these girls with little or no English but have managed to get to Ireland and put up poor quality photos of themselves posing in hovels and charge €50 for a half hour......Alarm bells ringing yes?!

if you are genuine and want to take the next step ring one of the ladies with a large number of positive reviews who will charge you proper rates and in most cases treat you very well. That, for a nervous first timer is all you need to do.

[Best Before]

Hi everyone,

I have few questions I'd like to ask, and I hope you dont take the piss out of me for asking because im an absolute newbie, but i do have to ask these questions.

For a long time ( probably more than 4+ years ) I've been looking at this site and wondering exactly how things work with escorts, but I've been too scared to even follow up on contacting any of the girls for some services.

I'm just a normal guy who likes to see some really good looking girls, but i've got a lot of questions i'd like to be answered when it comes to going ahead with these encounters.
I too would love to see some amazing girls in real life, but I'm absolutely scared shitless to even ring a number let alone text one. ( no joke, i'd shit a brick even trying to dial a number ).

I think most of my issues boil down to the fact that maybe some of the girls may be forced into this life, and have no choice in the matter, and who have pimps and stuff. And that, i just cant deal with that. I also cant deal with if girls are being used and traded across the world as sex slaves, it would break my heart to be involved with any of that.

Again, as im completely new to this and dont have much experience, you need you understand that i'm very, very concerned with the safety and well-being of the girls who advertise here. I would never, and i mean never, willingly contact a girl i know who is being forced against her will to do this kind of stuff, so you have to understand where i'm coming from as a normal joe-soap irish lad. And hey, lets face it, most of us are very reserved here, it takes a lot for us to come out of our shell.

Regardless, what i'd like to know is that if i do happen to ring a girl, is it A) legal to do so, and B) how does it work?
What I mean in regard to step B, is that, if I ring, will I receive an answer from the girl, or will I receive an answer from her pimp? As i say, I'm very unsure about this whole thing, some of it is very dodgy where there is weird reviews left on the model's page, and then there is some very bad reviews where people don't even see the girl who is advertised on the site.

But yeah, my main focus is, is that whoever i contact, she is not in some mafia type bs where i turn up and i get robbed, kicked to bits, attacked or even get reported to cops. the only reason i'm asking here is to find out if its done above board. I would never pay money to a girl who is forced against her will, and i would never pay for my head to be kicked in. And lets be honest, we've all seen those movies.

Any feedback welcome, i'd love to hear what you have to say.

D.

A complete newbie you say!!

You come across a very well written poster, and one can only deduce well educated. But to have spent 4 years lurking here and not know the genuine independents from the agency girls (the ones with the boyfriends as you put it!!) is really asking a lot of us to believe.
Give it another 4 years and see if you can work it out...

Tip: Try reading some of the posts by the Escort advertisers that contribute to this community. There's a good starting point

[bettercallsaul]

Hi everyone,

I have few questions I'd like to ask, and I hope you dont take the piss out of me for asking because im an absolute newbie, but i do have to ask these questions.

For a long time ( probably more than 4+ years ) I've been looking at this site and wondering exactly how things work with escorts, but I've been too scared to even follow up on contacting any of the girls for some services.

I'm just a normal guy who likes to see some really good looking girls, but i've got a lot of questions i'd like to be answered when it comes to going ahead with these encounters.
I too would love to see some amazing girls in real life, but I'm absolutely scared shitless to even ring a number let alone text one. ( no joke, i'd shit a brick even trying to dial a number ).

I think most of my issues boil down to the fact that maybe some of the girls may be forced into this life, and have no choice in the matter, and who have pimps and stuff. And that, i just cant deal with that. I also cant deal with if girls are being used and traded across the world as sex slaves, it would break my heart to be involved with any of that.

Again, as im completely new to this and dont have much experience, you need you understand that i'm very, very concerned with the safety and well-being of the girls who advertise here. I would never, and i mean never, willingly contact a girl i know who is being forced against her will to do this kind of stuff, so you have to understand where i'm coming from as a normal joe-soap irish lad. And hey, lets face it, most of us are very reserved here, it takes a lot for us to come out of our shell.

Regardless, what i'd like to know is that if i do happen to ring a girl, is it A) legal to do so, and B) how does it work?
What I mean in regard to step B, is that, if I ring, will I receive an answer from the girl, or will I receive an answer from her pimp? As i say, I'm very unsure about this whole thing, some of it is very dodgy where there is weird reviews left on the model's page, and then there is some very bad reviews where people don't even see the girl who is advertised on the site.

But yeah, my main focus is, is that whoever i contact, she is not in some mafia type bs where i turn up and i get robbed, kicked to bits, attacked or even get reported to cops. the only reason i'm asking here is to find out if its done above board. I would never pay money to a girl who is forced against her will, and i would never pay for my head to be kicked in. And lets be honest, we've all seen those movies.

Any feedback welcome, i'd love to hear what you have to say.

D.

Welcome,that's a really long first post and yet you forgot to mention which newspaper you work for.

[greenie]

Evening Herald or Sunday World? :P

Im happy for him to quote me in the article once he doesnt infer i am the man in his photo talking out the drivers window to a pair of legs in boots.

[Parrot]

If you're concerned with that just stick to the Irish ladies. Problem solved right?

But to have spent 4 years lurking here and not know the genuine independents from the agency girls (the ones with the boyfriends as you put it!!)

would be a rare man who can know genuine independents from agency girls.

[halflife]

Yes, I'm well educated, and no, I don't work for a newspaper.

For people who seem to think its weird that ive been aware of this site for 4 or more years, you have to understand that when i was single a few years back, i thought about giving an escort a try, then i managed to find myself in a relationship a short time later, so i knocked the idea on the head.
Now that im single again, and have been for awhile now, i was considering that maybe i should try it, but as i say, im very reserved about this kind of thing.
So to clarify, its not like ive been looking at this site everyday for 4 years thinking "will i do it" or not. its more of a "no, don't do it dude" and i forget about the idea and dont even look at the site for months.
Then later when i feel alone i think about it and then look at the girls in my area and then think again "don't do it".
so you have to understand, its not like im here every second day or weekend for the last 4 years looking at the girls.

But yeah, I'm very thoughtful about this and i have a huge conscience, so my main focus would be if the girl(s) are actually doing it for themselves or are they being forced into it. the one thing i couldnt live with is meeting a girl and thinking that everything is okay, but behind it all, she's in turmoil and being used.
and then there's me paying for it to make it happen, and thats something i dont want to be part of.

As someone suggested, maybe visiting an irish girl would be the way to do it. at least i know then she's not being flown around the world as a sex slave and maybe she'd put my mind at ease.

So yeah, thanks for the replies, appreciate it.