It's all about the money......?!

[Jetstream]

By definition a job is: -*'...an activity, often regular, and often performed in exchange for payment...' so an escort who choses to spend time with an individual and charges for her time is engaging in a job. End of!

[Westsidex]

So I've been reading a forum (that I'm not a member of) where they CONSTANTLY put escorts down for only being interested in the money whether they offer a good service or not.

NEWSFLASH!!!!!!!!!!!

Everyone goes to work for the money at the end of the day/week/month. Isn't this how we survive? Do these morons who slag us off for the bottom line being about money think that we do this just for the fun of it? Granted some ladies do, do this job because they absolutely cannot get enough sex so what better way to get what they want while making good money at the same time?

I try to offer the best service I can within my boundaries although granted I know I can't please everyone who walks through my door as sometimes I either don't click with the client or I get a bad client with a bad attitude or worse but them aside.....I do try my best. I do take a genuine interest in everything my client wishes to share and I genuinely look forward to spending time with my lovely clients. Providing my client is clean and respectful then it really is not an effort at all to provide them with my services because if I felt like that then I couldn't and wouldn't be able to do the job HOWEVER........Of course it's about the money at the end of the day!!!!!!!!

My client said to me yesterday morning that we're all prostitutes because he goes to work every day projecting a sales pitch to his customers, he tries his best to get the contract and then he will bend over backwards to give the client/customer what they want. Why? Because of the money! We all do it! I thought he made a good point.

So why are sex workers any different in this respect?

Thoughts......

The problem is you have a lot and I do mean a lot (and its usually the ones you think are ok) of retards around. They think a woman owes them something if they are paying. They think they have done something. They think they are special and something different to all the other punters. These are the ones who usually end up having a hissy fit when they realise all they were was a number. I didnt punt much but whatever was said went in one ear and out the other. Why? Because people will tell you what you want to hear when your paying money. Pretty much like these fools on here that lick an escorts ass. Only reason they are doing it is to hope to have a good time. If she retired in the morning they wouldnt give two shits. They'd be too busy licking the next girls ass. Its a nasty enough business because it involves a fair amount of falsehood.

Anyway,
Westside.

[talkabout]

It's as nasty or nice as "one" is "oneself".

[Westsidex]

It's as nasty or nice as "one" is "oneself".

Nope its nasty whether you like it or not. Thats fact. It involves pretence and playing on peoples emotions and thats nasty if you ask me. Its a necessary nastiness mind you but nasty nonetheless.

Westside.

[Alyssa Jenkins]

Alyssa and Rachel,

Well done the pair of you for touring Scotland and charging high rates but let me point something out to you since your both coming across as if your so much better than me.......

The guys will always pay a touring girl higher rates (I charge 50% more than I do at home when I am on tour and have never had a problem) especially when they are sucked in by the glossy photoshopped pics but most importantly......

If I sucked cock without using a condom and took loads of spunk in my mouth (the CIM is only directed at Rachel) and offered a much longer list of services like you ladies do then I would be able to charge a lot more in my home town aswell!!!

But the fact is, I'm a local girl who offers very limited services and the likes of OWO and CIM are NEVER on the menu, never have been and never will so for this, I CAN NOT get away with charging high rates in Glasgow of all places unless I want to sit with little to no work.

Aberdeen is a different story, I too charged higher rates there and never had a problem.

It's good business sense, you charge what the going rate is for your area and for the services you offer.

If I was a masseuse who only offered a happy ending then I would have to charge less again.

Rachel you mentioned something the other nite about having a bath with your client, well that's never something I would do so it's things like that along with sexual services etc that puts us in a different league with what we can charge!

Rachel if you were in Romania, would you get away with charging 250€ an hour? No would you fuck so you move to a place where you do get that kind of money.

You've both clearly got good business sense so don't try and put me down by making out your a higher class when in fact, the only thing that's high class is your rates. I couldn't even say that as working girls we do the same job because we don't, you do far more sexually than I will ever do.

Alyssa, most of that post was aimed at Rachel because she's always grilling me about how cheap I am for a booking compared to her when really she needs to remember where she comes from and the rates she charged in the past.

Kendra,
I am replying to this even though you are banned because I know you will read my reply.
May I say firstly that I do not like many of your posts as you have an opinion and if nobody agrees with you then they are picking on you, you have much to learn in life about how valuable it is that people have different opinions but furthermore that respecting and being respectful of other peoples opinions carries much weight.

I never insinuated once in my post I was better than you I do not suffer with hang ups in my life where I am concerned who is better than me and who is not I tend to focus on my own good and bad points and hope to improve the bad ones however it is important to have bad points to in fact be human.

My post was a response to yours regards you telling clients they were silly to pay rates here and people in Scotland would not pay these rates where you were technically picking on other service providers as they charged more than you. I pointed out that was not true simples.

In any country in the world service providers will have different rates its up to the person themselves as they work for themselves. You keep going on about your huge amount of reviews and stuff as if you need to prove something are those reviews or are they simply feedback on the other site, that is not a review you know hunny?

Now my photos are professional and I like my photos to be professional, my clothing to be in good order and my make up to be a good type of make-up, not because I think I am better than anyone but because I take pride in what I do. I like to look after myself with good products. I like to indulge in things and maintain a certain lifestyle and this is where the working for money comes into it. I LIKE to have certain things hence me being in this lifestyle I am very attracted to GLAMOUR and therefore yes I work for money like anyone else in the world but I take pleasure from my work and display this by taking pride in my work.

Just for your information my glossy photos well most of them are not touched up in fact friends have seen the originals and I have not touched them as it was not necessary.

As far as reviews go I have consistent good reviews over many years here in Ireland as well as other countries I visit as I am a Touring Escort. I also have feedback on that other site not as much though as I never used them before as I didn't like the fact that certain services were advertised there and I only rarely advertise on that site either.

Kendra I am not going to respond to your vulgar statements about services I offer as I have no need for the venom you spread around when you cannot have your own way like a little spoiled child its very sad really I pity you and do not envy you. Regards honesty I doubt you have an honest bone in your body you come on all the boards making allegations at everyone, saying horrid things about escorts as well as clients and then you think you can play the victim and say people are ganging up on you. That kind of carry on leaves much to be desired and I cannot say I see a lady writing these things. It is none of your concern which services any escort offers as it is not my concern what you offer or do or what your photos look like I doubt I have ever even looked at your profile. We are both escorts and you offering different services changes nothing sorry about that.

Finally I hope you can take a nice long look in the mirror as I often do and see your own flaws without trying to blame other people. You seem to constantly flutter between sites here in Ireland writing this stuff. Why? Do you take pleasure in drama? Possibly this is the reason.

Kendra good luck in life please do not ever post such offensive nonsense to me again I am not interested really. If escorting is so bad and you have such a chip on your shoulder either find an escort buddy to talk things through with as that's the best or move on always be happy in life no money can ever replace happiness for you.

Kind Regards,
Alyssa x

[cls95]

A classy reply from a very classy LADY

[talkabout]

Nope its nasty whether you like it or not. Thats fact. It involves pretence and playing on peoples emotions and thats nasty if you ask me. Its a necessary nastiness mind you but nasty nonetheless.

Westside.

If you don't like some amount of pretence with escorts why read or post on this site?
Perhaps you're into dom./humiliation and if you ever see an escort in the future you'll want no pretence but honesty and the brutal truth , that she(he?) Can't stand you physically or mentally and can barely tolerate you for a half hour for money.

[samlad]

Thread locked.

Of course it's about money. You don't think escorts would put up with even a quarter of this shit for free, do you? For blokes, it's all about blowing their loads. It could be a win:win situation if people realised that and applied some common sense and stop complicating things.