This is one for the ladies, maybe this isn't even the right section to ask the question?
Anyhoo.....am I the only one who finds fingering really, really sore? In my private life I enjoy it if I am in a relationship but I reckon that's because my boyfriend knows exactly how I like it whereas when meeting with strangers, they aren't mind readers so it's impossible for them to know exactly what I like.
I tense up so badly when a client goes to finger me and that's why I find it sore, it's because I've had too many clients either slip and scratch me (one actually cut me and caused me to bleed) or try to stuff too many fingers in or to try and finger me when I am completely dry because there has been no other foreplay.
There is also the hygiene issue because people carry all sorts of bacteria under their fingernails.
And lastly, our body's aren't actually designed to have as much sex as we have as an escort and usually I am absolutely fine having sex and receiving oral sex but when it comes to the texture of fingers, it feels very different and I feel that end up getting friction burns.
Anyway, I stopped allowing fingering about a year or so ago because I couldn't bear it anymore but I hear on different forums, punters complaining when an escort doesn't allow fingering.
So as I said above, am I the only one who tenses up and doesn't enjoy this at all? Am I the only one who just doesn't allow it any more? Someone suggested using lube to avoid the feeling of too many fingers or trying to put fingers in when dry so I did try this but this is when I find I get scratched or cut with nails.
Maybe I've just been really unlucky in the fingering department. It's a delicate area.