Sharing a bad experience. Stay safe

[gjetson468]

I had a horrific experience today. My usual favorite was out of town so I visited a masseuse who advertise here. Meeting arranged well in advance, arrived on cue. I was asked to wait, several reasons offered. I didn't care, but I finally saw another man exit the building and did the math.

I wasn't pissed. It was the first time I was experimenting in a while so I was looking forward to it. I didn't confront her but did ask her if we can cut our session short. Now, I'll skip the part where she schooled me justifying the double booking (among blatant lies, life is unfair was thrown in among others). By this point she became quite rude and it was made clear that our unfortunate meeting had to end. I politely then declined taking up the service, to which she absolutely turned Gordon Ramsey at me and started hurling abuses.

(Doesn't end here). I'm not ashamed to admit that I got scared. Scared of one of many bad ways this could end. This was the first and hopefully last time that a girl was going powerpuff at me, like I stole her baby. I took a step back and tried to calm her down. She then started shoving me, asking me to get out. I had nothing at this point so hurried my way out. Even after exiting the building, the lady followed me to the street and kept hurling abused at me. By now I wasn't just scared but also ashamed with the commotion it caused on a two way street.

My naivety was at choosing someone who had opted out of reviews. Not saying that's always a bad thing but this was the third bad experience with someone who has opted out of reviews (3 out of 3). That's ample pattern for me. Message received.

I don't review. Even the bad ones. But I wanted to share this because this could have easily ended very badly. I have massive respect for the ladies here, and understand that our arrangement works on a thin line of trust and discretion. One more important than the other, on each side. It's a lesson learned the hard way. Stay safe all.

[AmorInfinito8]

I had a horrific experience today. My usual favorite was out of town so I visited a masseuse who advertise here. Meeting arranged well in advance, arrived on cue. I was asked to wait, several reasons offered. I didn't care, but I finally saw another man exit the building and did the math.

I wasn't pissed. It was the first time I was experimenting in a while so I was looking forward to it. I didn't confront her but did ask her if we can cut our session short. Now, I'll skip the part where she schooled me justifying the double booking (among blatant lies, life is unfair was thrown in among others). By this point she became quite rude and it was made clear that our unfortunate meeting had to end. I politely then declined taking up the service, to which she absolutely turned Gordon Ramsey at me and started hurling abuses.

(Doesn't end here). I'm not ashamed to admit that I got scared. Scared of one of many bad ways this could end. This was the first and hopefully last time that a girl was going powerpuff at me, like I stole her baby. I took a step back and tried to calm her down. She then started shoving me, asking me to get out. I had nothing at this point so hurried my way out. Even after exiting the building, the lady followed me to the street and kept hurling abused at me. By now I wasn't just scared but also ashamed with the commotion it caused on a two way street.

My naivety was at choosing someone who had opted out of reviews. Not saying that's always a bad thing but this was the third bad experience with someone who has opted out of reviews (3 out of 3). That's ample pattern for me. Message received.

I don't review. Even the bad ones. But I wanted to share this because this could have easily ended very badly. I have massive respect for the ladies here, and understand that our arrangement works on a thin line of trust and discretion. One more important than the other, on each side. It's a lesson learned the hard way. Stay safe all.

(1) This site isn't the only site!

(2) I tried another site before E.I were there isn't any verification and got horribly catfished twice
I would have given up if I had a first bad experience here

(3) I don't risk opt-outs!!
I know some Girls from these other sites
aren't getting clients and have moved over to E.I with opt-out profiles

(4) you wanna take the risk?
Your not telling anyone anything they don't know!!

(5) stick to established girls or on occasion if a girl has just joined and allows reviews you might find a diamond

(6) this site can either take it's own credibility seriously or allow fake profiles to scare off clients to the point that girls won't advertise here!!!?

I know what I'd do as far as a business perspective!!!

[AmyTantraMassage]

I had a horrific experience today. My usual favorite was out of town so I visited a masseuse who advertise here. Meeting arranged well in advance, arrived on cue. I was asked to wait, several reasons offered. I didn't care, but I finally saw another man exit the building and did the math.

I wasn't pissed. It was the first time I was experimenting in a while so I was looking forward to it. I didn't confront her but did ask her if we can cut our session short. Now, I'll skip the part where she schooled me justifying the double booking (among blatant lies, life is unfair was thrown in among others). By this point she became quite rude and it was made clear that our unfortunate meeting had to end. I politely then declined taking up the service, to which she absolutely turned Gordon Ramsey at me and started hurling abuses.

(Doesn't end here). I'm not ashamed to admit that I got scared. Scared of one of many bad ways this could end. This was the first and hopefully last time that a girl was going powerpuff at me, like I stole her baby. I took a step back and tried to calm her down. She then started shoving me, asking me to get out. I had nothing at this point so hurried my way out. Even after exiting the building, the lady followed me to the street and kept hurling abused at me. By now I wasn't just scared but also ashamed with the commotion it caused on a two way street.

My naivety was at choosing someone who had opted out of reviews. Not saying that's always a bad thing but this was the third bad experience with someone who has opted out of reviews (3 out of 3). That's ample pattern for me. Message received.

I don't review. Even the bad ones. But I wanted to share this because this could have easily ended very badly. I have massive respect for the ladies here, and understand that our arrangement works on a thin line of trust and discretion. One more important than the other, on each side. It's a lesson learned the hard way. Stay safe all.

That word only applies to the 1st time you visited an opt out advertiser. If you're an adrenaline junkie and get off of your Russian roulette punting style, own up to it. Tfb, it sounds exciting, the will she won't she. Just know when you complain, many an eye will be rolling.

No sympathy here. You should know better.

[gjetson468]

Thanks guys. I don't want to turn this into a decaying debate but I do appreciate the feedback🙏🏽- just sharing my experience for the benefit of those who aren't as experienced or wise in the game.

Until yesterday, the "risk" of to me was a good punt or sunk cost. It was by no means a woman running after me on a street. What's next? Pulling a knife, blackmail? I sincerely don't feel I know enough but I wish someone had told me. Hence the post🙌🏽

I've been doing this for a few years and this was certainly shocking to me. If this helps a couple of us make better decisions in the future, I'd be glad.

[Harry68]

Let he who has not visited an opt out cast the first stone as the Good Book says (I think).

All bar the ultra disciplined calllers have at some point I would imagine rolled the dice . I’ve done 2/3 times myself. Only the most recent one was truly terrible. The other one/two were fine but not one for return visits.

It’s your money and your time at the end of the day and you’re free to spend both as you wish. Better research and preparation leads to better outcomes.

I don’t think I’m telling you anything you don’t already know.

Going back to the Good Book - “the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak”.

[revkeg]

Insane that she followed you onto the street. As someone with social anxiety that would destroy me for weeks.

I wonder if the man leaving the building was another punter or her partner.

The last time I visited an opt-out it was incredibly bad and I think cured me of opt-outs for life.

[AmyTantraMassage]

Probably not the 1st time she’s humiliated someone like that hence the opt out. I dunno how anyone with very little regard to discretion is still in business tbh. She must be pretty great when you stay regardless of hygiene/treatment. Bumping into previous client is enough of a red flag to not go in as she’d no respect for either of them. Imagine if they knew each other!!

But then again, if she has a ‘receptionist’ she might not have know and she’d have to pay the ‘commission’ out of pocket hence the rage.

[InsidiousCid]

I had a horrific experience today. My usual favorite was out of town so I visited a masseuse who advertise here. Meeting arranged well in advance, arrived on cue. I was asked to wait, several reasons offered. I didn't care, but I finally saw another man exit the building and did the math.

I wasn't pissed.

Fair enough I guess. It's when you meet them coming out the door of the apartment itself whilst you're waiting to be let in, that's the real passion killer.

It was the first time I was experimenting in a while so I was looking forward to it. I didn't confront her but did ask her if we can cut our session short. Now, I'll skip the part where she schooled me justifying the double booking (among blatant lies, life is unfair was thrown in among others). By this point she became quite rude and it was made clear that our unfortunate meeting had to end. I politely then declined taking up the service, to which she absolutely turned Gordon Ramsey at me and started hurling abuses.

At least you hadn't paid, take solace in that.

(Doesn't end here). I'm not ashamed to admit that I got scared. Scared of one of many bad ways this could end. This was the first and hopefully last time that a girl was going powerpuff at me, like I stole her baby. I took a step back and tried to calm her down. She then started shoving me, asking me to get out. I had nothing at this point so hurried my way out. Even after exiting the building, the lady followed me to the street and kept hurling abused at me. By now I wasn't just scared but also ashamed with the commotion it caused on a two way street.

I feel you on this one. Been in a few similar situations (except the girls allowed reviews, lol). My usual concern here is, "my boyfriend is in the next room, you better pay or it's a problem for you mang".

It's just one of those situations no client needs to get caught up in, for any number of obvious reasons.

[InsidiousCid]

My naivety was at choosing someone who had opted out of reviews. Not saying that's always a bad thing but this was the third bad experience with someone who has opted out of reviews (3 out of 3). That's ample pattern for me. Message received.

Not necessarily. Probability is higher with an opt-out, no doubt. And I hate to say it, but some providers actually seem to pride themselves in being a #crazy #baby, or whatever they call themselves, and behaving recklessly with apparent impunity.

But I get it, it's always nerve racking cancelling an appointment after showing up, for all the reasons you've mentioned.

And it's truly shocking sometimes how sneaky providers can be, no matter how much we sugar coat the practice with names like "escorts, courtesans, companions", and of course photoshop, which makes them look like angels when they're anything but.

I don't review. Even the bad ones. But I wanted to share this because this could have easily ended very badly.

One of the worst parts being, hypocritically as can be, good clients (who many providers will see as "easy targets") will often end up getting their names smeared by vindictive providers like this.

I have massive respect for the ladies here, and understand that our arrangement works on a thin line of trust and discretion. One more important than the other, on each side. It's a lesson learned the hard way. Stay safe all.

I wish I shared your optimism. For me I learned the hard way, in addition to the money, this job is also about the provider having and maintaining a sense of authority and control on/over her clients.

And they can stoop to some seriously questionable lows to get that.

I guess it's just about proceeding with the upmost caution, awareness, and I think doing as you're doing now. Not staying silent about it after the fact.

[Rua]

Thats brutal for that to happen but I really do think you should name & shame