Does it count if you pay for it?

[bettercallsaul]

I read the letter that lady sent into the Indo about how shit her life was and how she hated the thought of somebody standing over her grave saying: "Wasn't she great at paying her taxes".

It got me thinking, none of us are going to be old men saying to ourselves: "How glad I am I never missed a day of work", but I bet loads of us will think "I wish I'd had more sex" when we're on our last legs.

I wonder though, despite the fact that I have some amazing sexual experiences thanks to the ladies on this website, will I feel it doesn't really count because I had to pay for it?

Any thoughts?

Depends on what you call "counting" It's not the same obviously but some of us ugly fuckers have to pay to get the kind of women we want in the first place.

we all pay blah blah blah

[circumcised guy]

Well with the wonderful times and memories the ladies have given me here you can be dam sure they count!

[Klittyliker]

The amount of money I've spent on Escorts.......of course it feckin' counts!!

[Meursault]

this is like saying i got the walls painted but it doesnt count because i paid for it.........

[twentyeight]

Of course it counts! I've had bad experiences in my previous relationships and I don't like to go to clubs/pubs. If it wasnt for EI, my sex life would be almost non-existent. I guess there must be more cases like mine out there

[Petros]

I don't pay for sex — I pay for time and companionship and during this time and companionship I have had some amazing sex.

Now some will say I am playing with words here when I say this and perhaps I am. However the question was "Does it count if you pay for it". For me I am not into the quick wham bam thank you mam encounters. I like to take things easy, chat etc. As the time progresses and sex enters the equation I have forgotten about the business side of things.

Basically, what i am saying is that I don't see a difference in whether sex counts or does not count just because money has changed hands at some point during the night — sex is sex and it all counts IMO irrespective of how you came to be in a position to have it

[celticden]

I have to admit it did bother me that I had to pay for it and in back of your head you know the girl isn't enjoying it and its not real passionate sex like a women who is really into you just not the same but it literaly is the only way I can get physical contact with a women I just don't have the confidence or the knack with women the depression doesn't help either cus your self esteem is on the floor and i'm 27 imagine what its going to be like when i'm 30 or 40 haha

[Petros]

I have to admit it did bother me that I had to pay for it and in back of your head you know the girl isn't enjoying it and its not real passionate sex like a women who is really into you

How do you know she isn't enjoying it? If you were doing the exact same thing with a girl you picked up in a club would she enjoy it more?

Yes, this is a job for the ladies on here and yes, they are here to inflate your ego and make you feel good but ATEOTD they can get enjoyment out of a meeting to. Granted, I am sure you would need to be fairly talented to be able to pleasure them enough for them to get enjoyment out of it but I do believe it is possible!

[celticden]

How do you know she isn't enjoying it? If you were doing the exact same thing with a girl you picked up in a club would she enjoy it more?

Yes, this is a job for the ladies on here and yes, they are here to inflate your ego and make you feel good but ATEOTD they can get enjoyment out of a meeting to. Granted, I am sure you would need to be fairly talented to be able to pleasure them enough for them to get enjoyment out of it but I do believe it is possible!

yeah seriously though compared to a boyfriend or a good looking guy shes not good actress alright great girls great gfe but its work to them they go through the same routine with every guy and they are just doing there job ,compared to a night out its pretty clear the only interaction I will get with women is paying for it

[Petros]

yeah seriously though compared to a boyfriend or a good looking guy shes not good actress alright great girls great gfe but its work to them they go through the same routine with every guy and they are just doing there job ,compared to a night out its pretty clear the only interaction I will get with women is paying for it

Go with the flow — yes there is a lot of acting that goes on but that is not to say that you are crap!

You will never know if you are really hitting the mark or not and that goes for a girlfriend just as much as an escort IMO