harassment Double standard for clients and us ladies!

[Vitruvian]

To a point, I am sorry you had to deal with this guy, however you did reply to his text and proceed to except at least 3 phone calls from him, all at a time when you say you were not working and with family.
You have to except a lot of responsibility here, the decision to turn off your phone is yours.

[Ladyvonteese]

I make it clear you are from Limerick and about what you thought to be normal behaviour when harassing me on Saturday. And I also made it clear that the guy who asked me to leave my family was from Kerry. And like I said when you contacted me today via your PM's asking me to put this straight for you this is up to you to do so, not Me!!!

This WAS NOT me by the way...

[tom rambo]

Double standard for clients and us ladies!

I have read many threads here about girls who have text, called or even sent photos to clients when they have been with their family and hear you guys posting about how pissed off you are about these girls doing so.

But when a client who thinks its ok to go to the pub and text us girls saying they will call for a chat knowing she (I) am not working due to calls explaining so a week previously so as one does. I text back explaining “I am with family”. One would think ok I best leave this one alone and text back to say sorry for disturbing you but then calls for a chat about himself and to tell me how wonderful he and explain how lucky I am going to be meeting him because he is not a ugly fat baste*d like most of the guys I must see even though I don’t see the guys I meet as such (unless of course they really are when their personality is such regardless of looks).

Knowing I am cooking dinner etc he calls again so tell him if he wishes to chat then I will charge him 20 euros as it will save me going to get a top up which is 5 miles to the shop when I am living. This is agreed and he calls back to finish telling me how wonderful he is and loves my sexy voice but again only wishes to hear the sound of his own voice but again and again he call and still no credit so I respond by a text asking “where my credit is” but still no credit just calls singing to me down the phone (I hang up) leaves voice messages Pms and more voice messages and more PMs and stupid post saying he is not sure what is wrong with me. Loll

And to top everything else, this fool hours before contacting me while down the pub has put post here about Escorts False Personality and Escorts Following Clients (What a wanker)

Is it not bad enough we have to deal with all the bloody time wasters booking and not showing up, the guys who think just because some girls are in their lingerie when they meet clients it gives them the right to cop a feel and run, guys who try to pay with fake money or trying to over stay their welcome for half an hour or more, attacking and robbing us girls for our hard earned cash. And to think we should do whatever they want to them for the money they pay for our time because we are in this business when fully aware not every girls provides all services but to then think they have the right to call us 24 hours a day some with abusive messages and also invade our privacy when knowing we are with family too!

This is not the action of a young guy who is just starting out, it’s the action of a 52 year old man who obviously is craving attention. I have since found out where this f*cker lives in Limerick and am very tempted to knock on his door with a cold bucket of water and throw it over him.

I know there are some “real” gent out there as I have had the pleasure of meeting up with many of them and looking forward to doing so again and again.

So when I read post to treats like “I don’t care or on one cares” about us girls getting contacted by clients when with family It would be a very different matter if a client found himself in this situation and having to deal with this sh*t. So be respectful to us girls when we are working and when we are not as we too have lives with family in them also.

And if you really think any of us girls should not have a problem with what I have mentioned here then STOP watching porn as its doing you bloody heads in!!

Lady Von Teese

All this for a lousy 20 euros and guys wonder why I dont do sex chat. Really!

Sorry to hear that you have to put up with that crap from people alot off scumbags out there,and them ladies causing trouble on here,i will not calling to them,a lovely lady like you should be with respect,u are a sweet lady,xx

[Ladyvonteese]

The time after all the bull sh*t I did pick up the phone was due to I thought he was calling to give me the credit but when it was to just sing down the phone I did not answer and just kept hanging up the phone, sounds like you are in a bit of sympathy with these types or trying to start something with me, so If this is the case go find your entertainment somewhere I else as you will not be getting the attention which you "maybe" also seeking!

And just because some wanker thinks he can harass me in my private time with family or otherwise why should I have to stop talking with my genuine clients who have yet to gain my trust to be given my private telephone number yet!

[Ladyvonteese]

I totally get where you coming from honey but like I said to the other guy why should I have to stop chatting with other clients who have yet to have my private number just because of such did heads? I see so many of us girls getting robbed, attacked and more by so-called clients but do nothing about it and just deal with what happened to them and the guys gets away with it.

Personally if someone tries fu*king with me, my money, my life or cause me harm they would wish to think twice about it as I am not a person to take any sort of sh*t from anyone and I pay my tax's so if such was to happen to me I would for sure be seeing them in court and another reason why I dont work from brothels too. But regardless if its I am being attacked via the phone or in person they will not be getting away with it for sure!

No one should think oh thats just the life and due to the job we are in, fu*ck that, I deal with situations as I see fit and think we should all stand up for ourself to be treated in the correct manner regardless of the job we are in. Do you really think these guys also working in this business also get the same shit, I am guessing not many do.

I have to say that after 10pm & every day I am not working, my work phones are switched off. I find that I need a break when I'm not working, especially the phones, so in order not to stress myself I switch phones off until I'm back at work. Don't get me wrong, when I switch them back on & see all the stupid texts & ridiculous times guys have rung, I know that had my phones been switched on, I would be in such a bad mood, so my advice is to switch off all of your phones when you're not working. For example, I had 15 missed calls from one idiot alone at 6.15am this morning.

Sandy x

[Ladyvonteese]

What Petro was trying to get a cross is one would not behaved in such a manner to their bank manager or dentist in the same way these guys did with me just because they wish to meet with their bank manager or dentist as they would end up in court but many clients think just because of the type of business us girls are in they have the right to harass us and treat us like we are vermin and get away with it too!!

Fu*ck that, as with me someone keeps this type of behaviour up with me, they will be seeing themselves in court to that I can reasurre anyone trying it on!

So your saying because u strip off in front of an escort, it gives u extra after hours access?

I respectfully disagrees. You get the time u book/pay for

[Sexy Sandy 69]

I totally get where you coming from honey but like I said to the other guy why should I have to stop chatting with other clients who have yet to have my private number just because of such did heads? I see so many of us girls getting robbed, attacked and more by so-called clients but do nothing about it and just deal with what happened to them and the guys gets away with it.

Personally if someone tries fu*king with me, my money, my life or cause me harm they would wish to think twice about it as I am not a person to take any sort of sh*t from anyone and I pay my tax's so if such was to happen to me I would for sure be seeing them in court and another reason why I dont work from brothels too. But regardless if its I am being attacked via the phone or in person they will not be getting away with it for sure!

No one should think oh thats just the life and due to the job we are in, fu*ck that, I deal with situations as I see fit and think we should all stand up for ourself to be treated in the correct manner regardless of the job we are in. Do you really think these guys also working in this business also get the same shit, I am guessing not many do.

I know what you're saying, when I see all my missed calls, I think 'why the f**k would someone ring me at xyz time' hence I turn my phones off to spare me the grief. You could switch your phones off, leave a message saying what date you're back at work or guys could pm you whilst you're off. We deal with enough stress, we all find ways to deal with it, I know what I'm like & having to put up with phone calls 24/7 would really get to me. We all work differently.

Sandy x

[Ladyvonteese]

Even though I was not working but like I said, I still talk to clients I have both here and around the world who are respectful so I can have a roundabout conversations without the anyone in my company knowing what is really going on.

I am bewildered why you think I should conform to these di*k, sh*t, mother fu*ker creeps seeking my attention and I should still turn my phone off and loss potential work or in fact work around these di*k, sh*t, mother fu*ker creeps seeking my attention. Loll
Like you said we all run our business’s differently but seriously the is no way in a month of fecking Sunday’s someone is going to control how and when I work or when I am going be able to talk to whoever I wish to talk too either. Yes like many my phone is off from midnight to 10am regardless if I am working or not.

I am very choosy not only who I see as clients but the services I provide too and like to be around like-minded fun positive people who know I am in charge of my life regardless in private or when I am with a clients. They are paying for my time not my soul or to have me do trick like a good little puppy either! And if there are others who wish to live their lives doing so, so bit it, that is their decision and if that what makes them happy so be it. But when it comes to someone stepping over the mark with me they will soon feck*ng know it and will be regretting it.

Thankfully the only time someone has “tried” to attack me and rob me was a few years back in Galway but stupid di*k, sh*t, mother fu*ker creeps thought I was going to just lay down and take it, yes right in their bloody fecking dreams only!!!.

One guy came for a booking but some mins later a knock came to the door and there was another guy asking for whatever name he used, I said there was no one here by that name and of course turned round to be sure he could not see him which he could not. Regardless he kept insisting he saw his friend enter my room so told him to fuck the fuck off as I already make the situation very clear to him and slammed the door in his face!

About 3 or 4 mins later and in the other room while the guy was getting undressed he picked up a hair straightening bag thinking it was my purse where I kept my money. Now I am a tall lady but this young guy was nearly hitting 7 feet tall and not having much hair to grab on too, to drag him out the door and out to the main door I crabbed his ears kicked him in the face a few times while he begged me to get his clothes which I allowed him pick up but feck it, just as I had him to the front door, it was opening as the other cu*t had swiped my key card letting himself in. I managed to kick him in the balls which allowed me a few mins to get the other cu*t out the door. But to cut a very long story even shorter, it was them cu*its, who were begging me not to call the police and not to hurt them! It’s been a long time since any person to raise their hands towards me (I was a teenager and know no better). And of course I have even more ways of protecting myself now than I did back then. Loll



So no honey, I will not conform to such behaviour towards me, which is including harassment via phone call also from anyone and believe if more girls in this business stopped letting these animals get away with it then our lives when working in this business would be even more enjoyable and a lot safer for us all too.

I like any other person in any type of business have the right not only to protect oneself but also to defend myself too regardless of the situation I maybe unlucky to find myself in but one thing is 100% for sure, no fecker will be getting away with these type of behaviour towards me, regardless if its harassment, robbery or acts of violence! Feck that! I would make them famous all over the media and take legal action to prosecute them in court before I would allow these type of cu*ts to get away with it!

No one should have to tolerate such behaviour in their lives regardless who they are or what they do for a living and I would never ever act in such a manner towards anyone unless it was to defend myself. I am into positivity not negativity!
Stay safe and stand up for what you believe in and your right to live without harrasment or being attacked!

I know what you're saying, when I see all my missed calls, I think 'why the f**k would someone ring me at xyz time' hence I turn my phones off to spare me the grief. You could switch your phones off, leave a message saying what date you're back at work or guys could pm you whilst you're off. We deal with enough stress, we all find ways to deal with it, I know what I'm like & having to put up with phone calls 24/7 would really get to me. We all work differently.

Sandy x

[Vitruvian]

The time after all the bull sh*t I did pick up the phone was due to I thought he was calling to give me the credit but when it was to just sing down the phone I did not answer and just kept hanging up the phone, sounds like you are in a bit of sympathy with these types or trying to start something with me, so If this is the case go find your entertainment somewhere I else as you will not be getting the attention which you "maybe" also seeking!

And just because some wanker thinks he can harass me in my private time with family or otherwise why should I have to stop talking with my genuine clients who have yet to gain my trust to be given my private telephone number yet!

Miss LVT, please do not assume, it's not your strong point, as I have little time for his like.
I am well aware of his reputation, my question is, are you ?
Let’s face it, a week ago you flirted with this individual on this very forum, asking him to come see you in Limerick.
Perhaps you should review your selection process.
BTW Is your private time worth 20 Euro phone credit ?

[Ladyvonteese]

First of all and of course I was not aware of his reputation but saying that I have met some guys but weeks later have been told they are on ugly mugs but personally not had a problem with them in nor have they misbehaved when in my company. the other point is he in fact had contacted me for an appointment and we all (both men and woman alike) are all flirty on this site, unless of course with the exception of those who are hear to cause problem for another person and this is not referring to you as I dont know you well enough to make that assumption as yet.

But when I do make other assumptions about other thing its usually because the way a person left a answer to a message which I may find strange. And I totally agree making assumption is of course not my better talents. Loll

All the best
Lady Von Teese

Miss LVT, please do not assume, it's not your strong point, as I have little time for his like.
I am well aware of his reputation, my question is, are you ?
Let’s face it, a week ago you flirted with this individual on this very forum, asking him to come see you in Limerick.
Perhaps you should review your selection process.
BTW Is your private time worth 20 Euro phone credit ?