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    Question Should I Play it Cool or Tell Her I Really Like Her?

    Hey ladies and gents,

    Looking to get the advice of those more sage than me.

    I've been doing the dating scene for a while, but just in the last few weeks met a girl I really like. Far too early to make firm conclusions about anything, I just know I really enjoy being with her and she's the only girl that I've put as a priority over my work in about 5 years.

    I know (think!) she is (was) into me. Few dates now, gone really well; lots of fun, laughs, physical contact - no sex but I respect that at this stage.

    But now she's gone somewhat aloof and withdrawn - no real eagerness to meet again.

    So one part of me thinks she's simply lost interest (it happens), the other is maybe she is afraid of taking that next step and being vulnerable in case she gets hurt (I know she has some bad experiences in past)

    So I'm unsure what to do. Is she playing hard to get/ loosing interest - do I play it cool, keep up the banter when opportunity arises and play it distant so don't give off desperation. Or do I take the gamble, sit her down and just come out with I really like her, I really love being with her and I do not want to hurt or take advantage of her.

    Any other girl I'd have just let it go by but I just feel I have to try with her.

    Any suggestions much appreciated

    Thanks

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    Text her and ask her.

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    Only one way to find out, and its not here...you've already given yourself the answer...tell her, ask her..probably waiting for that she is...do it.

    and then tell us.

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    go for the jugular. This is what you say:

    "I haven't written this down, because this comes from the heart. [name of woman], I've known you and been your friend for many years. And I think it's important to say, I love you. I love you more than anyone I've ever loved! I don't want the parachute, you can have it!"

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    Firstly, as suggested above, DO NOT TXT HER !!! Terrible form of communication in this area! I always believe honesty is the best policy, if this girl is an adult then she will respect your honesty, there is a time that playing games just has to end...Be honest xxxx
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    "Hey you dudes that pay women for sex, give me dating advice".

    hehe

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    Do not text.
    Take her out for a coffee / drink / walk on the beach etc....and have a chat about relationships.
    Ask her what she is looking for or if she wants to take the friendship to the next phase.
    Do not tell her ya love her ffs. She may disappear into the distance but do say you are interested in seeing a bit more of her.
    Good luck with it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AbsoluteNoob View Post
    "Hey you dudes that pay women for sex, give me dating advice".

    hehe

    Because clearly paying a woman for sex totally invalidates your opinion on all other matters
    Just can't give this mad shit up

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    Ask to meet her for a coffee/ drink which ever she wants, and have a good conversation to clear the air.
    If you get the answers you want then move on to the next step only she if she wants to aswell.
    If not, thank her for her the good times you had together and move on.
    Don,t let it feister as it will only go down hill faster than a down hill skier.

    Best of luck
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    Go get yourself laid by a couple of women here.

    Then you won't care

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