Time Wasters

[Jiberjabber]

That's a good rule to have and one I use myself. If I get a reply, I reply back but I'd never send an another message when I didn't get a reply, that just reeks of desperation in my opinion.
I also always use the track message option and if an escort reads my messages and doesn't reply then I take as 'thanks, but no thanks'.
But PM's haven't really worked that well for me yet unfortunately, but I'm hoping that will change.

So that's what that is for
I always regarded message tracking as needlessly intrusive but now it makes sense. Not sure if I'll use it though, I don't like being on the receiving end of popup messages.

[Kendra]

Same here, they swiftly went from my favorites list to my I wouldn't waste my time list. I really don't understand it though, business is business and you have to put up with time wasters in most lines of work anyway, but you have to be able to deal with people appropriately too. If a customer is acting the maggot with me I'd still be civil and courteous with them, and I'd be making a hell of alot less then €200 per hour (plus I pay tax too).

Yes you do have to deal with timewasters and numpty's in any line of work but it's very different for us, we have to deal with all sorts on a whole other level that I can't even begin to put into words and we are offering a very intimate service that means being alone with a stranger. We are our own boss, we don't owe anybody anything. If someone is polite then of course the normal and sensible thing to do is respond in a polite way because that is a good potential client who at the end of the day are my bread and butter but if someone comes across as an idiot, is rude or disrespectful or clearly hasn't a clue and expects things I don't advertise then I've no time for that so I would normally ignore it but very occasionally someone just really pisses you off which makes it difficult not to snap at them cause we're only human.

I know your only new to this hunni but please don't compare an idiot that a shop keeper may have to deal with as the same as what a sex worker may have to do with. The shop keeper doesn't put themselves in a vulnerable position where they are alone and a shop keeper doesn't have to get naked with them and then have sex with them and try to remain a positive professional attitude.

xx

[Khujo]

So that's what that is for
I always regarded message tracking as needlessly intrusive but now it makes sense. Not sure if I'll use it though, I don't like being on the receiving end of popup messages.

It is intrusive but it's better to know where you stand with an escort instead of trying to second guess them. So if you send a PM without message tracking, you haven't a clue if she read it or not, then you could possibly run the risk of sending a follow up message which might piss her off and she might block you. At least you have the option to know that she read your message, wasn't interested so didn't reply.

[Khujo]

Yes you do have to deal with timewasters and numpty's in any line of work but it's very different for us, we have to deal with all sorts on a whole other level that I can't even begin to put into words and we are offering a very intimate service that means being alone with a stranger. We are our own boss, we don't owe anybody anything. If someone is polite then of course the normal and sensible thing to do is respond in a polite way because that is a good potential client who at the end of the day are my bread and butter but if someone comes across as an idiot, is rude or disrespectful or clearly hasn't a clue and expects things I don't advertise then I've no time for that so I would normally ignore it but very occasionally someone just really pisses you off which makes it difficult not to snap at them cause we're only human.

I know your only new to this hunni but please don't compare an idiot that a shop keeper may have to deal with as the same as what a sex worker may have to do with. The shop keeper doesn't put themselves in a vulnerable position where they are alone and a shop keeper doesn't have to get naked with them and then have sex with them and try to remain a positive professional attitude.

xx

Well that's kind of beside the point as the risk is always greater with the more lucrative reward. There are people who drill down mine shafts that could collapse at any minute and fisher men who risk there lives in stormy seas but they do it for a hell of a lot of money. Same with escorts. There is a very real risk that you could meet a psychopath in your line of work, but your earnings are so high that for most it is worth taking that gamble. So comparing a shop keeper who earns €8.65 and hour to an escort who earns €200 per hour is unfair. Yes they both have to deal with totally different levels of shit from customers, but look at the money involved. Like I said, its a simple trade off with risk vs reward.

[Khujo]

The tracking message option just makes me growl when it pops up. Never use it myself .

I'd never use it with another member of the forum, that would just be weird It's handy for using on escorts though, well most of the time anyway (I still have three escorts who haven't even looked at my messages from the week that I joined).

[ana massage]

Ah okay, well maybe using the term time waster was abit extreme, but I still find it odd that they never bothered their arse to text me back or even answer my PM's. I mean that rarely happens in any other line of work, most people are usually delighted to getting more business/money. I suppose I was just abit miffed at not even getting passed the first hurdle even though I had €100+ burning a hole in my pocket. Oh well, lots of girls out there so I guess I'll just have to chop and change my favorite list around and move on.

2 weeks I called an agent(letting agency) few times and when I saw he does not answer I left him a voicemail.
I never heard from him
Another one told me they will call back....they never did!
And when you finally find somebody more proffesional acting ,when you finally turn up you get to be with 30 more people to see one fecking apartment ....then is all lottery like you can start vets of who's going to get the apt.
One time rang a plumber and gave him the adress to come and check out my washing machine.....he never turn up

My point is you guys( irish) better shut up and move on until you find what you looking for

[wolfie]

2 weeks I called an agent(letting agency) few times and when I saw he does not answer I left him a voicemail.
I never heard from him
Another one told me they will call back....they never did!
And when you finally find somebody more proffesional acting ,when you finally turn up you get to be with 30 more people to see one fecking apartment ....then is all lottery like you can start vets of who's going to get the apt.
One time rang a plumber and gave him the adress to come and check out my washing machine.....he never turn up

My point is you guys( irish) better shut up and move on until you find what you looking for

I'd check out your plumbing anytime Ana

[Kendra]

Well that's kind of beside the point as the risk is always greater with the more lucrative reward. There are people who drill down mine shafts that could collapse at any minute and fisher men who risk there lives in stormy seas but they do it for a hell of a lot of money. Same with escorts. There is a very real risk that you could meet a psychopath in your line of work, but your earnings are so high that for most it is worth taking that gamble. So comparing a shop keeper who earns €8.65 and hour to an escort who earns €200 per hour is unfair. Yes they both have to deal with totally different levels of shit from customers, but look at the money involved. Like I said, its a simple trade off with risk vs reward.

Your missing the point entirely. If someone is rude to us or come across as an idiot then we are NOT going to take their booking unless we're completely desperate because we are our own bosses. I agree that other jobs have a danger element to them but that's the employees choice to do that job the same as it's our choice whether we want to meet a certain client or not. I am simply not going to invite someone into my home where I sell my body and soul to them for them to treat me badly or be disrespectful towards me so I don't agree with your argument that we should have to put up with idiots and timewasters just because other professions have to deal with them. It's a different situation entirely.

Best to stop comparing our line of work to others. It's very different, just because we get paid a lot of money doesn't mean that we should put ourselves in a bad postition with someone we aren't comfortable with.

I actually think it's becoming a little clearer why your all emails are being ignored

Money isn't everything, if I thought my job was going to be hellish all the time for the sake of money then I wouldn't do the job. My health and happiness and well being is something you can't buy so it's far more important than money. What good is money when your completely miserable?

[willie wacker]

Yeah I've found out very quickly that the PM function is next to useless on this site for trying to contact escorts. I've pretty much been told to 'fuck off and ring me' by one escort, which was lovely :P But I understand how busy the girls are and I'm still finding my feet in this game so to speak, so I'll learn soon enough

The pm system works to the extent that it,s a provisional booking, you still have to ring later to confirm the time.
Also only ladies who are active on the forum use the pm system.
In most cases you have to ring them and ring them again. If you don,t and someone confirms a booking then they are going to take their booking.
Remember if you really want the booking then the balls in your court to follow up.

[Khujo]

Your missing the point entirely. If someone is rude to us or come across as an idiot then we are NOT going to take their booking unless we're completely desperate because we are our own bosses. I agree that other jobs have a danger element to them but that's the employees choice to do that job the same as it's our choice whether we want to meet a certain client or not. I am simply not going to invite someone into my home where I sell my body and soul to them for them to treat me badly or be disrespectful towards me so I don't agree with your argument that we should have to put up with idiots and timewasters just because other professions have to deal with them. It's a different situation entirely.

Best to stop comparing our line of work to others. It's very different, just because we get paid a lot of money doesn't mean that we should put ourselves in a bad postition with someone we aren't comfortable with.

I actually think it's becoming a little clearer why your all emails are being ignored

Money isn't everything, if I thought my job was going to be hellish all the time for the sake of money then I wouldn't do the job. My health and happiness and well being is something you can't buy so it's far more important than money. What good is money when your completely miserable?

I'm not missing the point, I was making the point, as I was the one who created this thread, not you. All you are doing is derailed the thread to push your own agenda and then have sly digs at me like the comment that I highlighted above.

I don't know you personally and I initially sympathised with you as you've told everybody countless times that you've been bullied by everybody and their mother on this site, yet here you are making patronising comments on all of the posts that I've made today in different threads

All you seem to do troll threads, stir shit and start arguments. I mean, what the fuck is your problem?