Time Wasters

[Khujo]

Okay, this can work both ways and even though alot of escorts complain about time wasters, I've been on the receiving end recently, and I'm only a newbie to the punting game.

Firstly I called two girls from my favorites list a couple of days apart. Neither of them answered the phone. I sent them text messages, but neither message was answered. I then tried to PM them on this site. Yet again, nada. I decided to move on a choose another girl. I sent a PM and arranged a date. I was told to call on the day to confirm but the very next day her account was suspended, and still is, plus I didn't have the number saved to my phone so couldn't call so see what was going on.

I've only been doing this less then a month, and I only go for popular girls with very good reviews, but is this a common occurrence for the more seasoned punters, or am I just jinxed

[Kendra]

Okay, this can work both ways and even though alot of escorts complain about time wasters, I've been on the receiving end recently, and I'm only a newbie to the punting game.

Firstly I called two girls from my favorites list a couple of days apart. Neither of them answered the phone. I sent them text messages, but neither message was answered. I then tried to PM them on this site. Yet again, nada. I decided to move on a choose another girl. I sent a PM and arranged a date. I was told to call on the day to confirm but the very next day her account was suspended, and still is, plus I didn't have the number saved to my phone so couldn't call so see what was going on.

I've only been doing this less then a month, and I only go for popular girls with very good reviews, but is this a common occurrence for the more seasoned punters, or am I just jinxed

Ok hunni

Granted many escorts probably are timewasters as some work in a first come first serve basis which may mean she takes 3 bookings at the same time so who ever turns up first gets seen first and the others have to wait around. Each to their own I guess. So some clients may feel messed about in this situation.

But the example you gave of not being able to get a couple of girls on the phone or text isn't the definition of a timewaster. They are obviously busy. It's not in an escorts best interest to ignore her phone because answering it and taking bookings is how we earn a living.

Personally speaking I always get back to my clients by sending them a text to apologise for missing their call if I miss their call within an hour or 2 but any longer than that (if I have been in a longer booking for example) then I won't text back incase the client doesn't have a separate punting phone and I text him at an inconvenient time.

There are also plenty of other reasons why they missed your call, they could have been out having lunch or dinner or out doing some shopping or having their hair done or with their friends or family, there's a million reasons other than them being busy with work that could get in the way of them answering their phone.

A timewasting escort is someone you've booked who stands you up without even letting you know.

xx

[Khujo]

Ah okay, well maybe using the term time waster was abit extreme, but I still find it odd that they never bothered their arse to text me back or even answer my PM's. I mean that rarely happens in any other line of work, most people are usually delighted to getting more business/money. I suppose I was just abit miffed at not even getting passed the first hurdle even though I had €100+ burning a hole in my pocket. Oh well, lots of girls out there so I guess I'll just have to chop and change my favorite list around and move on.

[Khujo]

Thanks for the tip, I'll use that next time.
Also I've actually never had an escort pick up the phone the first time that I called them. I don't have a private number or anything, but the couple that I've meet always called my phone back for a second or two as an indication that they were free to call them again.
I guess the main thing is that I'm quite nervous calling escorts, so when they don't answer me at all I just feel let down, even though there could be circumstances on their end that I know nothing about.

[Kendra]

Thanks for the tip, I'll use that next time.
Also I've actually never had an escort pick up the phone the first time that I called them. I don't have a private number or anything, but the couple that I've meet always called my phone back for a second or two as an indication that they were free to call them again.
I guess the main thing is that I'm quite nervous calling escorts, so when they don't answer me at all I just feel let down, even though there could be circumstances on their end that I know nothing about.

I will always get back to someone who's phoned me and sent me a text to say it's ok to text when I am available unless it's someone I already have blocked on my phone.

If they haven't read your PM's on escort Ireland then very few escorts use that function. Just think how many escorts are on this site and how many post on the forum. If the girl doesn't post on the forum then there's a big chance she won't bother with the emailing function on her profile either.

I will be honest, I never used to use it when I used to tour ireland because my phone was so busy and phone calls always come before emails etc because in haven't got time to hang around waiting on a response with an email.

xx

[Khujo]

Yeah I've found out very quickly that the PM function is next to useless on this site for trying to contact escorts. I've pretty much been told to 'fuck off and ring me' by one escort, which was lovely :P But I understand how busy the girls are and I'm still finding my feet in this game so to speak, so I'll learn soon enough

[Jiberjabber]

I'll probably jinx myself by saying this but I've never had my time wasted in regards to making bookings. Any lady I've called has always picked up first time and so far it's been plain sailing. I do prefer PMing an escort as my first contact and in general that has worked well for me but of course that's not always possible. I've had one or two short and sharp PMs that have caused me to change my mind about moving to the booking stage. Does that make me a time waster I wonder?

[Kendra]

I'll probably jinx myself by saying this but I've never had my time wasted in regards to making bookings. Any lady I've called has always picked up first time and so far it's been plain sailing. I do prefer PMing an escort as my first contact and in general that has worked well for me but of course that's not always possible. I've had one or two short and sharp PMs that have caused me to change my mind about moving to the booking stage. Does that make me a time waster I wonder?

No it doesn't make you a timewaster, if an escort does anything to make you wary then it's your right to change your mind. Anything a client does to make me wary gets refused a booking because I don't know who's gonna walk through my door whereas from the clients point of view.....you are walking into the unknown so you have to be careful x

[Khujo]

I'll probably jinx myself by saying this but I've never had my time wasted in regards to making bookings. Any lady I've called has always picked up first time and so far it's been plain sailing. I do prefer PMing an escort as my first contact and in general that has worked well for me but of course that's not always possible. I've had one or two short and sharp PMs that have caused me to change my mind about moving to the booking stage. Does that make me a time waster I wonder?

Same here, they swiftly went from my favorites list to my I wouldn't waste my time list. I really don't understand it though, business is business and you have to put up with time wasters in most lines of work anyway, but you have to be able to deal with people appropriately too. If a customer is acting the maggot with me I'd still be civil and courteous with them, and I'd be making a hell of alot less then €200 per hour (plus I pay tax too).

[Khujo]

I've found the pm system very very good.
I've been able to chat first and then book some stunning ladies and had some good laughs a long the way.

I've always used a rule. If i pm a lady and i get no reply then i will under no circumstances pm them a second time.
I take a no reply as a polite way of them telling me that they wouldn't like to meet and to me thats perfectly acceptable.
Of course i know there could be other genuine reasons for no reply but thats just the way it goes.

That's a good rule to have and one I use myself. If I get a reply, I reply back but I'd never send an another message when I didn't get a reply, that just reeks of desperation in my opinion.
I also always use the track message option and if an escort reads my messages and doesn't reply then I take as 'thanks, but no thanks'.
But PM's haven't really worked that well for me yet unfortunately, but I'm hoping that will change.