Getting Laid

[paul_m]

How hard or easy do you find it? I am extremely shy so approaching women is very difficult for me.

I am so bad that I have been asked by some girls if I was gay

[warmcome]

what's the worst that could happen?

[Khujo]

Generally speaking I find Dublin to be a very hard place to approach women.
Most women here socialise in large groups and their bitch shields are usually very high. The quality of Irish women in general isn't great either in my opinion, especially compared to the rest of Europe. Put your average Irish girl next to your average Slovak girl, for example, and you'll immediately see the difference.
I also find that they tend to go for the most attractive and extrovert men, even if they aren't great looking or all that out going themselves. So overall, getting laid here is pretty damn hard and probably not even worth the chase in most cases. I usually only approach foreign girls on a night out because they usually aren't as paranoid as the locals and usually more interesting and easier to talk to......but more importantly they are FAR easier to get into bed

[Mickey O leary]

I find if you can make them laugh you're in there, just be yourself and go for it.,, and good luck

[paul_m]

if you are not confident and or an extrovert it is extremely hard

[warmcome]

if you are not confident and or an extrovert it is extremely hard

aiming too high? would you chat to the plain girl in the cake shop?

[Rocker123]

The problem is most fellas approach a lady thinking how can I get into her knickers but the ladies have a sixth sense and can spot this a mile away and just hit them for six.
Try just being yourself , say hello and read the signals. Ladies don't bite unless you give them reason.

Haha Tried it .. they say goodbye.

[paul_m]

aiming too high? would you chat to the plain girl in the cake shop?

with extreme difficulty

[warmcome]

with extreme difficulty

you don't need say why, but do you guess the reason for this irrational aversion?

[Meursault]

The problem is most fellas approach a lady thinking how can I get into her knickers but the ladies have a sixth sense and can spot this a mile away and just hit them for six.
Try just being yourself , say hello and read the signals. Ladies don't bite unless you give them reason.

yea you got to go out not to pull but to enjoy yourself and through doing that you increase the chances......

men who reek of desperation are easy to spot.......men who try to use reverse psychology are also easy to spot......

so just go out to have good time and a bit of craic