One of those threads (Virgin)

[Roxafella]

Hey there

Well um I'm wondering/looking for advice on this matter.

I'm 24 and never had Sex and I've had enough all my friends bragging about it all makes me feel worse on the matter. I'm not the most confident guy on the planet all the girls who I've even tried to ask out have used me (one using me for upto 4 years but that's my fault for letting happen) so I'm inexperienced, real bad lack of confidence and shy to boot.

so anyone know of anyone in Belfast who would be perfect? and if i should go through with it? I'm really wanting to but even picking up the phone is a nightmare on the nerves for me and so was this thread.

Thank you everyone

[Ladyvonteese]

Take your time honey and write a Pm first to a few ladies you like then see what comes back as this will give you a good indication if they are interested and more about them from their response to you. It will also give you a chance to get the nerve give them a call but don't just rush into it as you do want it to be a memorable time together as its going to one you'll remember for the rest of your life honey.

Also be sure whoever you chose she is charging for her time not what she dose as you could be out the door very quick and could cost you more than you'd hoped to pay.

I am in Belfast at the end of the month but just for a few days.

All the best honey and whoever you share this with I do hope its a good one that you will be able to smile back on for many many years.


All the best
Lady Von Teese

Hey there

Well um I'm wondering/looking for advice on this matter.

I'm 24 and never had Sex and I've had enough all my friends bragging about it all makes me feel worse on the matter. I'm not the most confident guy on the planet all the girls who I've even tried to ask out have used me (one using me for upto 4 years but that's my fault for letting happen) so I'm inexperienced, real bad lack of confidence and shy to boot.

so anyone know of anyone in Belfast who would be perfect? and if i should go through with it? I'm really wanting to but even picking up the phone is a nightmare on the nerves for me and so was this thread.

Thank you everyone

[Stevenn]

Best of luck with it pal.

I'd definitely recommend visiting a mature escort for this if that's your thing. Explain your situation over the phone so they know. If you find someone you are comfortable with, don't be afraid to travel for the right girl. If money's not an issue, you should consider a two or three hour booking perhaps which would allow you to really enjoy it (over and over again) and savour every moment. :-)

If it's not an imposition, let us know who you choose lol

[Roxafella]

Thanks for the advice it's really appreciated

Still too nervous to pick up the phone though know of Amy younger ones that would maybe talk through here maybe at first? Hate being like this but one of those things I guess.

[bikerboy21]

Just go for it bud,i was the same as you a couple of months ago and got with an escort just to make virginity disappear lol when your there your nerves will disappear and youll be grand and youll never have to see that person again so it wont matter if u were good or bad at sex if thats whats worrying ya

[SmallHorn]

All good advice here pal,
I was a nervous wreck seeing my first escort (although it was not my "first time")


Go for it, you'll love it

[Sexy Sandy 69]

Choose wisely, if in doubt, if the girl has reviews, pm the guys to ask if the girl was patient. Explain your situation either by pm or over the phone, opt for a nice relaxing tactile appointment, lots of teasing, massage etc before getting down to the main event, it will help with your nerves.

Sandy x

[Highwayman12]

I'm in the same situation as you man, virgin and really want to visit an escort simply to lose that "virgin" tag.

All people on here seem to be friendly and open minded, so I'm gonna do it. I hate phone calls too so we'll have to quickly get over it! haha

[Petros]

First off guys, there a lot of really nice ladies on here who will really look after you. The first visit may seem daunting, especially if this is your first real sexual encounter.

I would suggest doing some research before you decide. Look at the ladies listings and read their reviews. Them perhaps PM them explaining your situation. Those that do reply to you will be genuinely interested to meet you and you can break the ice before meeting them.

I would suggest booking for an hour. That way things won't be rushed and you can chat and get to know each other a little.

When meeting one of the ladies turn up on time, clean, be respectful and be discreet!

[Roxafella]

people on here are very nice and i'm greatful for the support in anyway so thank you everyone


Still haven't managed to even PM any girl yet and there is one I have seen I would like to meet but I just can't do it nerves have always gotten the better of me but I do want to lol