What would you have done ?

[Johnfromclare]

Dear all the fine people in Escort Ireland,

In Cork earlier during the summer in one of those warm fine days I happened to go for a pint and a bit of a relax. As it happened, when I went to sit outside the beautiful escort happened to also enjoying the sunshine while having a coffee. She is one of my favourite escorts (for sexiness and intellegence - not that I want to put myself in a position to judge!). Anyway, I have met her, as a client, on a good few occasions and she greeted me with a very warm 'hello' which probably left it open for me to talk/converse more with her. To be honest, I would have loved to have sat down with her and joined her at the table but as things turned out I simply said 'hello' and sat down a few tables away and started reading the newspaper. A very beautiful woman like this escort has the capacity to make me speechless and shy but, to be honest, I don't know what the correct etiquette is in this situation. I mean we (kind of ) know each other after a good few appointments, and she was very warm in her greeting etc. but I felt like I ought to respect the fact that she was having time to herself and wanted to enjoy her coffee and the sunshine in peace. This escort strikes me as a woman who is comfortable in her own skin and is friendly and sociable. She knows all my deepest secrets/fantasies etc (nothing too heavy folks but I trust her!)

So my question is ...if you meet an escort you are familiar with in a cafe/bus/train/pub/dentist etc... what is the correct code of behaviour (especially when you like the person and think she is sound/cool etc). I hope she doesn't think that I was being 'standoffish' in anyway. So there is my dilemma ...any advice from escorts or clients would be appreciated ....thanks

[fiatpunter]

So my question is ...if you meet an escort you are familiar with in a cafe/bus/train/pub/dentist etc... what is the correct code of behaviour (especially when you like the person and think she is sound/cool etc). I hope she doesn't think that I was being 'standoffish' in anyway. So there is my dilemma ...any advice from escorts or clients would be appreciated ....thanks

Well, if you met your dentist out would you avoid having a chat with them because they normally charge you €100 for a half hour examination?

I don't think the fact that you are a client means that you can't have a conversation on a non billable basis....

[funlover12]

you did the right thing, for all you know she was waiting for a client
all you have to do now is explain next time you meet her. simple. dont mix business with pleasure
if she smiles at you, give a polite nod and go back to your paper like you are a married man being hassled by a girl who fancies you and you dont want anything

[meath chap]

yes you done the right thing

[Banger]

I've met this escort several times out and about in Galway city. She's a lovely relaxed and friendly person. She has even introduced me to the loved ones she was with (which was surprising because I don't even know her name).

That said I would never approach an escort on the street unless I knew she was okay with it (she always was the one to approach me). I know many escorts prefer discretion in this regard so when in doubt, don't approach them.

[Johnfromclare]

Well, if you met your dentist out would you avoid having a chat with them because they normally charge you €100 for a half hour examination?

I don't think the fact that you are a client means that you can't have a conversation on a non billable basis....

I got my wisdom teeth pulled by Sexy Jessica and Sofi Milani

[Sexy Sandy 69]

If I was in that situation, I wouldn't object to a 'hello' however I wouldn't appreciate some guy expecting more. When out of work, I value my private time & I believe that the lines between friendship/client shouldn't be crossed.

Sandy x

[Johnfromclare]

Thanks Sandy, it's just that there is a particular publican that I sometimes enjoy going into for a pint and a chat - and we got on really well to the point that I would consider him to be a good friend. He owns the pub and I enjoy calling into him and his wife. Now if ever I was to meet either of them outside of their pub I would automatically socialise with them and I wouldn't have to think twice about it - they would probably think I was being odd if I didn't.

I know and appreciate what you are saying but surely there can be a point where the friendship/client line is crossed and is there any harm if that happens ( maybe it's just human nature that lines like this can be crossed ). At the same time, those lines do need to be respected...now there's a contradiction

[samlad]

Please don't name individual escorts in these types of thread.

[Yamser]

if it was my i would not approach , she\he may want some time alone even away from their friends and justs wants a quiet one , could be waiting on a friend who doesnt know she\he is escort , maybe waiting on boyfriend anyway i do not engage unless they engage me first

as think of the reverse if you wear sitting in the pub waiting on your gf bf wife or husband to show up and a escort comes over how would you feel ?

if both of you see each other and give the nod or the shake thats it you know the hey how are you , but dont approach me my wife is getting the bulmers and carlesberg nod , you know the one lol


i dont mind if she approches me as im single and if i was dateing well wont the girl i date be impressed of the caliber of a lady she thinks i seen lol