apology

[Vitruvian]

one could easily change their personality also. i was on redcafe and got banned. didnt even get into the real action. i set up a new profile and said what they wanted to hear and got promoted pretty quickly....

The thing with forums is that you have minutes hours to think up replies. A real face to face conversation requires an answer in seconds. This is why i never take much attention to what is written on forums because if we all had the benefit of hours to think/act/respond to different facets of life, wed be geniuses. Forums can make anyone look like a genius because you are given time to think up an answer.

a real personality shines through in face to face interpersonal interactions. but online personas can be changed and manipulated because you have the luxury of time to think up your replies

To a point, if you have an agenda or something to hide, however over a period of time and a collation of posts, it would be difficult to not show some traits of one's personality.

[Meursault]

Well said!

Pressure though! We'll all expect you be über-smart, funny and ridiculously inventive when you next post!!

what i usually do is i disappear for a while and then come back, particularly with my memes. because if you use a device too often the mind gets bored. absence makes the heart grow fonder for that reason alone

[Meursault]

To a point, if you have an agenda or something to hide, however over a period of time and a collation of posts, it would be difficult to not show some traits of one's personality.

very true.

but someone can adopt personas in life alone and it can be easily done on the internet.

ok we will put it to the test. i will set up a new profile within the next month and we will see if people can spot me.....

Would you be up for it?

[Jiberjabber]

yea i agree the only way a forum is of substance is if we know each others real identities. So the name and face would have to be known, just as a a person is known when they go to work or socialize. What a forum is is like to use an analogy is going down to the pub but we are all wearing cloaks and masks like in Eyes Wide Shut and we dont know who each person is. I could be john, james, jimmy or jack. I could be a nobel laurate or a convicted killer. Nobody knows. Forgive me for being blunt, but the conversations and arguments on this forum between clients and on other forums are insignificant because of this....

In order for a person to enjoy a saturday night out, they need to know who they are socializing with. I said it to lucy chambers i think it was that the only people of substance on this forum are the escorts, because their identity is known. Now they may have their face covered and use an alias, but they still are dependent on a good reputation (identity) to have good business. Now if there reputation was poor and their face covered, they could change alias and start anew, but they would be starting from rock bottom, which is time consuming. So They kind of have to behave like in the real world

so what escorts post is important. what random posters like me post is irrelevant. I could be in a different country....

actually the sad thing about it is that if you go on to a website like the boards, the mods go to extreme lengths to treat the website like a one on one conversation and what is even more ridiculous is posters take their alias personal. so if someone had an alias 1.2.3.4 and you called 1.2.3.4 an idiot, the person behind 1.2.3.4 would probably be insulted. IMO because your true identity is hidden, you cant take it personal. They dont know your true identity so its not personal.

another thing you will notice is that what is said on forums tends to be forgotten. If this was a real conversation (face to face) you will remember what was said and who said it. because on a forum you cannot correlate a face with the alias of the posters, you tend to forget what is said. Its funny that i can remember what an escort says (because i process what she says with her face) but cant remember what a poster (non escort) says (because there is no facial recognition)

anyhow im off to bed. have to do a lot of work tommmorow

Is that you Sophie?

[samlad]

I would like to apologise to any escort I might have offended and it will not happen again

Escorts

[Ladyvonteese]

I would like to apologise to any escort I might have offended and it will not happen again

Well if its anything to do with contacting girls to leave messages on their profiles saying "you look forward to having you balls in their mouth" when you did not bother to read or make contact to see if this is a service they offer first, so you should apologies too! Wow. what image and you balls or anyone else ball will not be going in my mouth that is for sure, as this is not a service I personally offer. so good luck with that one and finding someone who does offer this service..

Lady Von Teese

[Kendra]

Well if its anything to do with contacting girls to leave messages on their profiles saying "you look forward to having you balls in their mouth" when you did not bother to read or make contact to see if this is a service they offer first, so you should apologies too! Wow. what image and you balls or anyone else ball will not be going in my mouth that is for sure, as this is not a service I personally offer. so good luck with that one and finding someone who does offer this service..

Lady Von Teese

I agree! Salty balls ain't going in my mouth either. I keep all the kinky stuff for my private life when I am in a relationship. Problem is, I haven't been in a relationship or even really dated since I started escorting. Starting to miss having a bf so it's something to look forward to when I give this job up x

[Alex.xx]

yea i agree the only way a forum is of substance is if we know each others real identities. So the name and face would have to be known, just as a a person is known when they go to work or socialize. What a forum is is like to use an analogy is going down to the pub but we are all wearing cloaks and masks like in Eyes Wide Shut and we dont know who each person is. I could be john, james, jimmy or jack. I could be a nobel laurate or a convicted killer. Nobody knows. Forgive me for being blunt, but the conversations and arguments on this forum between clients and on other forums are insignificant because of this....

In order for a person to enjoy a saturday night out, they need to know who they are socializing with. I said it to lucy chambers i think it was that the only people of substance on this forum are the escorts, because their identity is known. Now they may have their face covered and use an alias, but they still are dependent on a good reputation (identity) to have good business. Now if there reputation was poor and their face covered, they could change alias and start anew, but they would be starting from rock bottom, which is time consuming. So They kind of have to behave like in the real world

so what escorts post is important. what random posters like me post is irrelevant. I could be in a different country....

actually the sad thing about it is that if you go on to a website like the boards, the mods go to extreme lengths to treat the website like a one on one conversation and what is even more ridiculous is posters take their alias personal. so if someone had an alias 1.2.3.4 and you called 1.2.3.4 an idiot, the person behind 1.2.3.4 would probably be insulted. IMO because your true identity is hidden, you cant take it personal. They dont know your true identity so its not personal.

another thing you will notice is that what is said on forums tends to be forgotten. If this was a real conversation (face to face) you will remember what was said and who said it. because on a forum you cannot correlate a face with the alias of the posters, you tend to forget what is said. Its funny that i can remember what an escort says (because i process what she says with her face) but cant remember what a poster (non escort) says (because there is no facial recognition)

anyhow im off to bed. have to do a lot of work tommmorow

yep, that is very true

but BTW really people bother with few aliases? connecting VPN off/on all the time etc.
gosh...
I would say it would be worth it if you get free fuck for the funniest comment of the month or something, but I am not sure if Samlad is up to it

naaa.... it's beyond me

[samlad]

Suckmyballs is apologising for leaving visitor messages on several escort message boards profiles. The comments have been removed, they were just a little bit silly, not intended to be offensive and he is sorry. No personal details were given out or exposed. He was just letting escorts know that an invitation to 'suck his balls anytime' was there, should they feel inclined to take him up on his offer. Obviously the lucky ladies didn't share his enthusiasm, hence the reason for this thread.

Nothing to see here, folks.