What do you consider cheating?

[tom rambo]

i think that going to see a escort is best,if u start going with other ladies she will find out and it will end bad,with a escort its no strings,

[Alex.xx]

That's actually a really good definition. Especially the 'promises made' part.

I see it, I think, I bit different, or maybe with more distance to it, because I am not monogamous myself, never was even before escorting era, and I'd always say to any of my partners: If you feel you want to go, then go. I can't stop you. But either make sure I'd never learn about it (social pressure) or talk before openly about it. And yea, don't bring any nasty illness home. Or kids.

[Jiberjabber]

Having sex with anyone other then your partner is cheating.
Texting girls in a sexual way is cheating.
Spending time with escorts for time and companionship is cheating.
If its got something to do with being intimate with someone and you hide it from your partner then its cheating.

I think everybody knows seeing escorts while in a relationship is cheating and wrong and try to make themselves feel better and less guilty by hearing people say its ok to see escorts, its not cheating and they want to hear escorts say its ok.

Like another thread recently Do escorts respect clients!!!!! REALLY lol
They respect the money they couldn't give 2 shytes about our personal lives so really its just another guilty client looking for reassurance that its ok what he is doing........ REALITY

If you think seeing escorts isn't cheating then think about this....

If your wife/partner came home and said I must tell you something........... I was with a hot Brazilian male escort today but hes a escort so its not cheating and I just went for the time and companionship

What would you think about cheating then?

That. The rest is just filler. Even at that it's conditional.

[Jiberjabber]

Its reality, some people need to hear and be told "you are doing nothing wrong"

This is fantasy and in the real world if they were caught seeing escorts they would be fucked out of the house no matter how much they explained that it WASNT cheating lol

You're weighing your statements on your definition of wrong rodg. I picked out what I consider to be true in your comments. At the end of the day we all have our own truths. Seperate realities if you like.

[weeschmoo]

A. Have you made a commitment or vow of fidelity to your significant other?

B. Does he / she have an expectation of sexual exclusiveness with you?

C. Is he / she aware of your activities, if not why not?

D. If you are not being open and honest with them about your sexual activities, there is your answer.

[SmallHorn]

Christ it's fairly basic stuff lads.
If you have a girlfriend/wife, and you have sex with another person, it's cheating.
Regardless of circumstances.
Everyone will have their own reasons, but they are still cheating.
That's their business so get over it

[zoozoozoo]

S0 ,are male/female escorts that are in relationships cheating on their husband/wife/partner when they go to work ?

Whereas I agree that married men / women seeing escorts are cheating sometimes the reasons behind such cheating are to the person involved justified, if only everything in life were black and white and humans were not such complicated beings

[SmallHorn]

S0 ,are male/female escorts that are in relationships cheating on their husband/wife/partner when they go to work ?

Whereas I agree that married men / women seeing escorts are cheating sometimes the reasons behind such cheating are to the person involved justified, if only everything in life were black and white and humans were not such complicated beings

I have my reasons, and it's personal.
Still cheating on the Mrs even if I sugar coat it.

However as for escorts in relationships, if their partner knows what they do, and is ok with it.
It's not really cheating is it if they know.

[Johnny Simpleton]

in a relationship with sum one and having naughty fun with another person backhind their back.

[WatWatWat]

Standing in front of the telly blocking the other players view while playing Fifa 14.