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    When it comes down to it, I think that 'cheating' is anything you don't or wouldn't tell your partner about, as you know it would upset them, or be seen as some sort of betrayal of their trust any of your relationship together. It doesn't have to go nearly as far as sex-- just anything that would/could land you in hot water if your partner found out about it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cable87 View Post
    When it comes down to it, I think that 'cheating' is anything you don't or wouldn't tell your partner about, as you know it would upset them, or be seen as some sort of betrayal of their trust any of your relationship together. It doesn't have to go nearly as far as sex-- just anything that would/could land you in hot water if your partner found out about it.
    ah thats going a bit bar, theres a such thing as flirting you know as anyone thats been in a relationship knows, where does flirting end and sexting cheating begin? thats the question.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cable87 View Post
    When it comes down to it, I think that 'cheating' is anything you don't or wouldn't tell your partner about, as you know it would upset them, or be seen as some sort of betrayal of their trust any of your relationship together. It doesn't have to go nearly as far as sex-- just anything that would/could land you in hot water if your partner found out about it.

    Well said Sir.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bobten View Post
    Either physical or emotional interaction outside of the marriage is cheating . Men can separate the two, but to think your wife can would be folly. Cheating has to be defined as what the victim would feel , not the cheater.
    I'd say cheating is when you are not loyal to your partner. Doesn't matter what the 'victim' feels to define cheating. It matters what promises you've made.

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    Quote Originally Posted by funlover12 View Post
    Ah, that's going a bit far, there's such a thing as flirting you know, as anyone that's been in any kind of serious relationship knows. Where does flirting end and 'sexting/cheating' begin? That's the question.
    ... but yeah, I see what you mean.

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    Quote Originally Posted by willie wacker View Post
    Sorry do not agree having sex out of marriage with a lady or an escort is cheating, plain and simple.
    Most married men seem to be delusional here about this.
    When your up in court for a divorce tell the judge it was not cheating because it was an escort
    so a one night stand is cheating and a one stand with an escort is not
    willie willie willie,what are u saying i am married for years and never cheated on my wife,it ok to get no sex for a short time but u have to get it some time if you wife will hot give it,a escort is the best way to go,

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alex.xx View Post
    I'd say cheating is when you are not loyal to your partner. Doesn't matter what the 'victim' feels to define cheating. It matters what promises you've made.
    That's actually a really good definition. Especially the 'promises made' part.
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    Quote Originally Posted by tom rambo View Post
    willie willie willie,what are u saying i am married for years and never cheated on my wife,it ok to get no sex for a short time but u have to get it some time if you wife will hot give it,a escort is the best way to go,
    thats an explanation, but it doesnt het away from the reality that its cheating does it, not that I give a shit

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    if you want a really messed up way of looking at it, its only cheating if you get cAught (bearing in mind you already left your morals at the door) and escorting is like a psychotic experience, to those in it its happening but to everone else its non reality! (and what a nice oh so realistic non reality it is )
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    Quote Originally Posted by rodg View Post
    Having sex with anyone other then your partner is cheating.
    Texting girls in a sexual way is cheating.
    Spending time with escorts for time and companionship is cheating.
    If its got something to do with being intimate with someone and you hide it from your partner then its cheating.

    I think everybody knows seeing escorts while in a relationship is cheating and wrong and try to make themselves feel better and less guilty by hearing people say its ok to see escorts, its not cheating and they want to hear escorts say its ok.

    Like another thread recently Do escorts respect clients!!!!! REALLY lol
    They respect the money they couldn't give 2 shytes about our personal lives so really its just another guilty client looking for reassurance that its ok what he is doing........ REALITY

    If you think seeing escorts isn't cheating then think about this....

    If your wife/partner came home and said I must tell you something........... I was with a hot Brazilian male escort today but hes a escort so its not cheating and I just went for the time and companionship

    What would you think about cheating then?
    dont pussyfoot around lad, come out with it ffs, grow some balls

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