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    Dick different to strap on??

    Hi all,
    First time poster here long time viewer, been on the site for a while and been with a good few female escorts but im really REALLY interested in seeing a beautiful TS soon. The usual nervous first timer things apply so i wont go into too much detail with them. To prepare myself for something i have dreamed of doing i recently went to one of the female escorts and asked for a strap on session which she obliged with. I don't think the dildo part was very big but my god it hurt. she used lube on the phalis but just went straight in no lube on my ass etc. im wondering if an experience with a tgirl is going to be as painful im sure they are more used to dealing with first timers etc and will probably be gentle enough (initially) but am i fooling myself into thinking that it will be pleasurable for me because the fantasy and idea turn me on so much????

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    Just go for it.

    I never had a strap on with a girl but would imagine it would be more painful with a plastic strap on.
    A cock would probaly be more flexible.

    Just look for the well reviewed escorts ring and explain you are a first timer and enjoy

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    Quote Originally Posted by irisheyesx View Post
    Hi all,
    First time poster here long time viewer, been on the site for a while and been with a good few female escorts but im really REALLY interested in seeing a beautiful TS soon. The usual nervous first timer things apply so i wont go into too much detail with them. To prepare myself for something i have dreamed of doing i recently went to one of the female escorts and asked for a strap on session which she obliged with. I don't think the dildo part was very big but my god it hurt. she used lube on the phalis but just went straight in no lube on my ass etc. im wondering if an experience with a tgirl is going to be as painful im sure they are more used to dealing with first timers etc and will probably be gentle enough (initially) but am i fooling myself into thinking that it will be pleasurable for me because the fantasy and idea turn me on so much????
    Sorry to her about your experience with a strap on, that's just another example of someone ticking a box on the favourite section and not having a clue what they are doing. I've had 2 "experienced and professional" mistresses ram things up my ass and they didn't give a shit if it hurt or not, one of the experiences left me very sore for about 5-6 days. Not everyone is so rough or inconsiderate so I would advise to try it again but just make sure it with someone who knows what they are doing.

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    use a dildo on yourself for a few weeks first so you get used to it and you can control how fast it gets put in. i have an 8 inch replica cock with a suction cup at the end so it sticks to anything. i stick it to the wall next to the bed and fuck myself doggystyle. getting fucked by the real thing is way better though. a reputable TS/TV with good reviews will know how to take it easy with first timers. trust me, its addictive. every time i visit a TS/TV and she asks do i want to fuck or be fucked, its definitely be fucked.

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    Jesus! Unlucky with the old strap on session.

    99% of TS which I've met have been gentle when required and lubed up to the max. IMO they want to enjoy it too, and that comes from your enjoyment to a certain extent!!

    I would pick a TS with max 8" (this usually means 5-6") and definitely not an 'Active' only, as in my experience 'Active' only TS was to drive your ass through the bed!

    Good luck

    Quote Originally Posted by irisheyesx View Post
    Hi all,
    First time poster here long time viewer, been on the site for a while and been with a good few female escorts but im really REALLY interested in seeing a beautiful TS soon. The usual nervous first timer things apply so i wont go into too much detail with them. To prepare myself for something i have dreamed of doing i recently went to one of the female escorts and asked for a strap on session which she obliged with. I don't think the dildo part was very big but my god it hurt. she used lube on the phalis but just went straight in no lube on my ass etc. im wondering if an experience with a tgirl is going to be as painful im sure they are more used to dealing with first timers etc and will probably be gentle enough (initially) but am i fooling myself into thinking that it will be pleasurable for me because the fantasy and idea turn me on so much????

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    Quote Originally Posted by irisheyesx View Post
    Hi all,
    First time poster here long time viewer, been on the site for a while and been with a good few female escorts but im really REALLY interested in seeing a beautiful TS soon. The usual nervous first timer things apply so i wont go into too much detail with them. To prepare myself for something i have dreamed of doing i recently went to one of the female escorts and asked for a strap on session which she obliged with. I don't think the dildo part was very big but my god it hurt. she used lube on the phalis but just went straight in no lube on my ass etc. im wondering if an experience with a tgirl is going to be as painful im sure they are more used to dealing with first timers etc and will probably be gentle enough (initially) but am i fooling myself into thinking that it will be pleasurable for me because the fantasy and idea turn me on so much????

    I had client yesterday and he told me the opposite story. He said he was with TS and it was so painfull so he stopped it.
    I have very small and thin strapon for beginners, itīs actually an penis with butterfly outside for the female users, i saw it in one sexshop in Germany and though what a small penis, this would be good for beginners, and now using it the "opposite way" like a strapon, until now i didnīt have any complaints with this size

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    Thanks for the responses so far folks. I dont think it has put me off the idea completely at all but I'm not going to rush into it like I was contemplating. I think purchasing a dildo myself for a start is definitely a great way to go so I've checked a few out on the Internet and this excites me. I'm probably going to buy one online should be fairly discreet.
    Your also right about the size of ts girl, 9+ would be too much too soon I reckon. There's a few girls who list first timers as very welcome on their profile so ill be contacting those b4 the xxxs lol
    Last edited by irisheyesx; 15-09-14 at 18:57.

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    I've never been fucked and don't want to be, but I've put a finger in my ass in the bath or shower and it felt good. If you want to be assfucked, pick a girl who welcomes first timers and ask her to take it slowly. Maybe just her tip the first time. You are paying for her services and you should not submit to anything you don't enjoy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by irisheyesx View Post
    Hi all,
    First time poster here long time viewer, been on the site for a while and been with a good few female escorts but im really REALLY interested in seeing a beautiful TS soon. The usual nervous first timer things apply so i wont go into too much detail with them. To prepare myself for something i have dreamed of doing i recently went to one of the female escorts and asked for a strap on session which she obliged with. I don't think the dildo part was very big but my god it hurt. she used lube on the phalis but just went straight in no lube on my ass etc. im wondering if an experience with a tgirl is going to be as painful im sure they are more used to dealing with first timers etc and will probably be gentle enough (initially) but am i fooling myself into thinking that it will be pleasurable for me because the fantasy and idea turn me on so much????

    Ouch! Sounds like u had a painful one there. Don't let it put you off, find the right ts with loads of lube and poppers (always use poppers!)
    Last edited by Purpleturtle; 15-09-14 at 20:07.

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    Quote Originally Posted by irisheyesx View Post
    Hi all,
    First time poster here long time viewer, been on the site for a while and been with a good few female escorts but im really REALLY interested in seeing a beautiful TS soon. The usual nervous first timer things apply so i wont go into too much detail with them. To prepare myself for something i have dreamed of doing i recently went to one of the female escorts and asked for a strap on session which she obliged with. I don't think the dildo part was very big but my god it hurt. she used lube on the phalis but just went straight in no lube on my ass etc. im wondering if an experience with a tgirl is going to be as painful im sure they are more used to dealing with first timers etc and will probably be gentle enough (initially) but am i fooling myself into thinking that it will be pleasurable for me because the fantasy and idea turn me on so much????
    My advice is buy a dildo, lube and an anal douche. When your getting ready for your appointment clean your ass with the douche and when your done stick the dildo in just to open yourself up a bit. Like anything start off small maybe six inches & and chose a girl about the same size. After a while buy a bigger dildo & move onto bigger girls! Baby steps pal.

    Try to avoid doggy on you for your first time, missionary you can control the pace by placing your hands on her hips. Painful? If you need more lube ask for it simple. But remember sometimes it hurts a little anyway during the initial entry and then the pleasure begins.

    I was hoping someone else would answer your question in more detail, this is personal stuff I had to learn by trial and error. Good luck and remember baby steps just do what you are comfortable with. All of the girls I have meet over the years are very understanding with first timers and will take it at you pace, just let them know.

    http://www.kinky.ie/essentials/hygiene/anal-douche.html
    Last edited by irishdeltaforce; 16-09-14 at 00:32.

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