Does the term "prostitute" offend you and if so why?

[Stephanie]

Not true in quite a few cases or everyone would be accepted as a client.
There is indeed illusion on both sides, the world is harsh enough so illusion for an hour or two to make the world a beautiful fantasy is all good.

I agree.

Cash alone won't get someone in my door.

There are a handful of ppl on the boards for example , who have bombarded me with requests for a year or two or three.

I felt we were incompatible. So respectfully declined , . . . and continue to decline.

I most definitely cannot relate to 'seeing clients as a walking wallet'.

I could not imagine a more debasing experience than having to endure someone's company , endure them penetrating etc.

sheerly for the money. I consider myself fortunate. I cannot even imagine such a thing xx

[EIFII]

Not true in quite a few cases or everyone would be accepted as a client.
There is indeed illusion on both sides, the world is harsh enough so illusion for an hour or two to make the world a beautiful fantasy is all good.

I know what you're driving at, but in some ways illusion ends up only reinforcing reality, and if that reality is hard or unpalatable, as it can be for many, then I suggest it can end up being counter productive.

What if a client and an escort can actually and genuinely enjoy each others' company - can the illusion ever actually be gotten rid of?

[funlover12]

its simple really a prostitute works the street an escort works indoors, thats the major major major difference, there are of course major differences but thats the most obvious one. both are sex workers of course, so if you want to lump them together then call both sex workers.

the grey area is some escorts act like prostitutes and some prostitutes act like escorts, so yeah, sex workers

[funlover12]

I love this x



(I've had some pretty awesome coffee out of a machine btw)




Where were you in my awful steak/burger days ? x 70 pages it went !

>> I was the only steak in a sea of steaklets who thought themselves to be burgers ! It was hell , I tell ya lmao ! !

I was thinking the exact same thread! I bet stephanie will be using that analogy instead of steak and burgers from now on

[funlover12]

You are right

that you again natasha

[Stephanie]

I was thinking the exact same thread! I bet stephanie will be using that analogy instead of steak and burgers from now on

Even at the time I was referring to timeframe , and NOT to quality of fares on offer !

Was a way different world on the boards back then , my words twisted , me bullied. Wasn't nice xx

I still hold the same beliefs as I did then , only difference is that I get attacked less often now

(but you know that ) x

[bluefan1]

whilst both an escort and prostitute accept money in exchange for sex, there is a difference between them. There is even a difference between some escorts. Some escorts advertise their sex whilst some are courtesan.

Its like a mechanic and an engineer with regards a car. Both work on cars but for different reasons.

People may argue that the money involved means that they are the same, but i dont think so. The mechanics of how an escort operates is different from that of a street prostitute. I suppose it has to be because, street prostitution is illegal.

Its a bit like getting coffee from a machine that tastes poor and then getting coffee from a Barista that tastes good. You are still getting coffee but how it is made is different.

Things like this exist in every facet of life. You have standard and then you have cheaper products. You can buy your food in lidl or in marks and spencers.

Sorry Mersault, in this instance I agree with VT, there's a good deal wrong with this post - in my opinion. I'm not even 100% sure of your point but the M&S / Lidl thing is invalid if it's a metaphor for good v cheap. Marks can be overpriced and not good value. Incidentally, did you know they are one of the largest donating companies to the state of Israel? One for fact fans - or those wishing to boycott! Anyway, back on point, The Germans like good products and aren't easily fooled - pity that, we could have got away with a few billion otherwise!

Also what do you mean in the sentence: 'Some Escorts sell their sex....." That one lost me entirely.

The whole thing about Street prostitutes (Street Walkers for the PC inclined - me included) being different because they're
illegal.... I also don't understand? Street Walkers are getting a bad press here on this thread methinks. Being less well off in this world doesn't make anyone less deserving of our respect. They are rarely on the street because they like the rain and the cold. Don't imagine they'd turn down a Ballsbridge apartment if it was offered them.

I get great coffee from my machine - at least 8 times a day!. Certainly good to get it serviced regularly and keep it clean though.

This issue of the name for SPs isn't about the differences between varieties of SPs - it's about respecting the right of all communities to decide how they should be addressed. It's pretty simple and doesn't need complicating.

[Stephanie]

I know what you're driving at, but in some ways illusion ends up only reinforcing reality, and if that reality is hard or unpalatable, as it can be for many, then I suggest it can end up being counter productive.

What if a client and an escort can actually and genuinely enjoy each others' company - can the illusion ever actually be gotten rid of?

Why should it be ?

That's when you start messing with a good thing !!

: Our entanglements and entwinements work because there are parameters to be respected !

You get rid of those (do away with the illusion) , and then you're into 'real life' .

Then you're talking about r/ship with an Escort , etc.

Be wise : enjoy the time for what it is xx

That way it can last years

Mess with it , and likely you will have a mess on your hands. Be wise x

[Stephanie]

Even at the time I was referring to timeframe , and NOT to quality of fares on offer !

Was a way different world on the boards back then , my words twisted , me bullied. Wasn't nice xx

I still hold the same beliefs as I did then , only difference is that I get attacked less often now

(but you know that ) x

And furthermore lol !

Even back then , I was simply questioning if there is a certain type of client that prefers shorter / longer bookings. !!

My God !! What hell broke loose !!



(And yes there is a difference ) xx

[Stephanie]

it's simple really a prostitute works the street an escort works indoors, thats the major major major difference, there are of course major differences but thats the most obvious one. both are sex workers of course, so if you want to lump them together then call both sex workers.

the grey area is some escorts act like prostitutes and some prostitutes act like escorts, so yeah, sex workers

Argh x you just trolling ! x


I beg to differ.

Location and settings have nothing to do with it.

A prostitute gets paid for a sexual act performed (bj for ?? , handjob for ?? , full thing for ?? ..) , whereas an 'Escort' gets

paid for her time. May that be spent any which way they both be inclined to. In my very humble opinion.

And then ! lol. The Courtesan gets paid for personality , for life experience , for connections she might have in the

business world where she might bring people together for a lucrative deal ; she gets paid to be polished and demure , for

not looking like an Escort , she gets paid for the fact that she can be taken anywhere in the world and her presence

never be questioned ..... x

And btw Escort and Courtesan too , may or may not have sex down a dark alleyway .

I've done the deed in a church tower !