Newbie in need of advice

[farrell446]

Hi all,

I am a married man who tried a male escort for the first time. It was great, had protected sex but mutual non protected oral (no cim) (he penetrated me with condom). Am i being paranoid and overly anxious in thinking I need an aids test. I know this may seem very trivial to most users but as a first time user I have huge fear. Do I have anything to worry about? He was the nicest guy and said he was fully clean but I'm afraid to have sex with my wife incase i contracted anything. Is this a normal fear for a newbie or do I have cause for concern.

Apologies if I am offending any escorts. I mean no offense, just a worried man!

Thanks

[Meursault]

Hi all,

I am a married man who tried a male escort for the first time. It was great, had protected sex but mutual non protected oral (no cim) (he penetrated me with condom). Am i being paranoid and overly anxious in thinking I need an aids test. I know this may seem very trivial to most users but as a first time user I have huge fear. Do I have anything to worry about? He was the nicest guy and said he was fully clean but I'm afraid to have sex with my wife incase i contracted anything. Is this a normal fear for a newbie or do I have cause for concern.

Apologies if I am offending any escorts. I mean no offense, just a worried man!

Thanks

HIV test. AIDS is a result of HIV

id say you are just worrying. OCD or GAD or something like that

[farrell446]

HIV test. AIDS is a result of HIV

id say you are just worrying. OCD or GAD or something like that

I do suffer from extreme anxiety alright. I would just love a 100% confirmation that everything was clean and safe!

[Lucy Chambers]

Hi all,

I am a married man who tried a male escort for the first time. It was great, had protected sex but mutual non protected oral (no cim) (he penetrated me with condom). Am i being paranoid and overly anxious in thinking I need an aids test. I know this may seem very trivial to most users but as a first time user I have huge fear. Do I have anything to worry about? He was the nicest guy and said he was fully clean but I'm afraid to have sex with my wife incase i contracted anything. Is this a normal fear for a newbie or do I have cause for concern.

Apologies if I am offending any escorts. I mean no offense, just a worried man!

Thanks

No offence taken...any unprotected sexual activity carries risk. Take a test and in future use a condom for oral...you need to wait three months so start thinking of your excuses.

[Meursault]

I do suffer from extreme anxiety alright. I would just love a 100% confirmation that everything was clean and safe!

thats what it is. Anxiety. there is a great expression: our greatest hopes and worst fears are seldom realized. People have a habit of making a problem bigger than it actually is.

your mind is looking for reassurance to help quash the anxiety. Just go to a doctor and do a test and it will come back negative and all anxiety will disappear.

He might prescribe you xanax to calm you down, but you can get hooked on them i do say

[farrell446]

thats what it is. Anxiety. there is a great expression: our greatest hopes and worst fears are seldom realized. People have a habit of making a problem bigger than it actually is.

your mind is looking for reassurance to help quash the anxiety. Just go to a doctor and do a test and it will come back negative and all anxiety will disappear.

He might prescribe you xanax to calm you down, but you can get hooked on them i do say

Thanks for the advice. I know I am over worrying. It really was all clean and safe apart from OWO. I'm assuming HIV is not something to worry about through OWO?? Thats my real worry

[TonyB]

Chance of you having anything is minimal, really very small.
Very low percentage chance of hiv from oral and even lower as chances are the other person isn't infected.

Personally I wouldn't give it another thought, but get checked and dicuss with a doctor to put your mind at rest.

Don't let this very, very small risk wreck your mind.

[farrell446]

Chance of you having anything is minimal, really very small.
Very low percentage chance of hiv from oral and even lower as chances are the other person isn't infected.

Personally I wouldn't give it another thought, but get checked and dicuss with a doctor to put your mind at rest.

Don't let this very, very small risk wreck your mind.

Thank you for the advice. I am going to book myself in for a test tomorrow. It has only been 7 days so I am not sure how accuate the test will be but I am sure everyone is right that I am being anxious over nothing. I'm sure if there was an escort with HIV they wouldnt be working with it. I hope

[Stella]

Hi all,

I am a married man who tried a male escort for the first time. It was great, had protected sex but mutual non protected oral (no cim) (he penetrated me with condom). Am i being paranoid and overly anxious in thinking I need an aids test. I know this may seem very trivial to most users but as a first time user I have huge fear. Do I have anything to worry about? He was the nicest guy and said he was fully clean but I'm afraid to have sex with my wife incase i contracted anything. Is this a normal fear for a newbie or do I have cause for concern.

Apologies if I am offending any escorts. I mean no offense, just a worried man!

Thanks

http://www.yoursexualhealth.ie/inner_page/hiv_testing/

[farrell446]

http://www.yoursexualhealth.ie/inner_page/hiv_testing/

I'm sure I've nothing to worry about but I'll get tested to be sure. I'm guessing its rare for professional escorts to have HIV? If they did wouldnt it be all over the forums?