Woman troubles

[meath chap]

can you really be into someone after 3 dates?

of course,you both know at this stage whether its gona work or not,hes committed shes having second thoughts...im speaking from experience

[NoBrain2]

I thought the start of relationships were supposed to be fun and exciting and that the men here in relationships where only here because that excitement had gone.

Anyway I say just let it go, she's just not that into you. Probably using the family thing as an excuse

[adrienn]

Probably she realised how "punter" u r .just kidding! Skip to the next candidate.

[warmcome]

if you like her, i'd play it by ear because she could be sussing you.
women can be difficult to understand. i'm single.

[Meursault]

Hi all

Looking for some advice and where better than getting some here form all the beautiful ladies on EI . The guys input will also be appreciated .

Just back on the dating scene after a long term relationship. I had been on a few dates with different ladies and one in particular I really liked .

Here is the gist of the dilemma.

"Ok so I met this girl and had a few dates in about 10 days
She lived in a diff town about 40 mins away from me.

1st date : Met for drink (in her town)
2nd date: I brought her for picnic (in her town)
Sent her flowers to her the following day brighten her office
3rd date : She came to my city and I cooked her dinner in my sisters place and my sister disappeared
We went to my house to collect my dogs for walk and she met my mom for about 2 mins
Walked the dogs and dropped them back to my sisters house
The thing was my sister was back home so she met her for 30 mins or so had some wine and we went to cinema
Following say she was cool
Then I asked what I did wrong Sunday
She says "moving too fast , didn't expect to meet my family after 1 week, overwhelmed by it all"

I told her it wasn't intended she meet my family so soon and she replied

""Hey , I'm sorry too but I'm not able for all this, I know you didn't mean to throw me in the deep end but I don't know what to think at the moment"


A few of my female friends told me to reply "No problem" and leave it

What would you do

i thought this story was turning into a murder she wrote mystery triller when the the sister disappeared

[Meursault]

the escorts are fond of double booking. i think us men should turn the tables and start double dating. A bold stratedy, lets see if it pays of for you

[Irishrover74]

yes but why cook dinner at your sisters and not your own place ???

Moved back home and couldn't have my mom there

[gameboy]

Hi all

Looking for some advice and where better than getting some here form all the beautiful ladies on EI . The guys input will also be appreciated .

Just back on the dating scene after a long term relationship. I had been on a few dates with different ladies and one in particular I really liked .

Here is the gist of the dilemma.

"Ok so I met this girl and had a few dates in about 10 days
She lived in a diff town about 40 mins away from me.

1st date : Met for drink (in her town)
2nd date: I brought her for picnic (in her town)
Sent her flowers to her the following day brighten her office
3rd date : She came to my city and I cooked her dinner in my sisters place and my sister disappeared
We went to my house to collect my dogs for walk and she met my mom for about 2 mins
Walked the dogs and dropped them back to my sisters house
The thing was my sister was back home so she met her for 30 mins or so had some wine and we went to cinema
Following say she was cool
Then I asked what I did wrong Sunday
She says "moving too fast , didn't expect to meet my family after 1 week, overwhelmed by it all"

I told her it wasn't intended she meet my family so soon and she replied

""Hey , I'm sorry too but I'm not able for all this, I know you didn't mean to throw me in the deep end but I don't know what to think at the moment"


A few of my female friends told me to reply "No problem" and leave it

What would you do

Your female friends are right.Follow their advice.If she contacts you - she does and you will know she's still interested

[xcitedcork]

Moved back home and couldn't have my mom there

If your really interested you need to be careful, you will be considered a stalker if you try contacting her too much or if you back off she may have time to think it over.
I would take girlfriends advice and tell her no problem, if you wanted to push it a little bit further suggest that you get in contact again in a few months and if neither have you have met anyone special by then she might try one more date.

Reminds me of comedien line....my girlfriend thinks im a stalker....well she's not exactly my girlfriend yet!

After all that if she pisses you off anymore just send her a sample of a wedding card and ask her if she's sure they should be cancelled

[Meursault]

If your really interested you need to be careful, you will be considered a stalker if you try contacting her too much or if you back off she may have time to think it over.
I would take girlfriends advice and tell her no problem, if you wanted to push it a little bit further suggest that you get in contact again in a few months and if neither have you have met anyone special by then she might try one more date.

Reminds me of comedien line....my girlfriend thinks im a stalker....well she's not exactly my girlfriend yet!

After all that if she pisses you off anymore just send her a sample of a wedding card and ask her if she's sure they should be cancelled

was that bill hicks. very funny