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    Hi all

    Looking for some advice and where better than getting some here form all the beautiful ladies on EI . The guys input will also be appreciated .

    Just back on the dating scene after a long term relationship. I had been on a few dates with different ladies and one in particular I really liked .

    Here is the gist of the dilemma.

    "Ok so I met this girl and had a few dates in about 10 days
    She lived in a diff town about 40 mins away from me.

    1st date : Met for drink (in her town)
    2nd date: I brought her for picnic (in her town)
    Sent her flowers to her the following day brighten her office
    3rd date : She came to my city and I cooked her dinner in my sisters place and my sister disappeared
    We went to my house to collect my dogs for walk and she met my mom for about 2 mins
    Walked the dogs and dropped them back to my sisters house
    The thing was my sister was back home so she met her for 30 mins or so had some wine and we went to cinema
    Following say she was cool
    Then I asked what I did wrong Sunday
    She says "moving too fast , didn't expect to meet my family after 1 week, overwhelmed by it all"

    I told her it wasn't intended she meet my family so soon and she replied

    ""Hey , I'm sorry too but I'm not able for all this, I know you didn't mean to throw me in the deep end but I don't know what to think at the moment"


    A few of my female friends told me to reply "No problem" and leave it

    What would you do

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    Quote Originally Posted by Irishrover74 View Post
    Hi all

    Looking for some advice and where better than getting some here form all the beautiful ladies on EI . The guys input will also be appreciated .

    Just back on the dating scene after a long term relationship. I had been on a few dates with different ladies and one in particular I really liked .

    Here is the gist of the dilemma.

    "Ok so I met this girl and had a few dates in about 10 days
    She lived in a diff town about 40 mins away from me.

    1st date : Met for drink (in her town)
    2nd date: I brought her for picnic (in her town)
    Sent her flowers to her the following day brighten her office
    3rd date : She came to my city and I cooked her dinner in my sisters place and my sister disappeared
    We went to my house to collect my dogs for walk and she met my mom for about 2 mins
    Walked the dogs and dropped them back to my sisters house
    The thing was my sister was back home so she met her for 30 mins or so had some wine and we went to cinema
    Following say she was cool
    Then I asked what I did wrong Sunday
    She says "moving too fast , didn't expect to meet my family after 1 week, overwhelmed by it all"

    I told her it wasn't intended she meet my family so soon and she replied

    ""Hey , I'm sorry too but I'm not able for all this, I know you didn't mean to throw me in the deep end but I don't know what to think at the moment"


    A few of my female friends told me to reply "No problem" and leave it

    What would you do
    just say '' no problem'' girls love it
    Retiring for good soon
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    Quote Originally Posted by ana massage View Post
    just say '' no problem'' girls love it
    Really ??
    Its like a reverse Physocology with the female brain ?
    Another girl told me that woman want what they dont have & she's basically fishing as she left the sentence at "I don't know what to think at the MOMENT" she wants to be chased and if she's not she will all the sudden know what to think at the MOMENT lol women want what they can't have even though we say we want a Prince Charming it's usually the opposite

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    Quote Originally Posted by Irishrover74 View Post
    Hi all

    Looking for some advice and where better than getting some here form all the beautiful ladies on EI . The guys input will also be appreciated .

    Just back on the dating scene after a long term relationship. I had been on a few dates with different ladies and one in particular I really liked .

    Here is the gist of the dilemma.

    "Ok so I met this girl and had a few dates in about 10 days
    She lived in a diff town about 40 mins away from me.

    1st date : Met for drink (in her town)
    2nd date: I brought her for picnic (in her town)
    Sent her flowers to her the following day brighten her office
    3rd date : She came to my city and I cooked her dinner in my sisters place and my sister disappeared
    We went to my house to collect my dogs for walk and she met my mom for about 2 mins
    Walked the dogs and dropped them back to my sisters house
    The thing was my sister was back home so she met her for 30 mins or so had some wine and we went to cinema
    Following say she was cool
    Then I asked what I did wrong Sunday
    She says "moving too fast , didn't expect to meet my family after 1 week, overwhelmed by it all"

    I told her it wasn't intended she meet my family so soon and she replied

    ""Hey , I'm sorry too but I'm not able for all this, I know you didn't mean to throw me in the deep end but I don't know what to think at the moment"


    A few of my female friends told me to reply "No problem" and leave it

    What would you do
    move on pal,if she was really into you she wouldnt mind

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    Quote Originally Posted by Irishrover74 View Post
    Really ??
    Its like a reverse Physocology with the female brain ?
    Another girl told me that woman want what they dont have & she's basically fishing as she left the sentence at "I don't know what to think at the MOMENT" she wants to be chased and if she's not she will all the sudden know what to think at the MOMENT lol women want what they can't have even though we say we want a Prince Charming it's usually the opposite
    ha ha
    well as i understand it she is overwelmed .so i think is important to show her that you won't push her.
    by saying no problem you throw the ball in her ''house''
    if you push your luck by trying to convince her of something that she already made up her mind ,you might loose
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    Quote Originally Posted by meath chap View Post
    move on pal,if she was really into you she wouldnt mind
    can you really be into someone after 3 dates?
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    Quote Originally Posted by ana massage View Post
    can you really be into someone after 3 dates?
    idk. I was but I'm a sap

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    Ask her if she would like to meet your granny at the weekend. At least you'll see if she her sense of humour is still intact.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Patt113 View Post
    Ask her if she would like to meet your granny at the weekend. At least you'll see if she her sense of humour is still intact.
    I did tell her
    "hey look on the bright side. You wont have to meet my family again until year... "

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    Quote Originally Posted by Curvy Irish Niamh View Post
    holy crap slow the feck down man

    one date a week and maybe a bunch of flowers sent (like once)

    but why you cook dinner for her in your sisters flat and then go to yours to pickup dogs and bring them to your sisters

    you should have dropped the dogs at your sisters before the date and just cooked her dinner at your house

    one date a week for the fist month
    don't be over egar with texts and phone calls the first few weeks as it makes the lady think your a stalker
    Shes the one that asked was i gonna cook dinner for her
    Yeah the flowers may have been a bit too soon , and thanks for the 1 date per week guide
    I have made sure that I'm not sending texts every day

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