I've lost my bottle......HELP!

[NoBrain2]

I had a plan B storey which I dully spat out but it fell apart at the first strange look from the guard!

So go on, tell me you plan storey?

Why do you need a story? Just dont say anything

[69patrick69]

Ask why you were stopped.
You only have to give him your name.
if he persists in asking questions, ask for his name, rank, and number.

[Iusedtobesomeonelse]

Why do you need a story? Just dont say anything

That's easy to say when you sitting here now talking about it, not so easy in real life IMHO

[Iusedtobesomeonelse]

Ask why you were stopped.
You only have to give him your name.
if he persists in asking questions, ask for his name, rank, and number.

You guys are all so full of big ideas and big talk but I promise you if you are pulled in with blue light flashing etc you will shit your boxers! No disrespect at all intended but it's different in real life

[69patrick69]

You guys are all so full of big ideas and big talk but I promise you if you are pulled in with blue light flashing etc you will shit your boxers! No disrespect at all intended but it's different in real life

Been there Mate

[NoBrain2]

You guys are all so full of big ideas and big talk but I promise you if you are pulled in with blue light flashing etc you will shit your boxers! No disrespect at all intended but it's different in real life

Yeah you're right, glad it didn't happen to me.

[Withoutaclue]

Once something bad happens, it is difficult to overcome the fear and I understand your concern.

Words are easy.

What you need to do is to reduce the "fear" /(which gets worse everytime you think and relive the incident).. The fear of this become public is making it even more scary..

Focus on the pleasure and fun aspect of a date rather than the the incident.

To reduce this, maybe you can start with something a little less stressful, eg do a date in another country...

This way the "potential consequence is reduced

Then as has been suggest, try an outcall to a hotel in a different city...

Hope this gives you something you can work with...

Otherwise it may just be you have outgrown your hobby and the event was your moment of ephinany...

Good luck and all the best

I've been a regular punter for about 15 years and a member of this site (with various user names) for about 5 years.
I would have considered myself to be a good client and punted say 1 or 2 times per month with various ladies, tv sand ts girls in whatever town or city it happened to be in.

All was fine until about 9 months ago I had a bad experience when after leaving an appointment I was followed by a Garda who tailed me to the edge of town before lighting up the blues and pulling me in. Basically he asked where I had been etc and I know I had done nothing wrong but there was a strongly implied threat that if he wanted to he could fuck me up a bit 'bring me in to the station'. Basically in the end I didn't admit to anything tell him enough to get him off my back and I was sent on my way.

Thing is I have been totally fucked up since this and cannot get the nerve up to visit any girls, not even my old favourites. This is shit, I want to get back punting, can anyone help me?????

[JAMESCORK]

I've been a regular punter for about 15 years and a member of this site (with various user names) for about 5 years.
I would have considered myself to be a good client and punted say 1 or 2 times per month with various ladies, tv sand ts girls in whatever town or city it happened to be in.

All was fine until about 9 months ago I had a bad experience when after leaving an appointment I was followed by a Garda who tailed me to the edge of town before lighting up the blues and pulling me in. Basically he asked where I had been etc and I know I had done nothing wrong but there was a strongly implied threat that if he wanted to he could fuck me up a bit 'bring me in to the station'. Basically in the end I didn't admit to anything tell him enough to get him off my back and I was sent on my way.

Thing is I have been totally fucked up since this and cannot get the nerve up to visit any girls, not even my old favourites. This is shit, I want to get back punting, can anyone help me?????

Ok.. first of all.. relax... It is not illegal to visit an escort. It is also not illegal to be found on in a premises where more than one escort is working, its illegal for them, not you. So you have NOTHING to fear from the Gardaí.

It sounds to me that you were unfortunate to have been in the wrong place at the wrong time, as in, visiting a premises the Gardaí were actively watching for whatever reason. They know they have no case if you were just visiting an escort... the reason they followed you and pulled you in was they suspected you were a pimp and had just called in to collect the earnings from your girls.... cos if you were... now they may have further "icing" on their case to compliment the brothel bust, cos they have caught the pimp as well... makes them look better in court.... As an honest punter John you are worthless... They were more than likely more pissed off that you actually were said "honest John", than you were at being pulled.

Buddy... You need paranoia therapy... Here's what you need to do...

Pick an independent & established escort and make a booking. On your way there, call your local Garda station and tell them what you are about to do and where you are about to do it. On approaching the entrance to your beauty's apartment put your phone on speaker as she calls out the keycode so all passer-by's can hear it... go in and have wonderful sex with the girl of your dreams. As you exit, stop the first person you see and point out to them that you have done nothing illegal.... with a skip to your step pop in to your local for a well deserved pint and happily smell her perfume as you take each sip..... Keep repeating to yourself ... "Its good to be the king.."

You'll be grand...

[Iusedtobesomeonelse]

Ok.. first of all.. relax... It is not illegal to visit an escort. It is also not illegal to be found on in a premises where more than one escort is working, its illegal for them, not you. So you have NOTHING to fear from the Gardaí.

It sounds to me that you were unfortunate to have been in the wrong place at the wrong time, as in, visiting a premises the Gardaí were actively watching for whatever reason. They know they have no case if you were just visiting an escort... the reason they followed you and pulled you in was they suspected you were a pimp and had just called in to collect the earnings from your girls.... cos if you were... now they may have further "icing" on their case to compliment the brothel bust, cos they have caught the pimp as well... makes them look better in court.... As an honest punter John you are worthless... They were more than likely more pissed off that you actually were said "honest John", than you were at being pulled.

Buddy... You need paranoia therapy... Here's what you need to do...

Pick an independent & established escort and make a booking. On your way there, call your local Garda station and tell them what you are about to do and where you are about to do it. On approaching the entrance to your beauty's apartment put your phone on speaker as she calls out the keycode so all passer-by's can hear it... go in and have wonderful sex with the girl of your dreams. As you exit, stop the first person you see and point out to them that you have done nothing illegal.... with a skip to your step pop in to your local for a well deserved pint and happily smell her perfume as you take each sip..... Keep repeating to yourself ... "Its good to be the king.."

You'll be grand...

Best response yet, I can't see me acting on your advice but it was a great read!

You are legend..................................wait for it......................................ary!

[lol brb]

If I were you, I'd get in touch with one of my regulars and tell her what has happened. Work out a plan to meet with her before the appointment in a coffee shop and then back to your hotel room for an outcall.