PRIVATE messages pt 2

[celticden]

when I first started I used to get pm when girls were touring in my area but obviously its to drum up business

[Vitruvian]

I can understand this stance. However, I think you have to understand that with all the smoke and mirrors and acting etc, guys can have that little nagging doubt that the escort may not have been happy or comfortable with him.In that case, I would think that there is nothing wrong with a short email just saying hi and that he would be welcome to visit but with no pressure whatsoever.

I have to disagree, if a guy has any nagging doubt that an escort was not comfortable with him, then he should just move on.
What, do you expect him to sit there, waiting, hoping a certain escort will make contact when she happens to be in his locality, that's just sad !!
The onus for first contact should be with the client, be it a first or a return visit, end off.

[TheIncredibleSulk]

I have to disagree, if a guy has any nagging doubt that an escort was not comfortable with him, then he should just move on.
What, do you expect him to sit there, waiting, hoping a certain escort will make contact when she happens to be in his locality, that's just sad !!
The onus for first contact should be with the client, be it a first or a return visit, end off.

its not about waiting for an Escort to contact you but if the escort is in your locality and she had a good time last time I see nothing wrong with her contacting the client, sometimes us guys read the signals wrong when meeting Escorts but I too would be happy to receive contact from an Escort if she was in my locality, perfectly okay I believe.

[Alyssa Jenkins]

I can understand this stance. However, I think you have to understand that with all the smoke and mirrors and acting etc, guys can have that little nagging doubt that the escort may not have been happy or comfortable with him.In that case, I would think that there is nothing wrong with a short email just saying hi and that he would be welcome to visit but with no pressure whatsoever.

I would normally thank a gent after an appointment and I would kind of expect him to know when he leaves that I got on with him and would love to meet him again.
I'm not saying it's wrong to pm people at all I'm just saying that I wouldn't feel right doing it. I have some gents I meet who drop me the odd text or pm to say hi or check when I'm next visiting and I have no issues replying to them however I wouldn't feel right just sending a message out of the blue saying hi I'm in your area it's just me and the way I am but it doesn't mean every person should be the same xxx

[rubberlover]

I have no problem with an escort sending a PM if we have met before, and on occasion have had a PM from escorts I haven't seen. Its what it says it is Private Message. It also I think its a nice way to stay in touch and be reminded one of your Favs is back in town.

[P51D]

15 08 2014
Nope, never. Which saddens me. But hey...life moves on

Nestor

[tomlittle]

I would have no problem whatsoever with a Escort sending me a PM if she in my locality.

[The Kerryman]

Absolutely! Well said rubberlover.

I have no problem with an escort sending a PM if we have met before, and on occasion have had a PM from escorts I haven't seen. Its what it says it is Private Message. It also I think its a nice way to stay in touch and be reminded one of your Favs is back in town.

[adamski]

If i did i would not post about it, nobody else's business imo. The escorts i see don't do that cause when there in town i book prior to there arrival.

Dalton theirs no harm, she didnt mind as sent me a pm saying thanks as wasn sure if she shud ave send it or not. now we are both happy known

[Baxter]

I have to disagree, if a guy has any nagging doubt that an escort was not comfortable with him, then he should just move on.
What, do you expect him to sit there, waiting, hoping a certain escort will make contact when she happens to be in his locality, that's just sad !!
The onus for first contact should be with the client, be it a first or a return visit, end off.

Don't know where anyone envisaged that ?