Wife wont change her ways....

[celticden]

My wife just wont go down on me at all and thinks anything outside of the missionary position is wrong. wearing sexy lingerie is a no go with her, the woman wouldnt know a thong if i had one in front of her face..

I do everything for her and for our sex life. I go down on her at any oppurtunity i can get, i am the the person that has to make the first move to get things going and do al the work.

If i am on top, i have to do the work. if the wife is on top i have to do the thrusting while she just lies on me. If my hands wander down to her ass she tells to stop it. Thats a dirty place to go...

Here's how bad she is in this department - we are together 12years, and only 3 years ago she realised i was circumcised when i told her. she didnt even know i was. is this right?

i think this is the reason i go call to so many escorts, just for the pleasure of good sex and the chance to try alot of different things and positions.

i am not trying to convert my wife into acting like an escort when i am with her, just want her to adds um extra fun in our sex life!!

what do people think? any advice?

she might have had a traumatic experience or something but after all those years you surely would of worked out something

[Ric Hardgear]

Here's how bad she is in this department - we are together 12years, and only 3 years ago she realised i was circumcised when i told her. she didnt even know i was. is this right?

Im sorry but ......fuck me ,pmsl tears i cant breathe

[fiatpunter]

My wife just wont go down on me at all and thinks anything outside of the missionary position is wrong. wearing sexy lingerie is a no go with her, the woman wouldnt know a thong if i had one in front of her face..

I do everything for her and for our sex life. I go down on her at any oppurtunity i can get, i am the the person that has to make the first move to get things going and do al the work.

If i am on top, i have to do the work. if the wife is on top i have to do the thrusting while she just lies on me. If my hands wander down to her ass she tells to stop it. Thats a dirty place to go...

Here's how bad she is in this department - we are together 12years, and only 3 years ago she realised i was circumcised when i told her. she didnt even know i was. is this right?

i think this is the reason i go call to so many escorts, just for the pleasure of good sex and the chance to try alot of different things and positions.

i am not trying to convert my wife into acting like an escort when i am with her, just want her to adds um extra fun in our sex life!!

what do people think? any advice?

Its too late to change her mate sorry. Clearly you didn't marry her for the exotic sex, you mustn't have been too worried about it at the time....

I've met plenty of Irish girls who are sexual dynamos (not just Ciara ;-)) and am having an affair with a beautiful woman who is, like me, happily married, but loves the variety that I bring to her sex life... and she to mine.....

It is a bit late to be complaining and maybe someone has suggested it already but you if you want to make a proper effort at resolving this you need to go to a therapist together... the first question? Where is this all coming from? Don't mention escorts...for the first session anyway