is hard for escort to have a relationship

[Forrest]

U know me too well......

I do, indeed. I just have to get rid of Mellors(and Doc), and I can get to know you even more.

[circumcised guy]

I imagine it would very hard for most of them especially the touring ladies having to live a double life u would say. And trying to keep their second life secret from their family & friends and if their in a relationship having to think of excuses for why they have to be gone so long and where they have been. Yea u might say some of them make alot of money and that makes it easy. But i still think it's a tough job. And i know i couldn't do it especially the way i look and having a scrawny body i wouldn't make much Lol

[Petros]

How come everybody seems to think it must be kept a secret from there partner? Wouldn't it be best to be honest from the start and not having to lie and not leave the partner find out another way?

That would be the ideal way but then how many men who have never visited an escort would be comfortable in a relationship with a woman who was working as an escort?

There is no easy, perfect answer to this issue. Good relationships can be very hard to find at the best of times - they all take a lot of work on both sides but if the lady is an escort I'd imagine it would be even harder to firstly find someone who accepts that and all that goes with it and secondly if the lady toured they would be apart a lot of the time which would not be easy for either of them.

[JAMESCORK]

That would be the ideal way but then how many men who have never visited an escort would be comfortable in a relationship with a woman who was working as an escort?

There is no easy, perfect answer to this issue. Good relationships can be very hard to find at the best of times - they all take a lot of work on both sides but if the lady is an escort I'd imagine it would be even harder to firstly find someone who accepts that and all that goes with it and secondly if the lady toured they would be apart a lot of the time which would not be easy for either of them.

Have a relationship with a punter then???

[libra]

It's not even easy working out that sentence, never mind the question

Now now, Saul, He could make it legal.

[libra]

tough
Go out with non punter and lie?
Go out with punter and wonder does he resent you working or does he like the money you earn, does he travel with you and be accused of being your pimp.
Then there's the dirty underwear to wash and the sink with beard shavings not rinsed out and the snoring and the...
Single Escort suits me, is the closest I can get to keeping men in a box and only taking them out when I want to play.

Good humoured Millionaires are excluded from above list as the maid would deal with the laundry and cleaning and he (the maid) just might be employed directly by me and have a wonderful body just like the gardeners.......mmm marriage is looking good
I confess NOT joking

Wow am i glad i'm excluded for that list

[Petros]

Have a relationship with a punter then???

That might be a good option but lets face it - it would very much limit their choice. Firstly, what percentage of punters are married or in a relationship already? Secondly, how many of the remaining punters would be shall we say be up to the standard that these gorgeous ladies would be looking for? Just speaking for myself here but I could not see any of the ladies I have met deciding I was their lucky catch and wanting any sort of relationship with me.

[Petros]

Single Escort suits me, is the closest I can get to keeping men in a box and only taking them out when I want to play.

LOl - that made me laugh Josephine

[JAMESCORK]

That might be a good option but lets face it - it would very much limit their choice. Firstly, what percentage of punters are married or in a relationship already? Secondly, how many of the remaining punters would be shall we say be up to the standard that these gorgeous ladies would be looking for? Just speaking for myself here but I could not see any of the ladies I have met deciding I was their lucky catch and wanting any sort of relationship with me.

Ok... Firstly, a relationship doesn't mean it has to end up in marriage. It can be just that, a relationship. Most resident girls have this problem... who do they socialise with? Who can they talk openly without having to remember the "secret"? This cannot happen with a guy from civvy street. There are plenty of decent normal punters out there, possibly including yourself, that can offer this. So to answer the question "Is it hard for an escort to have a relationship?"... Pffff, not at all, if they decide they want it..

[Petros]

I know I would not be happy married to a man who is happy for me to go out escorting

This is an area which I honestly can say I don't know what is good and what is not!

You sau you would not be happy married to a man who is happy for you to go out escorting - what about if he was not happy about it but accepted what you did?