guys have you ever fall in love with an escort?

[celticden]

Eliza, it is one thing to have a guy think he is in love with you and for him to pay to see you but the idea that the same guy who pays you gets jealous of someone else paying to see you would worry me.

This is your business and he would not have met you had he not paid you in the first place. Some people have suggested milking the situation and getting as much cash out of him as possible but personally I don't think in this situation with him that this is a good idea.

You say he is following you and that he has spoken violently to you — this is not good and I'd be afraid that this guy may not know where to stop. The longer he sees you the more infatuated he may become. He has a family but obviously does ot care to much about them.

If I were you I'd try to ease yourself away from him and be careful not to upset him, if that is possible.

great point alright just in case he really flipped or something you do hear some bad stories thank god nothing in Ireland

[johnb59]

Eliza for your safety I would tell him that you can't see him anymore if he's abusive you don't know where it will lead escorts are vulnerable enough without having to worry about this type of client?

[Petros]

great point alright just in case he really flipped or something you do hear some bad stories thank god nothing in Ireland

The two points that worried me about that client was the jealousy when Eliza was busy and then the fact that he began to follow her! That is so way out of line!

We all like the ladies on here and we can fantasize to ourselves while we are with them. But that is where the fantasy ends. We are paying for an experience. I am sure things in some rare cases could go beyond this but it will be up the the lady to let this happen, it won't be the client initiating it.

[Yamser]

will seeing escorts make that happen though ?? I think well in my opinion makes me not bothered to talk to average girls and woo average girls for months until you get sex when you can get it instantly which is not a good thing at all down the road sometimes finding this site is a curse really

Well not directly , ive been lazy for a while then ive been working out and with working out my confidence has grown , very slightly but im talking more to peoole in work and strangers ,

but the physical state im in ive no chance to impress a lady, so I use them as motivation lol


Strange I know but its working for me

[circumcised guy]

Hi Eliza by what i've read and how you've described how he acts with u especially talking violently i wouldn't think it would be a good idea to keep seeing him! Stringing him along just because he's paying u wouldn't be a good idea in the long run especially if his feelings for u are that strong and would only make your problem worse. I think u should try to explain to him again that u don't have the same feelings that he has and if your worried at how he would react maybe do it where there is someone else around if possible.

[SexyEliza]

this is exactly what i am saying .
. i don't want to met him for those reasons..
he don't have problem to paying me he is too possessive and i told him always.
i stopped seen him from a while ..
and sure i will not met him again because i am afraid.. to not makes my troubles.
we was more like friend ..
but this friend ship was for him like a fair i think
anyway thx all for advices

[HairyPotter]

Hi
I am wondering, when guys falls in love with an escort they change the behavior?
it's happend to me .. A guy start to see me a lots of times ,
after that he become gelous if i was busy and can't see him..
) even if he have a family he don't understand , i don't want to have other relation-ship with him..
i trusted him a lot .
And now i change my opinion about himself
how can i make him to understand that?

no but i'm starting to ...

[SexyEliza]

Hi Eliza

Only you know how worried you are but for me the following and violent talk would mean stop all contact.
Not a person I would choose to be alone with.
Safety over money would seem wise.
Stay safe, he may have a habit of doing this, that is often the way that he will have done the same to others.

hi, thx , i keep him away.. i hope to understand also like this distance means something...

[zicooo]

Eliza, any kind of obcession has grief involved, being attracted to a beautiful sexual woman is intoxicating particularly if he has come from a difficult situation, it is a fantasy, you are not going to give up your job, reviews would be difficult for him to read, better for both of you to make a clean break, when emotions are involved it is hard to go back, unfortunately for your client no matter how strong his feelings, it is not feasible to have a relationship with an escort, commerce against emotion does not work, I do think the idea of soaking him financially and cynically is reprehensible, like any broken relationship let him go gently or adamantly if that is not possible

[circumcised guy]

Eliza if u do have anymore problems with him and he starts following u again then i think u would be better of reporting him to the guards for your own safety. It might sound extreme but if it persists then i think u should. But that would be a last resort I hope he wakes up and sees some sense.