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    dont bother with her man, go out and book an escort instead for an hour, its a lot handier, you know what you are getting, you can leave when you want, you dont have to listen to her, you dont have to buy her a present or sit in a restaurant listening to her moaning about her life and hey you dont have to keep replying to text messages. Leave her where she is lol only meesing man , best of luck with the date

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    Quote Originally Posted by tigergirls View Post
    You are an experienced punter - this must be very hard on you to encounter a NORMAL situation with a girl. If she does meet you, and we venture into a sexual relationship make sure you don't keep looking at your watch to see if your hour is up. And move ass dont have her do all the work. Finally, forgive her if she doesn't do rimming, owo, anal or all the other things on your mental list.
    Ah tigergirls jeez I Have to erm Woo her first

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    Quote Originally Posted by westside View Post
    Tell your friend to tell her your busy Sunday.Dont mind giving excuses ,your busy and thats it.Tell him while he is talking to her to pass on your no on to her and to tell her to text you whenever.This way your throwing the ball on her court totally.If she wants to meet you she will make the effort.A date or relationship or whatever is 50 / 50.Let her make some effort for a change,you've made enough ,now its up to her.

    lets see if she'll kick the ball,
    Westside.

    bu the way in case i forget.Dont go sitting around waiting aimlessly for her text.Might never come,dont forget to carry on living.
    Yes I took the advice of Westside above she had reasons to go to my friends office yesterday so he gave her my no. she can ring I may have blown it altogether but hey so be it lets wait & See.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by RodeoMan View Post
    dont bother with her man, go out and book an escort instead for an hour, its a lot handier, you know what you are getting, you can leave when you want, you dont have to listen to her, you dont have to buy her a present or sit in a restaurant listening to her moaning about her life and hey you dont have to keep replying to text messages. Leave her where she is lol only meesing man , best of luck with the date
    Thanks RodeoMan for your advice though I know u were only messing but theres a lot of truth in what u said bout the moaning thing too! I guess its a simple case of men & women are emotionally different (sorry girls!)

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    Default Just be spontaneous

    If you get near the time, and want to go, then go. If you get near the time and dont want to go, then dont go. If you like the girl, you should just keep going for it. Time and destiny will work itself out. You dont need to feel in control. Just follow your instinct. Destiny will lead you where it may. If you go, find something else to do in the area just in case she isnt there. Dont waste a trip for nothing, if your favorite store or cafe is in the area, make a point of going there. Balance the trip, so whatever SHE does, you have done something nice for yourself. She most likely is a messer. Sounds like a MAJOR messer to me, but no matter. Messers can be great fuck buddies too

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    Yes, we do moan and cry and laugh - we express ourselves. That why men are more lightly to kill themselves than we woman. (sorry guys but that's a fact) Jesus, if guys didn't shoot their load men would be dead before 30

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    Quote Originally Posted by tigergirls View Post
    You are an experienced punter - this must be very hard on you to encounter a NORMAL situation with a girl. If she does meet you, and we venture into a sexual relationship make sure you don't keep looking at your watch to see if your hour is up. And move ass dont have her do all the work. Finally, forgive her if she doesn't do rimming, owo, anal or all the other things on your mental list.
    LOL - thats the funny thing you ever posted girls - I like it!

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    What if your friend made up storry that she want to see you on sun?
    You ll be thinking it s her not showing up,and ur friend will have a little laugh at you.

    I ve no idea how good friends are u,but it s just a suggestion.....

    Otherwise if she did not showed up,seems she found something more 'important' to do,dont let anyone make anything more important than yourself,and if they do,u don't really need them....

    And there s a third chance-she might of felll sick or something....
    I m still lurking sometimes ;-)

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    Quote Originally Posted by experienced punter View Post
    I met this mixed race beauty from Paris while in the company of a friend 3 weeks ago We talked endlessly after my friend left & when it was time to leave she was very enthusiastic that we meet again same time/place a week later we didn't exchange no.'s Anyway a week later I was nice & early for my date waiting over an hr. Yep u guessed it no show from her, My friend met her few days later she told him to send her apologies & to tell me that she would see me in a couple of days Yes I waited around again no show no excuses She popped into my friend again yesterday at his business address to pass a message to me that she wanted to see me on Sunday at a certain Bar.. Now I'm not a gullible sort as it is hard to trust people these days but something tells me to give her another chance despite having made up my mind a few days ago that I wouldn't waste anymore time with her Should I meet her on Sunday? Any Opinions?
    Experienced Punter..
    Thrust your gut. If you feel that this lady may show up, go and see what happens. maybe she has a good reason for standing you up....maybe not.
    Is it not better to regret doing something than regretting never giving it a chance??
    You have nothing to loose.... Go, have a beer and if she shows, great, you have the start of something great, if she doesnt show, well then you know, have afew beers and draw a line under it.
    good luck, what ever you decide.

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    Just reading your post again ... Maybe she fancies your friend and using you as an excuse to call and see him.

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