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    I met this mixed race beauty from Paris while in the company of a friend 3 weeks ago We talked endlessly after my friend left & when it was time to leave she was very enthusiastic that we meet again same time/place a week later we didn't exchange no.'s Anyway a week later I was nice & early for my date waiting over an hr. Yep u guessed it no show from her, My friend met her few days later she told him to send her apologies & to tell me that she would see me in a couple of days Yes I waited around again no show no excuses She popped into my friend again yesterday at his business address to pass a message to me that she wanted to see me on Sunday at a certain Bar.. Now I'm not a gullible sort as it is hard to trust people these days but something tells me to give her another chance despite having made up my mind a few days ago that I wouldn't waste anymore time with her Should I meet her on Sunday? Any Opinions?

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    If your gut feeling says you want to see her, then see her. If theres no show this time then it's three strikes and out for her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by experienced punter View Post
    I met this mixed race beauty from Paris while in the company of a friend 3 weeks ago We talked endlessly after my friend left & when it was time to leave she was very enthusiastic that we meet again same time/place a week later we didn't exchange no.'s Anyway a week later I was nice & early for my date waiting over an hr. Yep u guessed it no show from her, My friend met her few days later she told him to send her apologies & to tell me that she would see me in a couple of days Yes I waited around again no show no excuses She popped into my friend again yesterday at his business address to pass a message to me that she wanted to see me on Sunday at a certain Bar.. Now I'm not a gullible sort as it is hard to trust people these days but something tells me to give her another chance despite having made up my mind a few days ago that I wouldn't waste anymore time with her Should I meet her on Sunday? Any Opinions?

    Ah what a shame ............ think that you shouldnt bother she wont show - still you are an experienced punter and not a dater...............BIG DIFFERENCE........She doesn't have to show or do what you want to do cos you aren't paying her to do so.........

    Too bad shame cos i think that guys should be trying to meet women and have real relationships......so maybe try for the third time after that - joke over......fingers crossed.

    I wonder if there are women out there that if they knew their husbands/boyfriends did see escorts how their reaction would be - relief that they didn't have to fain headaches or kick em out.........not sure what i would do - change the locks probably.

    Good luck and i think you definitely should go..........dont wait an hour though 20 mins and then knock it on the head.

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    If the roles were reversed , do you think she would show up ? If you go and she doesn't show up , you'll be kicking yourself for being so daft for days . I suggest you leave a msg with your friend in the off chance she does show up and you're not there , and if she does see him whenever that should suffice as to why you weren't there . Tell your friend to give her your number if he sees her . Its a risk turning up in hope , you've no number to call her on and anything could happen that could prevent her showing . There's nothing worse than suffering a head fuck that you saw coming , best of luck E.P.
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    Quote Originally Posted by experienced punter View Post
    I met this mixed race beauty from Paris while in the company of a friend 3 weeks ago We talked endlessly after my friend left & when it was time to leave she was very enthusiastic that we meet again same time/place a week later we didn't exchange no.'s Anyway a week later I was nice & early for my date waiting over an hr. Yep u guessed it no show from her, My friend met her few days later she told him to send her apologies & to tell me that she would see me in a couple of days Yes I waited around again no show no excuses She popped into my friend again yesterday at his business address to pass a message to me that she wanted to see me on Sunday at a certain Bar.. Now I'm not a gullible sort as it is hard to trust people these days but something tells me to give her another chance despite having made up my mind a few days ago that I wouldn't waste anymore time with her Should I meet her on Sunday? Any Opinions?
    Tell your friend to tell her your busy Sunday.Dont mind giving excuses ,your busy and thats it.Tell him while he is talking to her to pass on your no on to her and to tell her to text you whenever.This way your throwing the ball on her court totally.If she wants to meet you she will make the effort.A date or relationship or whatever is 50 / 50.Let her make some effort for a change,you've made enough ,now its up to her.

    lets see if she'll kick the ball,
    Westside.

    bu the way in case i forget.Dont go sitting around waiting aimlessly for her text.Might never come,dont forget to carry on living.
    Last edited by westside; 13-11-08 at 20:13. Reason: none of E-I's buis.

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    Wink Wait Fo It ..............

    Can't wait to hear wests "deep" thought on this one!!!!!

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    Talking Knew It!!!

    LMFAO!!!!!

    It's like I can read his mind ffs!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by westside View Post
    Tell your friend to tell her your busy Sunday.Dont mind giving excuses ,your busy and thats it.Tell him while he is talking to her to pass on your no on to her and to tell her to text you whenever.This way your throwing the ball on her court totally.If she wants to meet you she will make the effort.A date or relationship or whatever is 50 / 50.Let her make some effort for a change,you've made enough ,now its up to her.

    lets see if she'll kick the ball,
    Westside.

    bu the way in case i forget.Dont go sitting around waiting aimlessly for her text.Might never come,dont forget to carry on living.
    "Deep" or not its as good advice as EXP will get. on the money!

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    Move on and have more respect for yourself. You are being a wimp. Dont waste your time, there are plenty of other girls out there.
    If you see your friend again, be honest and say you have been messed around.

    If she REALLY wanted to see you, she would have done, or at least given you a phone number

    Now go and find someone else, you deserve to be treated with respect
    Grab life, dont wait for it to come to you!

    best of luck

    Rory

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    You are an experienced punter - this must be very hard on you to encounter a NORMAL situation with a girl. If she does meet you, and we venture into a sexual relationship make sure you don't keep looking at your watch to see if your hour is up. And move ass dont have her do all the work. Finally, forgive her if she doesn't do rimming, owo, anal or all the other things on your mental list.

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