BIG DADDY HAS 9 TATS THE SAME AS LIZ THE SHOULDER ISNT 2 BAD AT ALL REALLY PERHAPS UR FRIEND IS JUST MORE SENSITIVE AS SUM FIND IT WORSE THAN OTHERS........... THE WORST PLACE AS FAR AS I KNOW IS ACROSS YOUR STOMACH WHICH IS REALLY PAINFULL APART FROM THAT I HAVENT FOUND IT BAD AT ALL ALTHOUGH IT DOES BECOME ADDICTIVE.