A message for the guy who's failed to grasp the concept of an appointment

[Sexy Sandy 69]

You know who you are, you have sent me several text messages saying that I wasted your time. Let me take the time to explain to you how I run my appointment diary.

You ring, ask what time I am free, I ask you how long you want to see me for & we come to a mutual time.

You dont ring & leave me a message TELLING me you are going to be turning up at 930pm. As for your text "telling me you had rung to tell me 930pm & you had texted, what more did I want?"

Read on, I'll explain in simple laymen's terms:-

It's a very straight forward appointment system & works well for me. The reason I didn't answer your call was ............ I was working. The reason why you couldn't see me at 930pm ...... I was working. It was your decision to travel to Letterkenny even though you didn't have an appointment.

I rest my case.

Glad you 'got sorted'.

Sandy.

[Violette]

The clients are really under the misguided impression that we have nothing better to do, than hang on to our phones with one hand, and a tube of lube in the other, with maybe a vibrating dildo shoved up one or both orifices breathlessly waiting for a call to service their every need! They wouldn't behave like this with their doctors, or bankers. Please afford the same courtesy and respect to us.

[Sexy Sandy 69]

When I checked my text, he had texted at 9.15pm asking "U free now?" & rang at 9.20pm but didn't leave a voicemail. He then texted me again at 10.20pm saying I wasted his time because he was waiting in Letterkenny for me ! I didn't answer his text or phone call, I was busy.

I had spoke to the guy earlier & I told him that I work strictly by appointment, he obviously thought if he told me what time he wanted to see me that I would cancel those clients who had made a genuine appointment. I told him it wasn't my fault he was waiting around at 9.30pm & I couldn't see him, he hadn't made an appiontment. I did point out to him that he doesn't ring the doctor/dentist & tell them wihen he's turning, he has to ask for an appointment & my appointment system works exactly the same.

Anyway he told "if that's the way u treat people i'm glad we never meet" , his words not mine.

Sandy x

[Violette]

The whole attitude of this man sounds like some one who wanted to cause a problem. You are I am sure 100% better off for not having seen him. But, some clients do need to learn the Lost art of making an appointment.

[hardgalwayguy]

You mean you dont just wait all day for me to ring you.

Damn there goes another one of my fantasies

[RodeoMan]

hey hardgalway man all they want is your credit card lol, well said girls and great to see ye are busy, i hear it is gone so so quite in Galway, time to drop the prices what you reackon hard galway man

[dom]

The clients are really under the misguided impression that we have nothing better to do, than hang on to our phones with one hand, and a tube of lube in the other, with maybe a vibrating dildo shoved up one or both orifices breathlessly waiting for a call to service their every need! They wouldn't behave like this with their doctors, or bankers. Please afford the same courtesy and respect to us.

Funny you should mention my banker Violette,

because while he didn't use a vibrator on me, he did absolutely fuck me!!

dom

[experienced punter]

The clients are really under the misguided impression that we have nothing better to do, than hang on to our phones with one hand, and a tube of lube in the other, with maybe a vibrating dildo shoved up one or both orifices breathlessly waiting for a call to service their every need! They wouldn't behave like this with their doctors, or bankers. Please afford the same courtesy and respect to us.

The girl involved here I sympathize with he was a bit hasty to say the least but do remember the other side of the coin some escorts are simply rude answering the phone it puzzles me as to how much business if any such escorts get, I appreciate many guys only ring to pull their mickey at the same time but remember some of us appreciate a courteous & somewhat friendly voice on the phone....

[Violette]

The girl involved here I sympathize with he was a bit hasty to say the least but do remember the other side of the coin some escorts are simply rude answering the phone it puzzles me as to how much business if any such escorts get, I appreciate many guys only ring to pull their mickey at the same time but remember some of us appreciate a courteous & somewhat friendly voice on the phone....

This is quite true, some ladies can also learn some phone manners. But this isn't about an answered phone, this is about him having sent a text informing her that he was coming over at 9:30, and then throwing a fit when she was unavailable, coupled with he is beginning to harass her. I am sorry, again I reiterate, would he or anyone else behave this way towards their doctor or dentist? No, they wouldn't. It is simply common courtesy. Treat others as you wish to be treated. Simple really.

[Patricia]

The girl involved here I sympathize with he was a bit hasty to say the least but do remember the other side of the coin some escorts are simply rude answering the phone it puzzles me as to how much business if any such escorts get, I appreciate many guys only ring to pull their mickey at the same time but remember some of us appreciate a courteous & somewhat friendly voice on the phone....

Escorts can be rude too.

I remember once, back in my working days, I called around to see an escort friend of mine who was working with another escort, an English woman.

This English woman gets a call from a gentleman who asks if he can see her, she says yes, they agree a time, the gentleman asks where she is and she tells him she is near the Burlington Hotel and he can ring for her exact address when he gets there.

The gentleman then asks whereabouts in Dublin the Burlington Hotel is.

In response to this the English lady says back "Do I sound like I'm from fucking Dublin mate? Don't ask me where the fucking Burlington Hotel is!" and slams down the phone cursing the client for being a fucking idiot.

Half an hour later, the client called her to say he had reached the Burlington carpark.

I remember thinking at the time - How does this lady get away with being so rude? - but she obviously did as she was here a while

Pat x