Originally Posted by
Quarterpoundher
I post this in response to your comments saying that all anyone is doing is arguing, this thread is meant as constructive and not to add to any hostility. It is a very simplistic thing for you to say that everyone is just arguing. You say it only to stop people pointing out your failings of late. I for one am not, I wanted none of this, it was dropped on my doorstep by both PM in the vilest manner possible and what I see on the boards and what we all see if we take the time to read between the lines. Anything I have done was with the soul purpose of getting out the truth of what is done here to Escorts behind the scenes, if that gets peoples backs up, then I wear that as a badge of honor.
To save you reading this all this thread Patricia, I will tell you first the two and only two mind numbingly simplest of things you have to do to make this all go away.
1
List out what is not acceptable behavior so all can see it in black and white and be refereed back to it when so transgressed.
2
Apply those rules 100% to EVERYONE, ALL of the time.
Job done….sorted….bish bash bosh…..where’s me trousers?.
Jesus how simple is that???????????????????????????
Through your own inaction and favoritism, you are now the trouserless and rudderless Captain of the E-I Titanic and have been bearing down on the iceberg created by your unwillingness to treat everyone equal for years now I suspect. That Iceberg floated into your shipping lane because of YOUR own failure to follow YOUR OWN new guidelines and has holed your rat filled ship under the waterline and breached watertight compartment after watertight compartment.
Those breeches are….
1
You allow one and only one to say what he likes to anyone even now when he has crossed over all norms of Human decency and your own guidelines as stated on your opening page and only a few inept days ago.
2
You allow this for one reason and one reason only, to send out the clear message to everyone that anyone who cross’s him will be subject to the vilest comments and you will not even edit those comments. (And by crossing him I mean only daring to have an opinion that differs from him)
3
You allow him to badger and bully the Escorts both publicly and privately so that most of them also toe the line. The reason you also allow him free reign to do this is so as to make your life easier and not have to moderate TRUE and equal discourse from both sides and concentrate instead on just raking it in.
4
All was rosy in your garden until along comes a Female equivalent of the ONLY bully here and because she is fearless she gives as good as she gets but the difference being she causes you work by the dust she rightfully at times kicks up whereas him doing the EXACT same thing reduces your work load. It is as simple as that.
5
Her being a Woman, the utter cowards here that have the gaul to call themselves men (excluding 4 or 5) latch onto her and badger her when she is only doing what one “man” has been doing here for years, but do not have the guts to utter a word about him.
6
You now even as the owner and so should be impartial are having a go at her but not do a thing about her male equivalent.
7
She has upset you cosy little gravy train and is something that E-I has never seen before, an Escort that TOTALLY stands up to your fifth columnist here.
8
She is a necessary evil until you are forced to comply with your own recently stated intention to treat all the same and which you so pathetically failed at. You did not even fail as you never even tried.
9
Liz has been horrendous to most, and was totally wrong in particular to try and damage the reps of two Escorts here, but she is 100% correct when she says that Escorts cannot voice their true opinion’s here. To give her her dues and I in no way condone how horrible she can be for no reason to so many, she is a vital counter balance until you rectify the ballast in E-I’s hold that that you currently go to effort to favor one person here above all others and that has been shown to be a matter of recorded and public fact by your inaction here. She is the only antidote to the viciousness that is voiced almost everyday now by he who must be obeyed and I congratulate her on her fearlessness here.
Escorts here cannot voice their TOTAL views on anything without running the certain guarantee of drawing bigpaws on them if their opinion differs with his, even on a conversational matter he does this over and over again.
Escorts do have 99.999% equality of free speech here with the men, but guess what people….
99.999% IS WORTHLESS, IT HAS TO BE 100%
Because of your failings Patricia, NO ONE ELSE’S, the forum is now what it is, did you really expect that thing’s would just plod along forever as they have done for years with everyone being beaten into submission by your personal guard dog here, dogs get old Patricia, they lose their teeth and they get distemper, there is a new bitch in town and she is in heat and she is well able to deal with him and we ALL have seen what he is now and also we ALL know that you want him in the position that he used to hold, but does not any longer even with your total support.
So begs the question Patricia, will these new ideas you say are in the pipeline include equality for all here or are they just new ways to paper over the cracks?
Will you insist on playing on the deck with bigpaws while you ship slips silently beneath the waters of the contempt and disdain you show those that pay you to be treated like rag dolls in the mouth of your salivating poodle here whenever he feels like it, or will you treat all the same so both you and they can plow on to your respective New Yorks a little wealthier and a little safer and not drown in the icey waters of the hostility you allow here.
Yet again Patricia I have spelled it out for you even though I know you only wish to keep this place on an even keel with minimum effort regardless of what happens to your paying 1st class passengers (IE the Escorts) or its 3rd class non paying steerage class, (IE The Clients)
Will E-I’s heart go on Patricia or is this place to become the last of the White Star Line, some of us have sounded the fog horn and alerted you to ALL this months ago and have been jumped on for doing so.
You have only yourself to blame Patricia, you are the captain, and I will try and resist any “going down with the ship comments”
I ask you to take the doubtless hostility that may follow as proof positive of both your failure and your need to act to ensure fairness for all.
Its time you pulled your trousers up Patricia, if not literally, then most certainly metaphorically. You will catch cold in these northern latitudes that E-I finds itself and is of your making and yours alone.
You have also not removed a deeply offensive comment, so be it, it will serve as a monument to his depravity and your low morals, and will be proof forever more as to why no one should ever have faith in either his or your word ever again. Again Patricia I spell it out to you, how can you possibly hope to present this place as a face of what an Escorting site should be to society at large or its law makers when you allow comments like that. You only prove my points. Even though I care what this place enables both sides to accomplish in a safer environment I know I will get flamed by those that do not see or care about the bigger picture or what is happening to some Escorts here both on boards for all to see and also much worse behind the scenes, so be it, it is a free forum after all…..
Or is it?…