Escorts in Love

[godfather]

I am sure there are many threads similar to this one but curiosity is getting the best of me. I was wondering if it was possible for escorts and clients to be in a relationship that includes loving one another?
I am interested in hearing both escorts and punters opinions,

Godfather

[livewire]

i've dated a few escorts, same as any other relationship i've had.

[westside]

I am sure there are many threads similar to this one but curiosity is getting the best of me. I was wondering if it was possible for escorts and clients to be in a relationship that includes loving one another?
I am interested in hearing both escorts and punters opinions,

Godfather

it is possible yes but it really boils down to the person and what there interpretation of falling in love is and keeping things in perspective.Personally i find that most guys that get involved with escorts take the whole thing out of context completely and persecute the girl (in fact a lot of guys generally do this with all women).Women like no pressure and they also like a guy thats in control of himself and behaves accordingly.Not only that but a guy that understands and this is espeicially important in terms of an escort.The girl is going to have appointments ,she is going to be tired,she is going to have days when she is off form.This isnt her fault and goes with the territory and its down to the guy to understand this.Women like a confident self controlled guy.Does a guy that bombardes her ,watches her,questions her, is wondering about who she is with or what she is up to ,does this sound like a self controlled ,confident guy?Sure is doesnt.

A guy getting involved for whatever reason with an escort needs to understand these things and needs to give the girl her space when she needs it.Me, i take all women which a pinch of salt initially.I just dont get serious unless it leads to that and only both parties understand when this is.A lot of guys are unrealistic too.These women work at this for a living.They are not suddenly going to down tools,shut shop and frolic off into the sunset with a guy.Not going to happen.

Where most guys fuck up and i see it time and time again is they just cant step back and let a women be,not just an escort but any woman.They freak if she is meeting another guy,they freak if she doesnt respond the way he wants her too,they freak because initially they (the guy) took the whole thing out of context, overdid the contatcing and then felt used or hurt when nothing happens.

So my approach.If a guy and a girl like each other then fine,but fun first and seriousness later when you arrive at that bridge.Oh and one other thing ,plenty women like a one night stand sort of thing too.Just because a woman (again women generally here) kisses a guy ,sleeps with him or whatever,it doesnt mean she is looking for awedding ring,a long term relationship etc etc but again this is where a guys confidence comes in.


One small step at a time,
Mature Westside Of Wolverhampton.

[sexybabehere]

I am sure there are many threads similar to this one but curiosity is getting the best of me. I was wondering if it was possible for escorts and clients to be in a relationship that includes loving one another?
I am interested in hearing both escorts and punters opinions,

Godfather

Hi Godfather,

In my opinion it is possible but I think it would be really hard. I personally would not be able to be in a relationship with anyone while I was still escorting. If I was to be in a relationship with someone I did meet as a client I would not be able to trust him/her. I will always be doubtful if he/she was still seeing escorts when he/she is supposed to be fully faithful to me as I would be to him/her. On the other hand if I did trust him/her I would be uncertain if the past would pop up weeks, months or even years later. Best thing in my opinion is to avoid avoid avoid. I sure will be unless he/she is the one.....

I will not be responding to your email as I have just answered your question here,

Hope this helps,

Talk to you soon,

Gemma

[jessie]

it is possible yes but it really boils down to the person and what there interpretation of falling in love is and keeping things in perspective.Personally i find that most guys that get involved with escorts take the whole thing out of context completely and persecute the girl (in fact a lot of guys generally do this with all women).Women like no pressure and they also like a guy thats in control of himself and behaves accordingly.Not only that but a guy that understands and this is espeicially important in terms of an escort.The girl is going to have appointments ,she is going to be tired,she is going to have days when she is off form.This isnt her fault and goes with the territory and its down to the guy to understand this.Women like a confident self controlled guy.Does a guy that bombardes her ,watches her,questions her, is wondering about who she is with or what she is up to ,does this sound like a self controlled ,confident guy?Sure is doesnt.

A guy getting involved for whatever reason with an escort needs to understand these things and needs to give the girl her space when she needs it.Me, i take all women which a pinch of salt initially.I just dont get serious unless it leads to that and only both parties understand when this is.A lot of guys are unrealistic too.These women work at this for a living.They are not suddenly going to down tools,shut shop and frolic off into the sunset with a guy.Not going to happen.

Where most guys fuck up and i see it time and time again is they just cant step back and let a women be,not just an escort but any woman.They freak if she is meeting another guy,they freak if she doesnt respond the way he wants her too,they freak because initially they (the guy) took the whole thing out of context, overdid the contatcing and then felt used or hurt when nothing happens.

So my approach.If a guy and a girl like each other then fine,but fun first and seriousness later when you arrive at that bridge.Oh and one other thing ,plenty women like a one night stand sort of thing too.Just because a woman (again women generally here) kisses a guy ,sleeps with him or whatever,it doesnt mean she is looking for awedding ring,a long term relationship etc etc but again this is where a guys confidence comes in.


One small step at a time,
Mature Westside Of Wolverhampton.

Well said Westside!! I totally agree with you.

Jessie

[daytimefun]

I am sure there are many threads similar to this one but curiosity is getting the best of me. I was wondering if it was possible for escorts and clients to be in a relationship that includes loving one another?
I am interested in hearing both escorts and punters opinions,

Godfather

another question on this, im new

How much of the time is it escorts falling in/declaring love for the client and how much of the time is it the client?

[westside]

another question on this, im new

How much of the time is it escorts falling in/declaring love for the client and how much of the time is it the client?

the clients by far.By far.In fact if you like an escort keep the hell away from her and dont become a client.Dont hand any money opver ever.You have a far better chance.Once your a client a buisness relationship is struck up and its very difficult to undo it later.In some jobs its considered unethical to go out with a customer.I asked a physio out once.A lovely little thing.She says "sorry but im not allowed get involved with patients". (i went to a different physio after that ).

Women rarely if ever get obcessed with guys.A lot of guys on the other hand do get obcessed with women and its the one thing that the guy think helps the most is what drives the woman away from him in the end,an uncontrolable expression of feelings flying in all directions.I have yet to see or hear of one woman who does this,yet i hear and see guys do it all the time,in and out of the industry.

Hate to see the phone and petrol bills,
Mature Westside Of Wolverhampton.

[bigpaws]

I am sure there are many threads similar to this one but curiosity is getting the best of me. I was wondering if it was possible for escorts and clients to be in a relationship that includes loving one another?
I am interested in hearing both escorts and punters opinions,

Godfather

Yes it's possible ....................

Paws

[thehighwayman]

Is it possible for an escort to fall in love with a pimp or vice versa

[sexybabehere]

Is it possible for an escort to fall in love with a pimp or vice versa

Everything and anything is possible when it comes to love

Gemma