Escorts in Love

[godfather]

it is possible yes but it really boils down to the person and what there interpretation of falling in love is and keeping things in perspective.Personally i find that most guys that get involved with escorts take the whole thing out of context completely and persecute the girl (in fact a lot of guys generally do this with all women).Women like no pressure and they also like a guy thats in control of himself and behaves accordingly.Not only that but a guy that understands and this is espeicially important in terms of an escort.The girl is going to have appointments ,she is going to be tired,she is going to have days when she is off form.This isnt her fault and goes with the territory and its down to the guy to understand this.Women like a confident self controlled guy.Does a guy that bombardes her ,watches her,questions her, is wondering about who she is with or what she is up to ,does this sound like a self controlled ,confident guy?Sure is doesnt.

A guy getting involved for whatever reason with an escort needs to understand these things and needs to give the girl her space when she needs it.Me, i take all women which a pinch of salt initially.I just dont get serious unless it leads to that and only both parties understand when this is.A lot of guys are unrealistic too.These women work at this for a living.They are not suddenly going to down tools,shut shop and frolic off into the sunset with a guy.Not going to happen.

Where most guys fuck up and i see it time and time again is they just cant step back and let a women be,not just an escort but any woman.They freak if she is meeting another guy,they freak if she doesnt respond the way he wants her too,they freak because initially they (the guy) took the whole thing out of context, overdid the contatcing and then felt used or hurt when nothing happens.

So my approach.If a guy and a girl like each other then fine,but fun first and seriousness later when you arrive at that bridge.Oh and one other thing ,plenty women like a one night stand sort of thing too.Just because a woman (again women generally here) kisses a guy ,sleeps with him or whatever,it doesnt mean she is looking for awedding ring,a long term relationship etc etc but again this is where a guys confidence comes in.


One small step at a time,
Mature Westside Of Wolverhampton.

Thank you, that is good advice

[godfather]

Hi Godfather,

In my opinion it is possible but I think it would be really hard. I personally would not be able to be in a relationship with anyone while I was still escorting. If I was to be in a relationship with someone I did meet as a client I would not be able to trust him/her. I will always be doubtful if he/she was still seeing escorts when he/she is supposed to be fully faithful to me as I would be to him/her. On the other hand if I did trust him/her I would be uncertain if the past would pop up weeks, months or even years later. Best thing in my opinion is to avoid avoid avoid. I sure will be unless he/she is the one.....

I will not be responding to your email as I have just answered your question here,

Hope this helps,

Talk to you soon,

Gemma

Gemma that did help. Can I ask you something? How do you know if you have found the one?

GF

[bigpaws]

Gemma that did help. Can I ask you something? How do you know if you have found the one?

GF

She will feel it and she will know ................

Paws

[sexybabehere]

Gemma that did help. Can I ask you something? How do you know if you have found the one?

GF

In my opinion you just know when you have found ''the one''. It is an instant attraction and everything just goes on from then on... great conversation, great kisses, great times together, great sex etc forever. That is what my idea of how you know you have found ''the one'',

Gemma

[westside]

Is it possible for an escort to fall in love with a pimp or vice versa

if its possible for a guy to post like hell on a forum and then jump ship onto the oppositions forum and post like hell there, then anything is possible.Opps i am getting a feeling of censoring a little line again.

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God i feel so wonderfully well after that,
Westside.

[dreamon]

It is a lonely life being an escort and falling for clients is an occupational hazzard that they try to avoid, at least those who have not already been turned off men forever. Escorts will find it very hard to trust you as many are in the position because they have been let down by every man they have ever known. Escorts will take a lot of time to believe that you value them for themselves and not just for sex. After all it is not uncommon for men to mistake lust for love.
Every escort that I have ever been close to has come out of at least one abusive dysfunctional and degrading relationship, either as adult or child, which has reduced their self-esteem as an individual. I think that this may be a prerequisite for becoming an escort. I believe that a woman becomes an escort when her need/desire for money surpasses her value of herself. Most women would probably have sex with Robert Redford for a €million but very few would value themselves as low as €150. Whatever has happened in the past to the escort can be healed with time and understanding and love and professional help. If you are prepared to go the full distance, fine but do not just be the next man to build up her hopes and then let her down. Building a relationship between two people, who started as escort and client, has more problems than a couple who met at a club but that does not mean to say that both might not value it more highly. There is nothing more soul-destroying for escort and client alike as loveless sex and the damage is proportional to the length of time that the person is involved with the business. Deep down we are all looking to love and be loved and escort and client may appreciate and value it more highly when they find it.
Having said all that I will now duck.

[Hot Lizzy]

I am sure there are many threads similar to this one but curiosity is getting the best of me. I was wondering if it was possible for escorts and clients to be in a relationship that includes loving one another?
I am interested in hearing both escorts and punters opinions,

Godfather

I have been asked to retire from work 3 times by different men and for the two of us to have a relationship.......... done this three times......sadly im not good at relationships and to be honest i like my independence - all three were very, very wealthy men and paid me not to work........... so whatever i made a week they would match it and more .........

pants that im no good at relationships really - still......... got my independence and do what i want, when i want and with whom.......... so have i got the best of both worlds, i think that i have, cos i have a son and i am still best friends with his father - and we are all happy - so what more could you want ............ the only time i get agro is when i read all the shite that some of the girls write on here....... anything is possible, just the pretty woman thing .........ahhhhhhhhh thats very rare. L

[dreamon]

I have been asked to retire from work 3 times by different men and for the two of us to have a relationship.......... done this three times......sadly im not good at relationships and to be honest i like my independence - all three were very, very wealthy men and paid me not to work........... so whatever i made a week they would match it and more .........

pants that im no good at relationships really - still......... got my independence and do what i want, when i want and with whom.......... so have i got the best of both worlds, i think that i have, cos i have a son and i am still best friends with his father - and we are all happy - so what more could you want ............ the only time i get agro is when i read all the shite that some of the girls write on here....... anything is possible, just the pretty woman thing .........ahhhhhhhhh thats very rare. L

I would think that the problem is that you never retired from work and it is all that is left of you now.

[sexy naomi]

it is possible yes but it really boils down to the person and what there interpretation of falling in love is and keeping things in perspective.Personally i find that most guys that get involved with escorts take the whole thing out of context completely and persecute the girl (in fact a lot of guys generally do this with all women).Women like no pressure and they also like a guy thats in control of himself and behaves accordingly.Not only that but a guy that understands and this is espeicially important in terms of an escort.The girl is going to have appointments ,she is going to be tired,she is going to have days when she is off form.This isnt her fault and goes with the territory and its down to the guy to understand this.Women like a confident self controlled guy.Does a guy that bombardes her ,watches her,questions her, is wondering about who she is with or what she is up to ,does this sound like a self controlled ,confident guy?Sure is doesnt.

A guy getting involved for whatever reason with an escort needs to understand these things and needs to give the girl her space when she needs it.Me, i take all women which a pinch of salt initially.I just dont get serious unless it leads to that and only both parties understand when this is.A lot of guys are unrealistic too.These women work at this for a living.They are not suddenly going to down tools,shut shop and frolic off into the sunset with a guy.Not going to happen.

Where most guys fuck up and i see it time and time again is they just cant step back and let a women be,not just an escort but any woman.They freak if she is meeting another guy,they freak if she doesnt respond the way he wants her too,they freak because initially they (the guy) took the whole thing out of context, overdid the contatcing and then felt used or hurt when nothing happens.

So my approach.If a guy and a girl like each other then fine,but fun first and seriousness later when you arrive at that bridge.Oh and one other thing ,plenty women like a one night stand sort of thing too.Just because a woman (again women generally here) kisses a guy ,sleeps with him or whatever,it doesnt mean she is looking for awedding ring,a long term relationship etc etc but again this is where a guys confidence comes in.


One small step at a time,
Mature Westside Of Wolverhampton.

Story! amateur psyholigist!....what u problem man!!!...too much internet porn or what?...kinow dickheads like you man.....you should read emily bronte... for what you look for mate....fantasy shit!...welcome to the real world buddy!....Keep it real!...bud!...stay cool alll the same..YUP!!!...Northside DUB

[dreamon]

Story! amateur psyholigist!....what u problem man!!!...too much internet porn or what?...kinow dickheads like you man.....you should read emily bronte... for what you look for mate....fantasy shit!...welcome to the real world buddy!....Keep it real!...bud!...stay cool alll the same..YUP!!!...Northside DUB

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