Advice needed.

[cantwell4]

Can I be serious here for a minute, and ask advice, please, especially welcome from escorts.

A few weeks ago I met a Chinese girl in a (pvt) car park. She was very fiendly and we introduced ourselves. A few days later I did her a small favour (to do with her car), without being asked. She left a "thank you" card on my windscreen, complete with phone no.
2 weeks ago she stopped using that car space, so realising I wouldn't meet her again I texted her. Within minutes she rang me back from a different number, saying her phone wasn't working properly and this was a friends phone. She suggested we meet for coffee, but I was about to leave the city for a few days and had to decline.

I THOUGHT AT THAT POINT SHE IS PROBABLY AN ESCORT.

I told her I'd ring her last weekend, but as we talked she seemed to hesitate, as if uncertain.
I tried ringing but got continuous beeps. I texted her but texts failed.
I texted her friends number but no reply. Eventuall, a couple of hours ago I tried ringing the friend. (The friend has a name on her voicemail typically used by escorts, also). The friend immediately and without hesitation said she never heard of this person. I said I had received a call from her phone, but she just said I couldn't have. BUT I DID!

Thats where I need advice. Could this Chinese girl be in trouble? Should I go to the gardai and tell them the full story? Is my mind or imagination playing tricks on me and I'm being over dramatic?

I don't especially want my name associated with this, but if this girl is in trouble I can't ignore it either. So if anybody would give me an honest opinion I'd very much appreciate it. Thank you.

[mehornym]

I understand your situation, but there is just no evidence of any trouble, and she might aswell be screening you?
Honestly i think you should leave it alone.

[Magicman]

Lets look at some facts .........before dialing 999.

1 You did a favour for a nice Chinese girl whom you had spoken to a few days earlier.

2 She probably interputed that favour as " I like you very much" and started to think "he has a nice arse ......hmmmm I wonder ............maybe I'll leave a number. She left a number.

3 No response.........................for how long? until you suddenly thought you mightn't see here again.

4 She recieves a text from you and rings back and suggests meeting for a cup of coffee................you declined.

AT THIS STAGE YOU THINK SHE IS AN ESCORT ???????


5 She was hesitant about a later phone/date at the weekend. Did you find out why? NO

6. She is no longer interested..................the phone number on the car didn't work out as she had planned and the offer of a cup of coffee didn't work out either so why bother her head with you..

7 Her friend has instructions to say she never heard of
her if you ring back.

8 Now all she needs in life to make it complete is to have some "potential stalker" make a request to the Gardai because she doesn't answer her phone or respond to her texts.

9 And to really complete her life she will probably be questioned in front of her family about the possibility that she is an escort who is in trouble

10 Wasn't she the lucky girl to meet you.


Of course I could be completely wrong and when her body turns up floating in the canal you will say "I told you so"

This is your call but do read the facts as above before you make a decision.

I applaud you for your concern but be careful it isn't just an obsession.

Cheers,

Magicman

[dreamon]

I have to agree with Magicman. Why did you think that she was an escort? I do not understand why you believe that the friend is an escort because she has a name on her answering machine. I find it rare for escorts to personalise answering messages.
It seems that a nice guy that she thought was interested turned out to be less than eager.
Bye the bye she said that her phone was out of order so why are you surprised that you could not get through. Escorting begins to get to us all, escorts and clients alike after a while.

[bigpaws]

Can I be serious here for a minute, and ask advice, please, especially welcome from escorts.

A few weeks ago I met a Chinese girl in a (pvt) car park. She was very fiendly and we introduced ourselves. A few days later I did her a small favour (to do with her car), without being asked. She left a "thank you" card on my windscreen, complete with phone no.
2 weeks ago she stopped using that car space, so realising I wouldn't meet her again I texted her. Within minutes she rang me back from a different number, saying her phone wasn't working properly and this was a friends phone. She suggested we meet for coffee, but I was about to leave the city for a few days and had to decline.

I THOUGHT AT THAT POINT SHE IS PROBABLY AN ESCORT.

I told her I'd ring her last weekend, but as we talked she seemed to hesitate, as if uncertain.
I tried ringing but got continuous beeps. I texted her but texts failed.
I texted her friends number but no reply. Eventuall, a couple of hours ago I tried ringing the friend. (The friend has a name on her voicemail typically used by escorts, also). The friend immediately and without hesitation said she never heard of this person. I said I had received a call from her phone, but she just said I couldn't have. BUT I DID!

Thats where I need advice. Could this Chinese girl be in trouble? Should I go to the gardai and tell them the full story? Is my mind or imagination playing tricks on me and I'm being over dramatic?

I don't especially want my name associated with this, but if this girl is in trouble I can't ignore it either. So if anybody would give me an honest opinion I'd very much appreciate it. Thank you.

I really don't get this ............... a girl gives you her number and invites you for a coffee and you think she's an escort?!?!?!?!?!
What the fuck?!?!?!?!?!?!
Have you never had a girlfriend or a woman interested in you before that you haven't paid for?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

Magicman has it right and he said it politely ............. this girl came to her senses and realised she didn't want to have anything to do with you.

Paws

[cantwell4]

Ok, I get the picture, you all think I'm obsessed, or paranoid. Maybe you're all right, and I hope you are, because I'm gonna take your advice and leave this alone.

Oh yeah, I've been given the come-on before and I've taken many of them, but there was something different about this - not least a 25yrs+ age difference.

Thanks guys, you've sort of put my mind at ease (ish).

[RicFlair]

Can I be serious here for a minute, and ask advice, please, especially welcome from escorts.

A few weeks ago I met a Chinese girl in a (pvt) car park. She was very fiendly and we introduced ourselves. A few days later I did her a small favour (to do with her car), without being asked. She left a "thank you" card on my windscreen, complete with phone no.
2 weeks ago she stopped using that car space, so realising I wouldn't meet her again I texted her. Within minutes she rang me back from a different number, saying her phone wasn't working properly and this was a friends phone. She suggested we meet for coffee, but I was about to leave the city for a few days and had to decline.

I THOUGHT AT THAT POINT SHE IS PROBABLY AN ESCORT.

I told her I'd ring her last weekend, but as we talked she seemed to hesitate, as if uncertain.
I tried ringing but got continuous beeps. I texted her but texts failed.
I texted her friends number but no reply. Eventuall, a couple of hours ago I tried ringing the friend. (The friend has a name on her voicemail typically used by escorts, also). The friend immediately and without hesitation said she never heard of this person. I said I had received a call from her phone, but she just said I couldn't have. BUT I DID!

Thats where I need advice. Could this Chinese girl be in trouble? Should I go to the gardai and tell them the full story? Is my mind or imagination playing tricks on me and I'm being over dramatic?

I don't especially want my name associated with this, but if this girl is in trouble I can't ignore it either. So if anybody would give me an honest opinion I'd very much appreciate it. Thank you.

Dude,

You definately have an over active imagination. Whatever chance you had with this girl has passed. Let it go brother.

However the fact that you thought she was a working girl calls into question your image of women. Sounds like you've got escorts on the brain. Maybe you should give it a break for a bit.

[UKHeather]

Hi cantwell

I don't think there is anything at all here to suggest shes either an escort... or in trouble. It really wouldn't be the conclusion the majority of people would come to.

If you weren't so familiar with the escort world.. I'm pretty sure you wouldn't be thinking this way.

Heather x

P.S I have a faulty rear wash wipe and am due for an oil change

[cantwell4]

Hi Heather,
I'll keep an eye for you visiting Cork again, and I'll definately look after your rear wiper/washer, followed by an oil change.

[cantwell4]

I had replied to everyone else but it was positioned in the middle of the threads saying thanks to all for the advice.
I did feel that a 25yrs+ age difference with this girl would have been a deterrent to her coming on to me, although it has happened before, and I've happily grabbed with both hands.
Anyway, I'll leave it alone, as the census of opinion seems to be butt out! Thanks again to all.