Bigpaws v Sexy Naomi

[roryman]

I guess a couple of people here tried to read a book on psychology!!!

Try finishing the book gentlemen .............. it might help!

Paws

All my books have pictures in them, and they all seem to be about some girl called Janet and a bloke called John

Oh what fun they have

[bigpaws]

Paws,

I assume the above comment is in reply to my post. It's a truly amazing and insightful reply, however, after reading the two dozen or so words you managed to produce I'm still left with no further information.

Could you provide me with a link to an article regarding the now elusive Aidan aka Pat Hand? Assuming you can't, could you provide me with a rough idea of when this information was published in the news? Maybe even a year?

As for the slight psychology jibe, I'd love for you to enlighten me as to what is at the end of the psychology book you speak of. I think you'll find that when it comes to psychology you're in over your head against me. Having read through numerous posts on this site I've heard you called many different things but never a psychologist. Although I'm sure you posses a wealth of knowledge in the area of psychology, as you seem to do when it comes to every topic.

Again the sense of irony is alarming, uttering the word psychology on an escort forum seems farcical.

May I ask how exactly you know all this information about Naomi? You may already have mentioned how you became aware of this information but unfortunately I don't recall having read it on any previous thread. Is it too much to ask you to divulge this information, to a mere pleb such as myself? Perhaps the information was from a book? Might it even have been at the end of the psychology book you speak of?

One other thing just with regard to a question you asked in a previous thread:

You mentioned that yourself and Aidan posted comments within one minute of each other from different IP's, so how could yourself and Aidan be the same poster?

Very simply really, you write the two comments using, say, Microsoft Word then access your internet browser and open two tabs. Log onto EI normally in one of them and then access a proxy website with the other, use the proxy website to log onto EI under Aidan's name. Then cut and paste both comments and post them. The proxy website will give make Aidan's IP address different to your own.

I'm not saying you did this, just pointing out that your argument was incorrect.

어리석은 백치.

The link to Aidan's identity has been posted here recently ............. look at username "hardman69r"'s recent posts to locate it.

The psychology jibe comes from the ridiculous attempt by you (and others) to actually analyis the personality of an indidvidual based soley on their username "persona" ........... that would only be possible if I ever divulged personal information about myself which I never have and won't start now.

Yes you may of course ask me how I know about Naomi's history and conduct within the escort word. No I won't tell you how I know ........... for personal reasons.

Regarding the impossibility of me being Aidan ........... well I wasn't aware of how to fool people with IP adrreses etc (which probably goes further to "proving" I'm not him) but you are so who knows how many usernames you are using on here!

A well respected and well known escort has posted on here to confirm I'm not Aidan, this escort actually does know me personally.
Patricia, the owner of this site, has posted to confirm I'm not Aidan ......... she knows Aidan personally.

Any more questions then please don't hesitate.

Paws

[bigpaws]

I have not seen Naomi yet but i definitely will next time i can after this. I dont read into all this debate at all, i reckon she is great. Cant wait to meet the girl.

That's the beauty of this country ................ we are all free to make mistakes ............ but at least now you can't say you haven't been warned!!

Paws

[iceman732]

Paws,

Well with regard to the IP address comment, you were hardly going to come out and say you know are to manipulate IP addresses. The fact is irrelevant as I have no idea who you are and I also have no interest in knowing who you are.

I'm quite interested as to know how to you seem have such a personal relationship with so many escorts. I'm going to take a guess when I say that I imagine escorts aren't in the habit of divulging personal information with clients. I'm going to assume that in order to know such information (I'm assuming all of this actually happened, which of course it didn't) you have some role to play in the sex industry in Ireland. You could of course be a Garda who was involved in the case, highly unlikely as you are one idiot of a Garda of that's the case. In fact I imagine you are an idiot full stop.

On the psychology side of things. Anyone who as taken the time to study the subject of psychology and medicine in general will know that a person will always take on a 'persona' that is in some way relevant to themselves. Of you may not be an arrogant pig in your everyday life, you might only take the 'persona' on when you let your fingers lose on EI. Naturally your behavioral partners are as a result of your upbringing, perhaps your father was arrogant? So anyone who attempted to describe your persona, may in-fact have hit the nail on the head.

So Patricia knows you too? Interesting as EI is owned in the UK......


Идиот

[bigpaws]

Paws,

Well with regard to the IP address comment, you were hardly going to come out and say you know are to manipulate IP addresses. The fact is irrelevant as I have no idea who you are and I also have no interest in knowing who you are.

I'm quite interested as to know how to you seem have such a personal relationship with so many escorts. I'm going to take a guess when I say that I imagine escorts aren't in the habit of divulging personal information with clients. I'm going to assume that in order to know such information (I'm assuming all of this actually happened, which of course it didn't) you have some role to play in the sex industry in Ireland. You could of course be a Garda who was involved in the case, highly unlikely as you are one idiot of a Garda of that's the case. In fact I imagine you are an idiot full stop.

On the psychology side of things. Anyone who as taken the time to study the subject of psychology and medicine in general will know that a person will always take on a 'persona' that is in some way relevant to themselves. Of you may not be an arrogant pig in your everyday life, you might only take the 'persona' on when you let your fingers lose on EI. Naturally your behavioral partners are as a result of your upbringing, perhaps your father was arrogant? So anyone who attempted to describe your persona, may in-fact have hit the nail on the head.

So Patricia knows you too? Interesting as EI is owned in the UK......


Идиот

You know this has never happened before ............. somebody coming on here and deciding to challenge me and expose me with half-assed guesses and .......... oh wait ............ that actually has happened before ............ several times!!!

Can I be bothered to deal with another wannabe??? Eh ............ no.

Paws

[Magicman]

Iceman,

It is dangerous to make assumptions about anyone based upon a lack of knowledge or armed with insufficient information. You do not know Bigpaws so you are not in a position to make any type of psychological assertations about him.

However if you wish for observations here are a few you might take on board.

(1) You have a very bad grasp of the English language, judging from the number of misspellings and the lack of grammer in your last post. Just looking at the first sentence of the third paragraph shows a total lack of grammatical knowledge. It is an incomplete sentence.

(2) You are certainly not a Psychologist as you would have written "On the pschological side of things."

(3) You wish to give the impression that you have an understanding of other languages with the use of the Russian word "Идиот", meaning idiot, which may be the persona that is revelant to yourself.

(4) You do not read any better than you write. You show an inability to grasp facts or else you choose to ignore them. Bigpaws didn't claim to know Patrica. Patricia knows Aidand and it was Patrica who verified that Bigpaws wasn't Aidand.

However I have to agree with you that it would be of interest to know how Bigpaws knows so many details about so many escorts and to know from where this font of knowledge springs.

Should he wish to disclose this information I'll be all ears but should he decide to kepp it private then I'll respect that privacy as I would hope that he would respect mine if the situtation were reversed.

Cheers,
magicman

[Alec Horan]

Narcissists are often self-delusional.

Don't get me wrong, I think that confabulations are an important part of life. They serve to heal emotional wounds or to prevent ones from being inflicted in the first place. They prop-up the confabulator's self-esteem, regulate his (or her) sense of self-worth, and buttress his (or her) self-image. They serve as organizing principles in social interactions.

Father's wartime heroism, mother's youthful good looks, one's oft-recounted exploits, erstwhile alleged brilliance, and past purported sexual irresistibility - are typical examples of white, fuzzy, heart-warming lies wrapped around a shriveled kernel of truth.

But the distinction between reality and fantasy is rarely completely lost. Deep inside, the healthy confabulator knows where facts end and wishful thinking takes over. Father acknowledges he was no war hero, though he did his share of fighting. Mother understands she was no ravishing beauty, though she may have been attractive. The confabulator realizes that his recounted exploits are overblown, his brilliance exaggerated, and his sexual irresistibility a myth.

Such distinctions never rise to the surface because everyone - the confabulator and his audience alike - have a common interest to maintain the confabulation. To challenge the integrity of the confabulator or the veracity of his confabulations is to threaten the very fabric of family and society. Human intercourse is built around such entertaining deviations from the truth.

This is where the narcissist differs from others (from "normal" people).

His very self is a piece of fiction concocted to fend off hurt and to nurture the narcissist's grandiosity. He fails in his "reality test" - the ability to distinguish the actual from the imagined. The narcissist fervently believes in his own infallibility, brilliance, omnipotence, heroism, and perfection. He doesn't dare confront the truth and admit it even to himself.

Moreover, he imposes his personal mythology on his nearest and dearest. Spouse, children, colleagues, friends, neighbors - sometimes even perfect strangers - must abide by the narcissist's narrative or face his wrath. The narcissist countenances no disagreement, alternative points of view, or criticism. To him, confabulation IS reality.

The coherence of the narcissist's dysfunctional and precariously-balanced personality depends on the plausibility of his stories and on their acceptance by his Sources of Narcissistic Supply. The narcissist invests an inordinate time in substantiating his tales, collecting "evidence", defending his version of events, and in re-interpreting reality to fit his scenario. As a result, most narcissists are self-delusional, obstinate, opinionated, and argumentative.

The narcissist's lies are not goal-orientated. This is what makes his constant dishonesty both disconcerting and incomprehensible. The narcissist lies at the drop of a hat, needlessly, and almost ceaselessly. He lies in order to avoid the Grandiosity Gap - when the abyss between fact and (narcissistic) fiction becomes too gaping to ignore.

The narcissist lies in order to preserve appearances, uphold fantasies, support the tall (and impossible) tales of his False Self and extract Narcissistic Supply from unsuspecting sources, who are not yet on to him. To the narcissist, confabulation is not merely a way of life - but life itself.

We are all conditioned to let other indulge in pet delusions and get away with white, not too egregious, lies. The narcissist makes use of our socialization. We dare not confront or expose him, despite the outlandishness of his claims, the improbability of his stories, the implausibility of his alleged accomplishments and conquests. We simply turn the other cheek, or meekly avert our eyes, often embarrassed.

Moreover, the narcissist makes clear, from the very beginning, that it is his way or the highway. His aggression - even violent streak - are close to the surface. He may be charming in a first encounter - but even then there are telltale signs of pent-up abuse. His interlocutors sense this impending threat and avoid conflict by acquiescing with the narcissist's fairy tales. Thus he imposes his private universe and virtual reality on his milieu - sometimes with disastrous consequences.

Welcome to Narcissism 101

[Magicman]

Alec,
Always quote sources

The Narcissist's Confabulated Life

Cheers & LOL
Magician

[iceman732]

Challenge you?

Yes of course, anyone who voices there opinion must be challanging you after all Paws you are the king of the EI. Who elected you to be better than anyone else on here? I doubt anyone did.

The above post clearly shows how you are unwilling to answer almost all questions put to you. People, including your friend Patricia, were mockingly suggesting that a judge and jury be appointed to sort this matter out. I would love to see the reaction of the judge when you declined to answer how you know such information, sighting personal reasons. Do you think that would get you off? Personally I'd suggest you went for an insanity plea.

May I as you exactly what I want to be, or wannabe as you put it?

Everything you have said on all these threads are 'half assed guesses' are you put it.........oh wait...........they aren't, you know everything......... but because of personal reasons you won't want to divulge.

Fair enough but how about next time you keep everything that's personal to yourself?

I'd also suggest that you make an appointed with a psycholist, it might help with a temporary insanity plea.

[bigpaws]

Iceman,

It is dangerous to make assumptions about anyone based upon a lack of knowledge or armed with insufficient information. You do not know Bigpaws so you are not in a position to make any type of psychological assertations about him.

However if you wish for observations here are a few you might take on board.

(1) You have a very bad grasp of the English language, judging from the number of misspellings and the lack of grammer in your last post. Just looking at the first sentence of the third paragraph shows a total lack of grammatical knowledge. It is an incomplete sentence.

(2) You are certainly not a Psychologist as you would have written "On the pschological side of things."

(3) You wish to give the impression that you have an understanding of other languages with the use of the Russian word "Идиот", meaning idiot, which may be the persona that is revelant to yourself.

(4) You do not read any better than you write. You show an inability to grasp facts or else you choose to ignore them. Bigpaws didn't claim to know Patrica. Patricia knows Aidand and it was Patrica who verified that Bigpaws wasn't Aidand.

However I have to agree with you that it would be of interest to know how Bigpaws knows so many details about so many escorts and to know from where this font of knowledge springs.

Should he wish to disclose this information I'll be all ears but should he decide to kepp it private then I'll respect that privacy as I would hope that he would respect mine if the situtation were reversed.

Cheers,
magicman

I will answer you Magicman as best I can .............. my information comes from punter friends, members whom I trust on this site, escorts with whom I've built up a relationship based on friendship over the years and childhood friends who have since join the police force. There are others too but I would need to go into too much detail to explain my relationship with those people ............

Some of these people know me as "Bigpaws" and some know me as just a careful punter who wants to protect himself ................. very very few know me as both.

I thank you for respecting the issues of privacy which always come up in this business .............. I cannot (will not) go into minute detail because I would be betraying other people's privacy. I respect their privacy as I would (just like you said) respect yours ................

Thanks.

Paws