Timewasters???

[Busty Malena]

And sometimes I have true orgasms but not everytime, when I dont feel I dont fake them...... It is not necessary faking them

[Epsilon]

Even if you are correct Epsilon, that it is possible to respect somebody that you are only using for sex, whether you're paying for it, or given freely as in a one night stand, nobody can possibly say, that they respect all escorts including those they have only just met or have never met. It's like saying you respect all politicians, doctors, accountants, solicitors etc. Respect is something a person gets from you after you have gotten to know them well; they have earned it in your eyes for whatever reason. Or you respect a person from what you know about them.

I still believe it is impossible to truely respect a person where the relationship is based on making use of them. Any man who respects a given woman, would not dream of offering that woman inducements incl. money to have sex with them. It just defies logic. It would be the same as saying

Drug pushers respect the law
Muggers and burglars respect their victims
Politicians respect the electorate ( they only respect the verdict of the electorate because they have no choice )

I have an idea where your coming from Epsilon, and while my own sentiments are not that dissimilar to your's, I just feel that using the word 'respect' in this particular context is stretching it.

What are your thoughts on "empathise"?

Yes respect is earned, but you must show a certain level of respect to anybody you meet or have any dealings with. You dont walk into a restauant and make demands of the chef or of the waiting staff, you show a level of respect...
Empatise is not what i mean its totaly out of context.

[Epsilon]

This thread is becoming hard to my young brain

I think u can pay money to get sex and u can still respect the girl, the ideal situation is the man pay the girl without saying it is expensive or causing silly troubles, beeing respectuful, dont treating the girl as an object, causing her pain, and the girl does what she is offering, which is sex and "companionship", doing it kindly with a smile on their face, same if u were a nurse, a dependant in a store, it is very good when u go shopping and people treat u with a smile. It is better keep it simple, this is not about love or tenderness, it is a different thing. And regarding if we like doing this bussiness, I think u should do it if u think u do the right for u, for ur body and life, u took ur chance. But when u do it obligued or hating it, u should leave it, because it could becaume awful then.

Thats the point im try to get across here. Thank you Malena.

[skyblue41]

And sometimes I have true orgasms but not everytime, when I dont feel I dont fake them...... It is not necessary faking them

Well Malena I think it is clear that Carmen and yourself are quickly building a fan base. All I can do is repeat Ber's plea that you venture out of Dublin and give us who have left Dublin the opportunity to meet you. Hope you do a tour soon

[carlos marvado]

Q. Do I Respect Osama bin Laden?
A. No way.

Q. Would I show him respect/be respectful towards him if I was sharing his cave with him?
A. Do you think I have a death wish or something.

Differences between Respect (Capital R) and respect (small R):

Q. Should one show respect/be respectful towards escorts?
A. You should be polite, respectful and courteous to everybody?

Q. Should I Respect somebody that I am meeting for the first time and know nothing
about?
A. Depends on your criteria for giving a person your Respect.

Q. Am I really showing somebody Respect as a Person, if I offer them money so that they
will let me screw them?
A. I would answer no to this. But the answer for each individual rests in their own
conscience.

Most of the 5400 plus members of this site are either, punters or escorts, and as the only people able to post comments, we are never going to get the opinions of the vast majority of people out their who may or may not share our views on the purchase/sale of sex for money. Their views on how Sex and Respect co-habite may differ from ours.

However, Flyshit, I fully support and respect Epsilon's right to hold his views and to air them in this forum, something he is very capable of doing by himself, without your flippant and stupid comments. Open honest debate can only be welcomed, it does'nt matter a jot who agrees or disagrees with you on a given point as long as everybody can make a constructive contribution.

Heather, I'm glad that we both share a common enjoyment of sex, and no, I'm not one of those who believes that all escorts fake orgasms all the time. I've experienced the real thing with certain ladies. Take your point that while some are in it only for the money, others are in it for both the pleasure and the money. The only difficulty is knowing which is which, as all escorts try to put on a good act for the punters so that they think the lady is also enjoying herself. As I said earlier, the only way to know the real truth is if they know you well enough to tell you. By the way, if you selected 100 women for me at random (all ages, shapes, sizes and personalities), I think I'd be telling a little white lie if I told you I was going to enjoy sex with each and every one of them.

Spanish Malena, I'm delighted to hear that you sometimes have real orgasm also. They tell me that these are the best ones. Hope we can share one soon.

[Flypan]

Carlitos… yes, you can and must show respect to somebody who allows you to screw her for money, otherwise it will not happen. For her it must be a screwing (plus money), for you it may be something else, otherwise could you get away knowing she respects you as much as you respect her (e.i. nothing)?? As long as she respects herself, and shows her boundaries, I don’t give a dam about what respect means to you, other than your shity nickname and your fat (hahaha) wallet, as you pointed out. I am flattered that you take your time to read me and think about my post, and also go as far as to include me in your reply, I am honored. But I didn’t come to Epsilon’s rescue, I just came to express my own opinion, like everybody else, if you fail to see this that’s your own problem, if my presence here annoys you so much you may take one year off to some other website, or follow that email about the Buddha it may take you to the Himalayas and who knows you may experience something worth the trouble of being alive!!!
You are very boring... zzzzzzzz... too predictable.... zzzzzzzzz....

[bigpaws]

For me respect (in the everyday general meaning of the word) means being nice, friendly and polite to those peolpe I meet daily (strangers, escorts, the lad who works in Centra etc) and who are in turn friendly, polite and pleasant in their treatment of me.

There is of course another kind of deep heart-felt respect that you have for those people in your life that you have known for many many years and bulit up a bond/trust with ........... maybe that is the kind of "respect" carlos is mixing up with the other kind which Epsilon is referring to???

Paws

[Epsilon]

For me respect (in the everyday general meaning of the word) means being nice, friendly and polite to those peolpe I meet daily (strangers, escorts, the lad who works in Centra etc) and who are in turn friendly, polite and pleasant in their treatment of me.

There is of course another kind of deep heart-felt respect that you have for those people in your life that you have known for many many years and bulit up a bond/trust with ........... maybe that is the kind of "respect" carlos is mixing up with the other kind which Epsilon is referring to???

Paws

Paws you hit the nail on the head.....
Carlos just seems to be making a big issue out of this for the sake of something to do.. i think the point has been made!!!! Especialy considering this post is atualy about time wasters

[BruceAlmighty]

I'll chime in here only to say that when I read the review in question I was amazed and confused. Having seen Malena twice now I can confirm that I haven't been left waiting ever and that she is very conscious of providing an excellent service.

I do think some people take these things far too seriously and it is almost a personal insult if an escort doesn't do what they say/want when they say it/want it.

It is incredibly hard for these girls to be the ultimate fantasy to every guy who meets them, but in the case of Malena (and her duo partner Carmen), she really does try and I hope the chap in question tries to meet her again, as he will not be disappointed!!

[Busty Malena]

I'll chime in here only to say that when I read the review in question I was amazed and confused. Having seen Malena twice now I can confirm that I haven't been left waiting ever and that she is very conscious of providing an excellent service.

I do think some people take these things far too seriously and it is almost a personal insult if an escort doesn't do what they say/want when they say it/want it.

It is incredibly hard for these girls to be the ultimate fantasy to every guy who meets them, but in the case of Malena (and her duo partner Carmen), she really does try and I hope the chap in question tries to meet her again, as he will not be disappointed!!

Some of them are bitter, thats life
I hope we can meet u soon !!!!!