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    Ok, I admit it, I have an extremely sensitive cock. I'm unsure if its a blessing or an infliction though, as I'm one of these lads who can cum inside the first five minutes, but after a brief recovery period, I'm good to go again, usually climaxing in the next five to ten minutes again.

    I usually explain this to girls when I initiate the phone call, explaining that I cum quickly, but what I like, is maybe a hand, or blow job at the beginning of appointment to point of climax, (and get it out of the way) then maybe a quick massage so I can recover, then some sex in the last say fifteen minutes of the meeting.

    I guess my question is to punters and ladies alike, do you think this is normal/fair?

    To be fair, most girls have no issue with it, in so long as i understand that I have a 30min appointment.

    Others tell me I can cum once then I must leave.

    Surely paying for a 30min appointment should mean getting thirty minutes of time? Prices paid are based on time with the lady, not orgasm based?

    With my cumming capabilities, I think its a bit pointless paying 80-100€ for an appointment I will be shown the door from, five minutes in because have climaxed?

    Interested to hear opinions from others on this.

    Thanks.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BacardiacArrest View Post
    Ok, I admit it, I have an extremely sensitive cock. I'm unsure if its a blessing or an infliction though, as I'm one of these lads who can cum inside the first five minutes, but after a brief recovery period, I'm good to go again, usually climaxing in the next five to ten minutes again.

    I usually explain this to girls when I initiate the phone call, explaining that I cum quickly, but what I like, is maybe a hand, or blow job at the beginning of appointment to point of climax, (and get it out of the way) then maybe a quick massage so I can recover, then some sex in the last say fifteen minutes of the meeting.

    I guess my question is to punters and ladies alike, do you think this is normal/fair?

    To be fair, most girls have no issue with it, in so long as i understand that I have a 30min appointment.

    Others tell me I can cum once then I must leave.

    Surely paying for a 30min appointment should mean getting thirty minutes of time? Prices paid are based on time with the lady, not orgasm based?

    With my cumming capabilities, I think its a bit pointless paying 80-100€ for an appointment I will be shown the door from, five minutes in because have climaxed?

    Interested to hear opinions from others on this.

    Thanks.
    This is a big ask in 30mins, If you did it the other way round, as in sex and bj first, then hand job for round 2, then maybe it would be possible. But in my case I would never have penetrative or oral sex with someone that had already cum, as I always insist on another shower in between cums.

    I have a few guys that visit and its, shower, fuck cum, shower, fuck cum, shower. And even then I don't see how we could also get a massage in to, all in the half hour.

    You may be better to book for an hour apt and take your time to enjoy it.
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    In 30 mins....hmmmmm if you are good its not impossible to give me an orgasms, but I will "kill you" its sure
    I am not a mashine, so I think we need longer time together with real GFE its much MORE better for us....
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    Of course we can try the 2nd round but not in the 30 mins, we have more time to relax and after in the longer appointment ..... I had a very "enthusiastic" client in Cork last time....we tried 4-5x in the hour and he was able to do it..... every time, and I enjoyed it.... He wasn't young around 35-45 yrs but this "ages" the best for me. I think I couldnt do it with younger guys I am sure....I am not a clock-watcher....but we had a great time...
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    My sentiments exactly Josephine.

    There was one instance where I wasn't really on form that particular day, and I knew orgasm number two wasn't gonna happen. I just thanked the lady in question for her time, and the effort on her part and made my way back to work.

    Trying to over stay in an appointment is bad form in my opinion.

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    You pay for the time, not how many times you cum (with me) and I expect to have one too, so it's not all one sided. I find that helps to keep it going without a feeling of a production line kind of roll them out. The more pleasure I'm given, the more I want to return it. I guess that is pretty natural?

    Keeping clean is important, but the shower is in the same room, so doesn't take a second, plus there is always a sink and a face towel for cleaning up.

    The thing that bothers me the most is when there is no cuddle at the end. I like my cuddles!
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    Quote Originally Posted by BacardiacArrest View Post
    Ok, I admit it, I have an extremely sensitive cock. I'm unsure if its a blessing or an infliction though, as I'm one of these lads who can cum inside the first five minutes, but after a brief recovery period, I'm good to go again, usually climaxing in the next five to ten minutes again.

    I usually explain this to girls when I initiate the phone call, explaining that I cum quickly, but what I like, is maybe a hand, or blow job at the beginning of appointment to point of climax, (and get it out of the way) then maybe a quick massage so I can recover, then some sex in the last say fifteen minutes of the meeting.

    I guess my question is to punters and ladies alike, do you think this is normal/fair?

    To be fair, most girls have no issue with it, in so long as i understand that I have a 30min appointment.

    Others tell me I can cum once then I must leave.

    Surely paying for a 30min appointment should mean getting thirty minutes of time? Prices paid are based on time with the lady, not orgasm based?

    With my cumming capabilities, I think its a bit pointless paying 80-100€ for an appointment I will be shown the door from, five minutes in because have climaxed?

    Interested to hear opinions from others on this.

    Thanks.
    Everyone is different but I think to be fair if you expect to come twice you should book for an hour. Ladies might have bad experiences before where other clients thought they could come twice in half an hour and ended up overstaying, or the lady had to work every trick in the book to make it happen. This might then reflect on her attitude to you in your appointment with her, even if that may seem unfair.
    Have you thought about knocking one out yourself, then showering and going to visit a lady?
    Just for your own experience and skill in bed as a guy it might be worth practising trying not to come for as long as possible that first time. It will make your own orgasm more powerful. Everyone is different I know and I don't mean this post to be lecturing in any way, merely some advice.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Spanky Panky View Post
    Everyone is different but I think to be fair if you expect to come twice you should book for an hour. Ladies might have bad experiences before where other clients thought they could come twice in half an hour and ended up overstaying, or the lady had to work every trick in the book to make it happen. This might then reflect on her attitude to you in your appointment with her, even if that may seem unfair.
    Have you thought about knocking one out yourself, then showering and going to visit a lady?
    Just for your own experience and skill in bed as a guy it might be worth practising trying not to come for as long as possible that first time. It will make your own orgasm more powerful. Everyone is different I know and I don't mean this post to be lecturing in any way, merely some advice.
    I don't really understand what the problem is. I know if I was a guy and was the one booking for fun I would cum in the first 5 minutes, as it's the whole hype and anticipation thing. I'd be very disappointed if that meant I had to leave after wards or couldn't do it again, even though I know I would be able to given the right stimulation. That doesn't mean I'm going to be expecting more time than I paid for, so why make that assumption?

    It's swings and roundabouts. Some guys can't cum whatever, some find it very hard and it's a hit and miss thing. No one gives them more time because they didn't cum at all, so why it should work in the reverse I do not know?

    I think with some sex workers their rate of pay is so low then it may be an expectation, as they need to work more to make their money back, but that doesn't necessarily follow either from what is said on here.

    We are all different, there is no rule book. You will just have to ask each person and eventually you will find a few that you enjoy spending time with and spend more time with them, than keep moving on to the unexpected. Least that seems to be what a lot of the other guys do.

    Oh and ignore the 'leave it as long as possible thing'. It's easy for someone who is not in your position to say that. You either do it yourself before the booking or you find someone who can accommodate your needs, but trying to do what you can't is just going to add pressure and take away from the fun.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Curvaceous Kate View Post
    I don't really understand what the problem is. I know if I was a guy and was the one booking for fun I would cum in the first 5 minutes, as it's the whole hype and anticipation thing. I'd be very disappointed if that meant I had to leave after wards or couldn't do it again, even though I know I would be able to given the right stimulation. That doesn't mean I'm going to be expecting more time than I paid for, so why make that assumption?

    It's swings and roundabouts. Some guys can't cum whatever, some find it very hard and it's a hit and miss thing. No one gives them more time because they didn't cum at all, so why it should work in the reverse I do not know?

    I think with some sex workers their rate of pay is so low then it may be an expectation, as they need to work more to make their money back, but that doesn't necessarily follow either from what is said on here.

    We are all different, there is no rule book. You will just have to ask each person and eventually you will find a few that you enjoy spending time with and spend more time with them, than keep moving on to the unexpected. Least that seems to be what a lot of the other guys do.

    Oh and ignore the 'leave it as long as possible thing'. It's easy for someone who is not in your position to say that. You either do it yourself before the booking or you find someone who can accommodate your needs, but trying to do what you can't is just going to add pressure and take away from the fun.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Curvaceous Kate View Post
    I don't really understand what the problem is. I know if I was a guy and was the one booking for fun I would cum in the first 5 minutes, as it's the whole hype and anticipation thing. I'd be very disappointed if that meant I had to leave after wards or couldn't do it again, even though I know I would be able to given the right stimulation. That doesn't mean I'm going to be expecting more time than I paid for, so why make that assumption?

    It's swings and roundabouts. Some guys can't cum whatever, some find it very hard and it's a hit and miss thing. No one gives them more time because they didn't cum at all, so why it should work in the reverse I do not know?

    I think with some sex workers their rate of pay is so low then it may be an expectation, as they need to work more to make their money back, but that doesn't necessarily follow either from what is said on here.

    We are all different, there is no rule book. You will just have to ask each person and eventually you will find a few that you enjoy spending time with and spend more time with them, than keep moving on to the unexpected. Least that seems to be what a lot of the other guys do.

    Oh and ignore the 'leave it as long as possible thing'. It's easy for someone who is not in your position to say that. You either do it yourself before the booking or you find someone who can accommodate your needs, but trying to do what you can't is just going to add pressure and take away from the fun.
    I don't think I suggested there was a problem, and twice in my post I did say we are all different. The rest I was merely giving what I thought was some helpful advice but it seems to have annoyed you.
    I'm not sure what you mean by "It's easy for someone who is not in your position to say that". We haven't met.

    I know different people want different things from their dates with escorts. Some may want to become better in bed. Part of that is learning how to better control and time your own orgasm as you can't play pool with a rope. It was only some advice I wasn't trying to find fault with the guy but it may have come across that way to you. That wasn't my intention.

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