I am a slut!!!

[Clueless]

I have been thinking that it is fair to say that i am a slut!!

It is morally wrong to live a double life and see escorts and pay for sex- but on another level there can be great satisfaction and excitement in this carry on-

I would not use the term ' slut' for 90% of the girls that i have met as they are professional escorts and are plying this business to fund what they need in their lives at present-.

Anyway i would I would prefer to be less driven by my dick - just saying like!!

[Danny2011]

I have been thinking that it is fair to say that i am a slut!!

It is morally wrong to live a double life and see escorts and pay for sex- but on another level there can be great satisfaction and excitement in this carry on-

I would not use the term ' slut' for 90% of the girls that i have met as they are professional escorts and are plying this business to fund what they need in their lives at present-.

Anyway i would I would prefer to be less driven by my dick - just saying like!!

Link for the 10% ?

[ladiesman217]

Wait, what's morally wrong? Cheating on yer wife with escorts? Yes. Seeing escorts? Hell to the fucking no.

[Clueless]

Wait, what's morally wrong? Cheating on yer wife with escorts? Yes. Seeing escorts? Hell to the fucking no.

Why would no wife or girlfriend make it morally right?

[ladiesman217]

Why would no wife or girlfriend make it morally right?

Assuming that all is above order (i.e. that escort is indeed not forced against her will, etc), then morally there's nothing wrong with seeing escorts. Unless of course you're religious... in which case you need a shrink

At the end of the day, consensual sex is consensual sex. Fact that money's involved is neither here nor there. It's about time that morally archaic people/groups/organisations woke up and smelled the coffee.

[Clueless]

Just found this post -from a woman of course..


1. What right society has over me to accept their social customs, when they don’t even consider me a part of it? Even animals have biological urges which they have rights to satisfy then why am I being considered mean to satisfy them.

50% of society consists of women. I guess we do tend to judge men according to their behaviour.

Animals don't rape or seek to advance themselves where only money will buy them sex. You obviously have two good hands and you have brains. So do what decent people do, take care of yourself when the urge comes over you, but don't buy bodies.

2. How reasonable is society to expect me to stay chaste all my life and for whom when no one wants me.

At 28 you can hardly say no one will want you. You've roughly 40-50 years before you yet. Lower your expectancies and you might get luckier than you think. It is my experience that men who are at best a2 or 3 still expect women to be at least an 8 or 9 and of course younger than they are for mates (or even just lovers). Seek a mate among women who look like you, and you very probably will soon find one who doesn't do it for money.

3. Given the fact that my visiting escort makes me untouchable for women of dignity, why should I mend my ways now when I know that I shall never be accepted with honor no matter what I do now.

Because the more often you do it, the less respect you show women as a whole, and the worse your sexual and relationship habits and expectations get. Man up, become self-sufficient, go out and do something. Don't walk around with a hang-dog expression either. Life and the world doesn't owe you a mate. That doesn't excuse abusing women.

4. How is a man who pays for sex worse then wife-beaters, Serial cheaters, pathological Liars and even convicted felons who all enjoy emotional and physical intimacy with their respective partners? Why should he be put behind bars for something most of you get free while he is forced to pay?

He isn't worse, he is as bad. Prostitution is abuse.

5. Am I the only man in the world who seems to be suffering from this disorder or do other people have faced this problem and were they able to change things for themselves.

There are lots of people around like this. Newsflash: my now partner was a virgin till he was 39. He didn't go to prostitutes. He is a sweet, respectful, shy guy, not at all bad looking, and it was the most wonderful gift to show him what love and sex are. I cherish him, and one reason I cherish him for is that he respects women too much to buy them.

[ladiesman217]

Just found this post -from a woman of course..


1. What right society has over me to accept their social customs, when they don’t even consider me a part of it? Even animals have biological urges which they have rights to satisfy then why am I being considered mean to satisfy them.

50% of society consists of women. I guess we do tend to judge men according to their behaviour.

Animals don't rape or seek to advance themselves where only money will buy them sex. You obviously have two good hands and you have brains. So do what decent people do, take care of yourself when the urge comes over you, but don't buy bodies.

2. How reasonable is society to expect me to stay chaste all my life and for whom when no one wants me.

At 28 you can hardly say no one will want you. You've roughly 40-50 years before you yet. Lower your expectancies and you might get luckier than you think. It is my experience that men who are at best a2 or 3 still expect women to be at least an 8 or 9 and of course younger than they are for mates (or even just lovers). Seek a mate among women who look like you, and you very probably will soon find one who doesn't do it for money.

3. Given the fact that my visiting escort makes me untouchable for women of dignity, why should I mend my ways now when I know that I shall never be accepted with honor no matter what I do now.

Because the more often you do it, the less respect you show women as a whole, and the worse your sexual and relationship habits and expectations get. Man up, become self-sufficient, go out and do something. Don't walk around with a hang-dog expression either. Life and the world doesn't owe you a mate. That doesn't excuse abusing women.

4. How is a man who pays for sex worse then wife-beaters, Serial cheaters, pathological Liars and even convicted felons who all enjoy emotional and physical intimacy with their respective partners? Why should he be put behind bars for something most of you get free while he is forced to pay?

He isn't worse, he is as bad. Prostitution is abuse.

5. Am I the only man in the world who seems to be suffering from this disorder or do other people have faced this problem and were they able to change things for themselves.

There are lots of people around like this. Newsflash: my now partner was a virgin till he was 39. He didn't go to prostitutes. He is a sweet, respectful, shy guy, not at all bad looking, and it was the most wonderful gift to show him what love and sex are. I cherish him, and one reason I cherish him for is that he respects women too much to buy them.

Oh jesus christ.....

I've been doing this now, what, 7 years? Not once have I ever had the idea in my mind that I was "buying" a woman. How bloody archaic. Granted a lot of the world is still like that but still. I have nothing but respect for women, as I'm sure the escorts I've met could attest to.

Jesus christ all I can read from this is a "holier than you" woman. Jesus christ...... "Prostitution is abuse". When someone is forced against their will, yes. When otherwise there are violent actions taken against an otherwise independent male/female sex worker. Yes. When two people are having consensual sex no different than anyone else, the only difference being is that money has been exchanged, hell no.

It really depresses me, how "black and white" the world still is and how "black and white" vision is so rampant.

[alcatel]

Just found this post -from a woman of course..


1. What right society has over me to accept their social customs, when they don’t even consider me a part of it? Even animals have biological urges which they have rights to satisfy then why am I being considered mean to satisfy them.

50% of society consists of women. I guess we do tend to judge men according to their behaviour.

Animals don't rape or seek to advance themselves where only money will buy them sex. You obviously have two good hands and you have brains. So do what decent people do, take care of yourself when the urge comes over you, but don't buy bodies.

2. How reasonable is society to expect me to stay chaste all my life and for whom when no one wants me.

At 28 you can hardly say no one will want you. You've roughly 40-50 years before you yet. Lower your expectancies and you might get luckier than you think. It is my experience that men who are at best a2 or 3 still expect women to be at least an 8 or 9 and of course younger than they are for mates (or even just lovers). Seek a mate among women who look like you, and you very probably will soon find one who doesn't do it for money.

3. Given the fact that my visiting escort makes me untouchable for women of dignity, why should I mend my ways now when I know that I shall never be accepted with honor no matter what I do now.

Because the more often you do it, the less respect you show women as a whole, and the worse your sexual and relationship habits and expectations get. Man up, become self-sufficient, go out and do something. Don't walk around with a hang-dog expression either. Life and the world doesn't owe you a mate. That doesn't excuse abusing women.

4. How is a man who pays for sex worse then wife-beaters, Serial cheaters, pathological Liars and even convicted felons who all enjoy emotional and physical intimacy with their respective partners? Why should he be put behind bars for something most of you get free while he is forced to pay?

He isn't worse, he is as bad. Prostitution is abuse.

5. Am I the only man in the world who seems to be suffering from this disorder or do other people have faced this problem and were they able to change things for themselves.

There are lots of people around like this. Newsflash: my now partner was a virgin till he was 39. He didn't go to prostitutes. He is a sweet, respectful, shy guy, not at all bad looking, and it was the most wonderful gift to show him what love and sex are. I cherish him, and one reason I cherish him for is that he respects women too much to buy them.

Mallard drakes(male ducks) are notorious rapists.
Just saying like.

[alcatel]

I have been thinking that it is fair to say that i am a slut!!

It is morally wrong to live a double life and see escorts and pay for sex- but on another level there can be great satisfaction and excitement in this carry on-

I would not use the term ' slut' for 90% of the girls that i have met as they are professional escorts and are plying this business to fund what they need in their lives at present-.

Anyway i would I would prefer to be less driven by my dick - just saying like!!

Chemical castration.

Problem solved.

[bollocks]

I have been thinking that it is fair to say that i am a slut!!

It is morally wrong to live a double life and see escorts and pay for sex- but on another level there can be great satisfaction and excitement in this carry on-

I would not use the term ' slut' for 90% of the girls that i have met as they are professional escorts and are plying this business to fund what they need in their lives at present-.

Anyway i would I would prefer to be less driven by my dick - just saying like!!

Yes yu are a slut as we are all..Better to be addicted to sex than to be addicted to drugs,or gambling.